so...I need to break it off with a guy because I am not as into the relationship as he is. I am just not "feeling" it. BUT...I dont know how..I am not gonna do it over the internet but I am dreading doing it face to face. I will most likely end up doing that but has anyone here every broken up with a guy on the phone? is that shallow?
2007-02-02 18:05:59 · 6 answers · asked by ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i havent done that, its very shallow. do it face-to-face. don't be like britney spears and break up with him through a text message.
2007-02-02 18:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have broken up with a guy over the phone its not easy but doing it face to face might be best just tell him that u dont wanna hurt him just that ur not ready for a relationship at the time but thats totally up to u I dont know which one is easier but I hope I have helped you out
2007-02-03 02:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by david15882002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What... is this guy too hideous to approach in person??? Of course you can break it off in person. You should. If you have been sending out the right "breakup" vibes, then it won't be so intense for him.
Phone??? Na. Be a man about it. Face to face.
All the best.
2007-02-03 02:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u need to talk to him tell him ur no as into him as he is into to u. say u still think he is such a great guy but u just see u guys as friends and nothing more. Tell him u still want to be friends and mean it like still talk to him after so he knows u r being real and not fake.
2007-02-03 02:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person is the best way to do it. You are not a coward to do through phone or mail etc.
2007-02-03 02:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the guys that dumped me in crappy ways, I loathe them all. One guy did it with grace and respect. I still admire him and we are friendly when we bump into eachother.
Decide which kind of person you want to be.
2007-02-03 02:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋