things were great at first. we have tons in common. everyone pictures us together. we still hang out a lot. he calls me everynight from camp. we do a lot of things together. we occasionally have sex together. but he claims he has no feelings for me anymore.
2007-02-02 18:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by lxcontursi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm sorry. if he has no feelings for you anymore, then it's not worth doing anything, unless he is really good in the sack. you should just tell him that you don't want to be anymore hurt than you are (if you are) and then try to find another guy, one who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.
2007-02-02 18:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by holymonx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this lust period people have in the first of relationships are hormonal surges.. once they pass, people either remain in deep love, or realize it just wasnt that great.. Looks like your man has fallen out of lust and just isnt into you now.. You however havent got to that faze yet.. Its better that you realize this now and not after youve been married.. Just move on.. You dont realize this, but you will and can have these exact same feelings for another man in the future.. Its natural and can happen over and over again.. Just try to get yourself wrapped up in a new hobby to keep your mind busy while Mr Right #2 is heading your way.. Goodluck!...
2007-02-02 18:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mintee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no feelings for you, why let him take advantage of you by having sex? That is so wrong. I know you aparently have feelings for him because you have sex with him. If he has no feelings for you anymore, why waste your time dwelling over it? Go find another nice body to get under that will have feelings for you back. Aparently this guy isn't worth your time and was just using you. Why don't you ask him why his feelings have changed and see where that goes?
2007-02-02 18:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no feelings for you, stop having sex with him! You're not going to win him back with sex. Stop. If he has no feelings for you, there's not much you can do. Right now, he's just using you for sex. You're basically a friend with benefits. Unless you want to remain that way, stop. You can't force him to have feelings that aren't there. Your best bet is to just remain his friend. Maybe his feelings will return but right now, it sounds like he's sleeping with you because he knows he can but, it does sound like you are his friend as well. Keep up the friendship but stop the sex. That's really all you can do right now. Hopefully his feelings will change for you but you can't force it.
2007-02-02 18:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, love falls out.
Most reason is becoming love with another girl or not fun to be with, or even just a sex friend... something like that...
Well yes, need to make him realize that he needs you.
Good luck
2007-02-02 18:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i hate to break this to you but you've been had. he's not worth it! just move on with your life... i bet you're still young and you have a lot to do with your life. and remember that when your starting SEX is never an answer...get to know the person better...meaning date him for years....then you will know if he is the one you want to be with.
2007-02-02 18:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then unfortunately, he isnt the one honey, sorry
2007-02-02 18:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋