Complicated relationship. He asked me out right while I was breaking up and our date did not go well. We still talk every now and then and are both attracted to each other; but timing is never good. About a year ago, his mom died; before the holidays, his mom's cousin started going through the same type of illness as his mom and he was afraid she was going to die, too. Don't think it'd be appropriate to ask him out on a date, yet (especially with Valentines' coming up). How long should I wait? And, I'd like to call just to make sure he's ok...Ideas???
2007-02-02 17:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not good idea, he is going through a hard time.
2007-02-02 18:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that maybe asking him out on a date wouldn't be such a great idea, but who knows?
The way I see it he could really use a friendly face, so give it to him! Be a friend and support him and encourage him through this hard times, and then just wait and see where that takes you!
Good Luck!
2007-02-10 17:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by sirhc_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out for a coffee and see where it takes you.
He may just need to do just that to help take his mind off things.
It never hurts to ask. If he refuses, just let him know u are there when he is ready.
2007-02-09 13:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jassie's mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably needs companionship right now. It might be nice for him to have a valentine, someone to confide in ,and help raise his spirits.
2007-02-02 18:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for coffee and conversation. Companionship might just be what he needs. You can decide after your first meeting just how soon he might be interested in dating.
2007-02-10 17:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can find a million excuses to put it off. TALK to him, be a friend when he is in need and the relationship will follow
2007-02-10 04:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart feels if you want to ask him out then ask him
2007-02-10 15:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could probably use someone to lean on and feel close to.. NOWS THE TIME!!!!! go go go go.....be there fo him....stop being so offish.
2007-02-10 06:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by kurtholzbacher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋