Me and my boyfriend have been datin for about 2 years now and he thinks im cheatin on him with another man! he says that his friends are tellin him this and he refuses to talk to me and i really dont know why! ive wrote him like 3 letters so far and still no respnese. he wont talk to me and he wont even look at me! when i am walkin he will walk in a different direction! wat am i supposed to do?
2007-02-01 01:41:41 · 27 answers · asked by Dausha R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it be. Chasing him will not bring him back. If he wants to work things out, he will be back when he's ready to talk. Really, he should have talked with you about it first with an open mind rather than believing this based on what his friends say. If there is no justifiable reason for him to believe this about you, then there also is no justifiable reason for him to be treating you this way. This is likely the kind of unjust disrespect you will get in the future with him if for some reason you choose to take him back though, so think about it.
2007-02-01 01:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not cheating, Dump that little kid. Let him know that it's because he won't man up and handle the situation like a man would. Tell him that you need a man not a boy, one who'll at least get his facts straight before he makes any accusations.
Two years is a long time, if he doesn't trust you after that amount of time he deserves to be dumped.
Have you cheated on him before? If so, he has not been able to redevelop trust in you.
2007-02-01 02:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was there always such a high level of animosity with his friends?
Have you ever given him an kind of indication that you had even the slightest interest in another guy?
You've been with him for about 2 years and he's taking his buddies side versus even listening to you? Not much of a boyfriend you have.
Usually when a person is always accusing the other of cheating, it's because in actuality they are the one doing the cheating.
And by giving you the cold shoulder and not speaking to you? Why waste your time?
2007-02-01 01:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's horrible...i have been in a similar situation..it's really hard to convince a guy that you are not cheating!
but for you, you should just make him listen to you. He should trust you more than his friends. Also if he truely loves you, he will atleast take the time to listen to you. But again, it seems like this relationship is in your hands at this point...you should look into yourself and see if this is worth it. Do you love him enough? You know that saying, once a cheater, always a cheater? Well..some ppl belive in that hardcore.
Try your best to talk to him or else..just end it if it is going nowhere.
Good Luck!
2007-02-01 01:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY FAST!! He is no freaking good for you, I don't give a crap what you say. ANY guy who puts you down even ONCE is not worth it. It just means that later on he'll start hitting you because he knows he can without you leaving him or CALLING THE POLICE ON HIM. -which is what you should do if he abuses you. It's not friggen rocket science. If you can't find anyone better, you are so much better alone.
2016-05-24 01:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him sweetie!
2 years in a relationship is a long time!!! And it seems that he still doesn't trust you?!
Nah-ah.. not on!! Obviously you two know what a serious relatonship is all about seeing as you've lasted this long...
but he's treating you like a child... and he's acting like one!!!
what guy walks away from his girl? very weird... and he wont answer your letters?
What else does he expect you to do? he's childish, theres no doubt in my mind, and i wouldn't accept being treated like that, im sorry!
Tell him if he doesn't stop his nonsense, you're outta there!
think you're better off without someone like that...
2007-02-01 01:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anfieldgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would leave him. If he can't trust you then what is the whole point of being i a relationship. Trust is the key word to everything. he may be the one cheating or he probably feels insecure of himself. If you wrote him letters and he doesn't response that means he doesn't care about you cuz he would of response and be a man and face his problem. Good Luck
2007-02-01 01:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by beauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who needs him? You deserve better than that. If he doesn't trust you, ditch him! He's a loser. Move on.
He won't talk to you or look at you? His friends are telling him things? This guy is too immature to have a girlfriend. Leave him.
He may be accusing you because he's the one cheating... just a thought.
2007-02-01 02:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by turnerzgirl101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is everything in a relationship without trust you have nothing.If your boyfriend doe not trust you then he is probably immature and insecure and you are more than likely wasting your time.If he won't talk to you then you just need to move on if you can't even communnicate that is a huge problem.
2007-02-01 01:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you mean EX boyfriend? You dont need a man who wont be a man! If his friends opinion matters more than you then thats how it will always be... a dismal 2nd place in his life is definatey not what you want is it?
2007-02-01 01:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋