Ok plez give me ur best advice ladies. I met this girl at work today and we talked for a while. I was kinda shy but i warmed up quickly to her. It was a cold night and i bought her some hot chocolate. Everything went well and I got her number. Now what do i do? How long should i wait before i make the call? When can be a good time to ask her out? I dont want to look desperate u know, she was a really nice cute girl and i dont want to mess this up. PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE!
2007-02-02 18:07:32 · 22 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, give it a night. Allow time for both of you to feel the sensations of being in a new & exciting relationship! Tommorow morning, give her a sweet call (but be sure not to wake her up...girls get irritated when she wakes up unexpectedly). Warm up to her again & mention her great qualities. For example, say how you loved talking to her the other day, how her style really attracted you towards her & add other sweet nothings. Then, ask her if she'd like to go out with you tonight to get to know eachother better. Take it slow, but make it flow ;) Good Luck.
2007-02-02 18:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by joggyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can probably call her tomorrow and tell her how much you enjoyed meeting her and that spending time in her company was a pleasure. Don't be gushy. Just say it like it is. Then offer the opportunity of her making the decision by saying something like, "Perhaps we could do something again in the near future. Here's my number or e-mail, please give me a call/a message once you've checked your schedule or once you've decided on a day that works for you." Thank her and say good-bye unless she wants to talk some more or wants to discuss the future date there and then. Do not push,okay? Be very sensitive to her responses and non-verbal nuances. Let her make the decision as to where to take it from there so she doesn't feel pressured.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-02 18:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her the day after and set something up for that night or if she's not available then, schedule something when she can. You don't have to worry about calling her too soon because if you do the worst that will happen is that she'll think it's cute or that your sweet. And when you ask her out make sure to discuss the date before you guys go out, surprises are over rated. A girl likes to know what to expect.
2007-02-02 18:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pop princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told her you'd call in [insert day here] then call her that EXACT day, honestly, women are NOT like men, and for us it feels bad when a guy says they'll call on Tuesday, but end up calling a week or more later... It makes us think that you really don't care of have no interest... Or worse, that that's the way you'll act if things go further!
So, if you told her you'll call soon, then do so! And just be yourself, just as nice as when you met her ;-)
Good luck to you!
2007-02-02 18:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it a couple of days and then call her, say that you are just checking to see how she is doing. that will make her feel like you care and also gives you guys something to talk about. Then after talking for a while, maybe you can find the best time to see if she wants to get together again.
good luck
:)
2007-02-02 18:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, just keep it low key like that for awhile. Trust me girls love that thoughtful crap to no end, and I should know I happen to be a girl. Let things linger like that for awhile then maybe ask her to go "out" for hot chocolate sometime. Your so cute for asking for the best op answer. God bless ya buddy.
2007-02-02 18:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually it's good to call within three days, otherwise she might think you lost interest or just were not into her. Give her a call when you feel comfortable...there shouldn't be anything wrong with asking her out on a date when you call her. Just don't make her wait too long before you call.
2007-02-02 18:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sharp, understanding eyes; a dry, rapier wit; athletic - which does not mean skinny, i understand a good number of girls who've finished figures, yet are in magnificent structure; intelligence; a well mannered nature; a bright smile; and a fabulous experience of style.
2016-12-03 09:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute story.
Wait a few days. And then call her.
Just ask her out and go somewhere where you can talk and get to know each other better so that you can determine if you really like her.
2007-02-02 18:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call in the middle of the week Wednesday... if you guys talked about any interest activities or maybe doing something together you should call and start from there...just be you and the rest will follow
2007-02-02 18:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by teabliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋