Alright....i'm 14 and i'm in love with one of my closest friends. I have no clue if i should tell her or not because i love her and id rather be friends with her than nothing at all....and if i tell her she'll either freak or will tell me that she likes me....im pretty sure she likes me but doesnt love me....and if she doesnt love me and we go out for a while....we're probably going to brake up and then never going to be friends again...i feel like a loser typing in my problems online but im really stuck and don't know what to do...
2007-02-02 18:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are really stuck. I like your appraisal of the situation. You must really like her. Your thinking long term and you realize that at your age two people are not together too long.
You can double your efforts at being nice to her. You probably have 6 years to make your move if you can keep it nice.
2007-02-02 18:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion should be very careful and move slow on this one. Give her signs, do a little flirting with her once in a while, try to find out what she feels for you first and then make a move. If she says she likes you, then in my opinion you guys will have a wonderful relationship since your already like best friends. and if she says no, then tell her you dont want this to affect your friendship and move on. Give her a little time if she says no that way it wont be too weird after, but at the same time keep in touch and make her feel like comfortable again.
2007-02-03 02:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by BellezaLatina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 14. wait. its not worth losing a friend. its better to have a friend that's a girl, then to have a girl that used to be a friend and is now an ex. and especially don't mention the word "love" to her. that should only come out if you're in a movie or if you are together for a long time.
2007-02-03 02:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by holymonx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really cute... dont push for anything..trust me its alot better to be best friends than a couple. you will start arguing about stupid stuff, she'll get mad, you'll break up and you will lose your friendship and your gf.
2007-02-03 02:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are experiancing puppy love. this is not the girl you are going to marry so do not even worry about it.
2007-02-03 02:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just speak up buddy be a spot
2007-02-03 02:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go to the movie with you
and then
:)
good luck
2007-02-03 02:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear. be more and more brave ... we are suppose to hear a lot of NOs in our life...
2007-02-03 02:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it buddy.
2007-02-03 02:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋