ok im 14 and im not fat or really ugly or anything but guys just dont seem to like and i dont know what to do. Everyone always says just be confident and think highly of yourself and be outgoing but that doesnt work because im like that anyways. I think im really pretty but i dont know what to do to get some guys to like me.
HELP!!
2007-02-02 18:51:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi i am alot older and a man . If you wont peapol to like you the 1st thing you need to do is know yourself and be yourself , If you are into moveis hang with peapol that are into moveis , you will meet some one that has the same intrests.
2007-02-02 18:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, hun. You're still a baby. I don't mean to trivalize what you're feeling because believe me, we all felt that way at 14. The teenage years are really hard. I wouldn't be a teen again if you paid me! Anyway, don't worry about guys for now. I know that isn't what you want to hear because it seems like everyone around you has a boyfriend but, you've got plenty of years to worry about guys. They will always be there.
All you can do right now is what you already stated. Be confident & outgoing. If you really want to meet a guy you have a shot with, join some clubs or participate in a school activity. You'll meet guys who have similar interests that you might hit it off with. You can't force the whole "get a guy" thing, it will happen when it's suppose to. Right now the guys your age are pretty immature and fickle. Wait until they grow up and then figure out which one you want to pick. lol In the meantime, get out there and live your life. Do things that interest you. Once you stop dwelling on getting a guy, it'll happen for you. A watched pot never boils. In other words, don't obsess over it and let time do it's thing. Someone will come along, trust me.
2007-02-03 03:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys at your age are not really in to the dating thing. Give them a chance to get caught up to your idea of wanting a girl. It might take a couple of years to get interested in really dating. The boys who are around 16 or 17 might be interested in being your boyfriend. An other thing you might do is to learn and be able to talk about the things guys talk about.
2007-02-03 03:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just gotta be patient. Its hard to do, especially at 14, but please don't get discouraged. I didn't start dating until about 18.
It always seems that on TV relationships start when you are young. Or you will see some of your friends dating when they are young, but love happens for people at different times and ages, don't stress too much.
I would recommend practice being friendly to people. Just smile at everyone, strangers friends and everyone. Practice making conversation with people, do small things to get out of your comfort zone so that you continue to grow. At 14 its just important that you continue to develop social skills.
But above all don't get too stressed out about it. It happens in time.
2007-02-03 02:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by johnson1232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to look more older then you are,your emphaty level is low, spoke with guys about intimate personal things, they will asociate you with the things that you were spoken , and you'll become a personal closer person for them,...be simple and modest.Be uncofident, the guys like to feel protectors and powerfull , to cry on there shoulders, simulate more behaviors see what it came out of this....
2007-02-03 03:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by bazbaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is dating really important at 14? I didn't start dating until I was 16ish. And I'm thankful for that. I wish I had waited a bit more.
2007-02-03 02:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why guys aren't talking to you, why do you need someone else to show you that they like you, just let the guys come to you everyone goes through that stage.Just be patient.
2007-02-03 02:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, make guys like you, it doesnt matter how u look, its the confidence of you.
2007-02-03 02:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want us to help you?
We don't know what you expect us to help.
2007-02-03 02:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ask your mother
2007-02-03 02:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by helen. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋