2007-02-02 18:52:31 · 23 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why'd you marry her in the first place???
2007-02-02 18:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as she is already your wife that means:
1. At the moment you made deceision to be with her forever - she had a personality and she was not boring.
2. Something made her loose her personality and become boring individual - maybe this "something" is you?
Have been there, it's like sleeping for years and results are terrible, one day you wake up and realize that you have lost too many years sleeping, too many years living with somebody elses life not caring about your needs, not caring about your own happiness - then comes the anger!
So be careful, be first to reach to her and try to help her, try to find out what is going on in her mind or as soon as she wakes up you will loose her.
It's like a fairy tale about sleeping beauty - the person who wakes her up is going to be the person she is going to stay with - hope you understand what I mean by that!
Good Luck ... and a lot of patience! : )
2007-02-02 20:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I have no idea because I would not have married someone like that. But if I somehow did marry someone like that, I'd probably do my best to make things best out of things and take care of her. Maybe she simply appears to have no personality and is boring because she is unhappy as well, so be sure to analyze the husband!
2007-02-02 18:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by TCSO 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and communicate with one another. Talk about what got you guys interested in each other in the first place. Make one or two nights date nights. Go out to a movie, dance, dinner, hang out with friends, have a drink in a bar. Anything that entails the both of you being alone and sharing good quality time.
2007-02-02 19:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have always wondered why some guys go for dull gurls who aren't even tha great looking
sorry dude
fwa ha ha...
i'm hott
play sports
videogames
dance
guitar
art
rock climbbb
lived in other countries
love musik from all over the world
PARTTTTYYYY!!!
comic booookkkssss
action figuressss
dirttttyyyy jokkkeeeesss
oh well
i'm too young but i'm sure u passed up other gurls like me...
although we're rare;D
divorce her
dull gurlssss r DULLLLLLXD
k fomeeee!!!!!!!
buuuupooooxD
aajajaj
xaoxD
she isn't gonna become interestingxD
she's jus dullxD
deal with it ...
or don't
jus don't cheat
xD
2007-02-02 19:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't personally marry someone like that in the first place. I would suggest doing something that's "once in a lifetime". like jumping out of a plane, or snorkling. Something that would make her pee her pants to where she can only laugh about it and become more comfortable in her own skin so that then she can become more comfortable with you
2007-02-02 19:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by tekkentag4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
About the way wives deal with there boring, fat, stupid, with no personality----throw up every day!! Then find a good attorney!
2007-02-02 19:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by kimberlee g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be you are the boring one? Were you hard up before you married or just hard?
2007-02-02 18:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things to inspire her happiness.. make her feel loved... appreciated... admired... make her laugh... do nice things for her often...thank her...possibly she is depressed also... she may need some medical intervention.. plan something nice for just her... make her feel special. Engage in her kind of play with her...figure out what makes her laugh...tick.. it may be part of her personality to be serious... see if you can lighten her up in a fun way... don't let her take your spirit away. . this could be a way of trying to control your happiness. . don't let anyone take this from you...
2007-02-02 19:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by CHERI * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay maybe you dont give her enough in bed and she doesnt like your picture (meaning down below) so if you dont want boring become a pimp and fu*ck girls all night if thats the attention your looking for isint it (ill be one of those girls)
2007-02-02 19:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Koolpupz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be humane please.When you first married she is everything to you. Now she is in such a situation you try to abandon her,if i may say so.Keep her and keep your vow.Try all means to change her attitude.Be patient.
2007-02-02 18:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by batu5001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋