Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

What is the biggest age difference between u and someone u have dated?

2007-02-01 01:56:42 · 22 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do or where i stand with regards to the house.

2007-02-01 01:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by jessicaandmo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you have been caught out by your partner what did you do?

2007-02-01 01:54:48 · 17 answers · asked by honey xx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My partner will be 24 soon, we have a 2.5yr old girl together and expecting a little boy anyday now. Will he be 'allowed' the snip on the NHS or is there a certain criteria you have to meet (age limit etc?)

2007-02-01 01:54:40 · 9 answers · asked by Lou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have a 2 year old son and my family still doesn't understand that we can take it from here, we're constantly getting unsolicited advice on how to bring up our child. how do you tell family that you've had enough when you know their heart is in the right place.

2007-02-01 01:54:02 · 15 answers · asked by tuebi 1 in Family

Two days ago I hung out with this girl I like and her friend, we went to a lot of places such as the mall and a bagel shop. It was a pretty fun day, However and I know this isn't really a big deal, but they didn't say thank you or anything when i bought them lunch, bought the tickets for some rides, etc. Overall though it was a pretty fun day. When I dropped off the girl I like, she said to call her today, so I did of course she didn't answer, I left a message, I know shes probably at school but we always hang out during the day LOL, and never for some reason after school. I'm starting to think she might be using me to get out of school, and to buy her everything, I still really like her though, but I'm not sure she likes me or is just using me. BTW I'm in college shes in high school. Anyways should I wait to see if she calls after school and wants to maybe hang out after school, or should I take this as a sign of not wanting to hang out?

2007-02-01 01:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 43 year old woman, engaged to a 36 year old man.

My fiance and I are not having sex as much as I want to, and my sister suggested we try pornography.

Has anyone else had this experience?

2007-02-01 01:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

have been with my bf for about 5 months...the first 3 months were honestly OUT OF THIS WORLD. I couldnt get enough of him and I still cant. It has moved VERY quickly and we are now living with each other and he talks about marriage often. But for the past 2 months I have been questioning my feelings about him (I am a hypocondriac and worry about a lot of irrelevant stuff) I still love spending time with him, having sex with him, trust him, like doing nice things for him. I would rather spend my time with him rather than my friends.

This relationship is my 1st non dramatic one. It is very healthy and alot of romance involved. Everyone says that I look very happy when I am with him. That said I am not jealous of him and I trust him 100%. I have never trusted anyone before in my life and I question if the only reason I am not jealous and I trust him must be cause I dont care if he is with another woman? My past relationship involved an extent of emotional abuse and brainwashing. I'm not one of those woman that doesnt think I deserve to be treated nicely. I do think I should be but it is almost like I get turned off with the "niceness." My ex and I broke up about 1.5 year ago but he still sometimes creeps into my mind during the hard times. I would never even consider talking to him again but I dream about him off and on and that makes me upset.

I feel as though I dont love my current boyfriend unconditionally. I think he is very attractive. Am I only with him for his looks and the materialism? He is definetely a good guy, genuine, honest, trustworthy, humourous but I dont feel like I appreciate that about him. In my past relationship I always had this gut feeling that things were gonna work out for the 2 of us but obviously didnt for abusive issues. Now in this relationship I dont know if he is the one. I want him to be but I feel as though I dont feel as strongly for him as I did my ex...

Sorry about the long question...any suggestions?
I just got a really good answer to this question and she asked if he does these 5 things.......And he does....I think he would say the same about me but I right now dont feel like I can say yes on my part so I make him happy? Yes I think so. Does I respect him? Yes, but goof off sometimes. Am I considerate of his feelings? Yes but I hate it when he acts like momma's boy...Do I love him no matter what? I dont know thats what I am trying to figure out and finally does he trust me? Yes, I am not a cheater! I just dont understand cause I want to spend all my free time with him yet I question my feelings constantly.....
Does he make me happy?
Does he respect me?
Is he considerate of my feelings?
Does he love me no matter what?
Does he trust me?

2007-02-01 01:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah, I guess it's early right now, but I was wondering. My BF lives in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, halfway across the globe, and we decided not to mail each other anything to keep our relationship a secret from our parents. I have no idea what I should do, any good ideas?

ps. ABSOLUTELY NO E-CARDS. Those are Cheesy....

2007-02-01 01:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 01:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Katie L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this guys told me that he really love me,but i don't know if i feel also the same way,i can feel and prove it that yah he really love me but for my self i can't feel the same way ,just what i feel just i like him and feel pity,i don't want to hurt him?what should i do...?help me please,,?

2007-02-01 01:52:02 · 2 answers · asked by chinita_kath22 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

dear evey turkish men and women could you be ale to answer me this question?? i like to know if turkish men are married and they have children do turks men take care their children very well or ......
do they marry to one lady only or a few?? because i am in love with turkish man, i would like to trust him more because i guess you will know the habit of turk people especially the men from turkey, if turkish men can not trust and what is problem with them can you tell me please. because i don't want to put my life down as the other people after they been married they always ask " am i married to a wrong man?" because i don't want to be hurt in the end and i don't want to ask what most people ask me.

2007-02-01 01:51:58 · 7 answers · asked by GonE 3 in Singles & Dating

ok ive been with this guy for almost 8 mothns and he says he loves me ...what are some signs to tell that he truly means it.. im kinda fuzzy about it cuz all i use to date were jerks who cheated on me and did'nt treat me right ? i am so confused.....just right now im so confused about mine and his feelings

help!?!??!?!

2007-02-01 01:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by juggalette jade 2 in Singles & Dating

If so then answer this question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AimybuAOKdLCPWPL_IOD9s_sy6IX?qid=20070129104120AAB4FqT and also state below that you have done it and I will give you the best answer to both of my questions.

2007-02-01 01:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by anon4nw 2 in Singles & Dating

I just met this nice guy a week ago but he stares at me all the time and when a pretty girl walks by he doesnt even look....he even stares at my lips. He smiles at me all the time and tries to figure out what I wear so he can wear the brands I like for example Ralph Lauren. I stated at times I wanted to go to a movie or a fair and he adds that he will go with me. Recently he told me that he misses me and my company. Is this a potential clinger or just wants a relationship?

2007-02-01 01:49:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A playground for "special" people? Yes, including me!

2007-02-01 01:48:21 · 20 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

The lack of self worth on here?I mean,partners cheating and hitting each other and people ask should they forgive them?Each to their own-whatever floats your boat-but only if it suits all parties.Surely if it's a one way street you all know it's not right?

2007-02-01 01:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by *charmer* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 3 beautiful sons and wanted to have a special dance for my wedding day with them and was curious if anybody had any suggestions about a song for a mother and her sons to dance to.

2007-02-01 01:46:33 · 13 answers · asked by bowlingmommy1231 1 in Weddings

i have friend on net.he is in touch but he answers only the question whisc i ask. he dont ask about me anything
does this mean that he not interested in me?

2007-02-01 01:46:05 · 15 answers · asked by ani 2 in Friends

I've been dating my current boyfriend for about a month now. We REALLY like each other and things have been going pretty well. He and I have both had some really bad past relationships so we have both said that being together is like a breath of fresh air. Like always there HAVE to be bumps in the road. First thing, All my friends like my boyfriend and my sister doesn't. She has NO reason not to like him and he bends over backwards to be nice to her but she keeps trying to convince me his isn't good enough for me. Second the last guy I dated and my ex boyfriend are starting to resurface. I've been up front with my boyfriend that they have been calling and I've told them to stop but as you know it don't sit well with him. Third, his ex girlfriend keeps calling him. This girl is everything I can't stand about women. He told me that he told her it's over but she won't take the hint. I KNOW my insecurities are starting to show. How can we ignore the outside world and be happy?

2007-02-01 01:44:55 · 23 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Singles & Dating

my freind died yesterday of a massive heart attack (he was only 29) his father found him and tried to resucitate him for hours but he had been dead for 6 hours already , he died in his sleep........ we were good fieinds and neighbours for over 10 years ..... i want to give a with sympathy card to his parents but i dont know what to write on it , short message or a long story of our good times ? what can i write if it is to be a few short words ? can you help me ?

2007-02-01 01:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by insenergy 5 in Friends

do you think that's a good idea?

2007-02-01 01:44:04 · 16 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3 in Weddings

I am getting custom fortune cookies for my boyfriend for Valentine's Day and I need some help. What kind of sayings would you like to hear if your girlfriend did this for you?

And keep in mind, I am not trying to be all sweet and PG...

2007-02-01 01:43:57 · 8 answers · asked by Trixie 2 in Singles & Dating

Every time we kiss softly and slowly, we get closer and closer. Really quickly, I feel "IT". Is this normal for a guy to get this excited so quickly? We love to kiss one another but just curious why he gets like this only seconds after we start getting into it.....

2007-02-01 01:43:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this girl and I were seeing each other, she then told me, out of nowhere, she just wanted to be friends. We stopped talking for a while, but i would always catch her staring at me in the pub and at school.
We are now talking again, on msn, and she keeps telling me weird stuff! Like how her parents keep wondering why she cant get a boyfriend, how her cat can't get a boyfriend, how she thinks she would get on really well with my mum, how she is really depressed and that she was happy a short while back ( we were seeing each other a short while back) .

are these signals to ask her again? or is this just the whole "friendship" thing she said wanted?

2007-02-01 01:43:19 · 19 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have cheated can you say why you did it?

Who did you cheat with?

Did you partner know the person you cheated with?

Do you regret it?

2007-02-01 01:41:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been datin for about 2 years now and he thinks im cheatin on him with another man! he says that his friends are tellin him this and he refuses to talk to me and i really dont know why! ive wrote him like 3 letters so far and still no respnese. he wont talk to me and he wont even look at me! when i am walkin he will walk in a different direction! wat am i supposed to do?

2007-02-01 01:41:41 · 27 answers · asked by Dausha R 1 in Singles & Dating

i just want to know for the guys do you like Big girls or Skinny girls or it does not matter just wondering because i saw doctor phill show it wa pretty good too

2007-02-01 01:41:12 · 15 answers · asked by Brandi S 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this boy but I think he still likes his ex and when they were going together he was telling me how bad he wanted to be with me. But now that they are broken up I don't know what to do. I mean the other day he said we go together now but he doesn't act like it.

2007-02-01 01:41:07 · 3 answers · asked by sexyja09 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my girlfriend to death and we have been together for a while. We live together and I can't take cleaning up anymore!!! My girlfriend is unorganized and leaves her things all over the place. I constantly have to remind her to pick up her belongings and we argue about this issue sometimes. Since we have been together i find that I am starting to have an obsession with things being neat and in order. I love my girlfriend but I don't want the maintenance of our house to be solely my responsibility. Can we work this out? What should i do?!?!?! Please help me!

2007-02-01 01:40:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships