my gf & i are engaged and a couple days ago i left my house. and now shes all mad at me i had no idea i had to inform people when im walking in or out of my own house. i just felt like getting up and going to visit my friend i had know idea that i would have to tell her where im going.
i dont see what the hell i did wrong i was just gone for a couple days.
2007-02-02 19:13:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not used to people asking me things and im not used to people caring where the hell i go.
2007-02-02 19:21:43 · update #1
don't get mad with her,try to ask her WHY???
maybe she just misunderstand,good luck.
2007-02-02 19:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by ALOHA BOY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you have to ask this question, then you are not ready too be married. She mad because you didn't tell her you were going to be gone for a couple of days. How would you feel if she just left and didn't come home for 3 days and had no explanation for her actions. You would be pissed too. Remember you want to become one with this women so you have to understand her feelings about this.
2007-02-02 19:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are enganged, then this means someday you will be married. When you get married you CANNOT come and go as you please. If you leave for two days straight, when you come home, your wife will probably have done packed her things and left.
Although you are not married just yet, you need to start practicing, because you WILL be married someday to this lady and you will then have to report to her whenever you feel like leaving the house. (That's just normal married life).
If you were gone for two straight days, and she did not know where you were, then she probably thought you were cheating on her with some hooker. Be careful about going away and not letting anyone know where you are, hunny! Be very careful! Or she might get the wrong idea, and call off your engagement.
Cheers
2007-02-02 19:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So far you've got everybody's opinion on this and pretty much most of them are spot on, but I just have to say this. You didn't actually think you could walk out of the house and not tell her you were going to be gone for a couple of days and not tell her? Are you crazy?
2007-02-02 19:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by valducci53 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A couple of days?
A couple of DAYS!?
You're getting married to this woman right? I suppose that means you love her?
No note? No phone call?
You just up and left. I would have been P.O'd too. This is a dangerous world that we live in. For all she knew you could have been lying in a ditch somewhere with your head blown off.
It would be unnerving if she wasn't freaked out.
2007-02-02 19:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Snap Dragon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are some of the things you should consider before getting married. How do you plan to communicate with your partner? Do you know how to fight fairly? There will be things you disagree on. How will you handle this? Set ground rules for communication, making sure to discuss specific issues such as arguing, yelling, and name-calling. Are you able to resolve issues to reach a compromise? Having a life outside of your partner is vital, and it is important to maintain your identity rather than to lose yourself in your mate. Discuss how much time you will set aside to spend time with friends, or on hobbies. Are there certain activities that are expected to be discontinued or changed once you begin your married life?
2007-02-02 19:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U did something really wrong!!! At least as a responsible partner, u shld let her know where are you going...and furthermore, u said a couple of days! Reason she is mad, cos she is worried abt u, so don't blame her, the fault is on u!
2007-02-02 19:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...it's the couple of days bit that she's angry about. She was probably worried sick over you, not sure where you'd gone, if you were alright, if something had happened to you. You need to apologise to her because it was probably quite a stressful, harrowing experience for her. Next time, if you're going to disappear for a few days, tell her you're going to spend some time with friends.
2007-02-02 19:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by caz15th 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you live together you should at least give her the courtesy to let her know if you will be gone for a "couple of days". its not asking permission, but b/c you are intertwined with her life now you need to keep each other in the "know".
2007-02-02 19:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
interesting. i have also spoke of that my violation appeals have a tendency to artwork if I suck as a lot because the christian attitude ie. declaring the question change into valid because it were given countless serious solutions, many from Christians who gave sturdy biblical perspectives to the question. (for sure, this in uncomplicated words works if there truly were such solutions).
2016-10-17 04:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
Dear U have dont nothing worng , But that girl with whom ur engaged, she was worried abt u, thst why she shouted on u. Woh tumhe pan maanti hai, or tum per apna haq chahti hai, only thats why she ask u. thats all.try to understand her.
2007-02-02 19:18:31 · answer #11 · answered by jyotika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋