If you have cheated can you say why you did it?
Who did you cheat with?
Did you partner know the person you cheated with?
Do you regret it?
2007-02-01 01:41:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course not
2007-02-01 01:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes i have cheated,I have many reason why i cheat i have been with my baby father for nine years out of the nine years i cheated once my reason it is hard to know that you are giving it you all and best and when you are doing everything you can and he or she is cheating that hurt a lot and you are doing everything right no faults yes you might have arguments that is expected in every relationship. When i found out i was so mad i went and cheated too to feel better but i didn't. I cheated with someone that i knew from i was six an old friend and yes i told him who it was and no he doesnot know the person no way i would do that. And of course i regret it always but we got over it all still together take care.
2007-02-01 02:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes am a woman and i have cheated on my partner. I cheated on my partner because i had insecurities, i felt neglected within my relationship, but most of all instead of dealing with the issues we had I strayed away thinking that a love affair would make me feel better but it only made things worse. I cheated with a co-worker of mine. My partner did not know the person that I cheated with but eventually found out that I cheated. I can say that i do regret cheating on my partner. I invested my time and energy into an affair that wasn't going to go anywhere in the first place. I also broke the trust in my relationship. If I could do it all over again I would have stayed faithful to my partner.
2007-02-01 01:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I've never cheated on my husband now or my ex and never even cheated on a boyfriend.
I came really close to doing that once.. when I found out my ex-husband cheated on me. I decided the best revenge was to sleep with his best friend but luckily came to my sense and decided the worst way to 'pay him back' was to be better then he was so I didn't.. and he's felt like crap for the past 14 years because of what he did to me and ruined our marriage over. He also knew that I could have slept with his best friend too and I think that kinda got to him too.
I don't regret not cheating.
2007-02-01 01:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by sassydontpm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never thought I would be one of those wmoen, but yes I strayed. My husband worked two jobs and slept all the time. He wasn't bringing money home. The first job was a business he was starting and the second was a paperroute to pay for the business. I begged him to stop and just get a regualr job and he wouldn't do it. This went on for a long time. We never had sex, but if we did it was only for a couple of minutes, he got what he needed and I was just left there. I was paying all the bills and getting nothing out of the marraige. So, I met someone that lived everal hours away. He had just separated and wanted to be discret also. We talked for a while and then found somewhere to meet. It lasted a few months, then he had to go back to his wife to keep from loosing his kids. I am still married, but not happy. But, I stilol feel unappreciated and I hope it doesn't happen again, but I don't feel commited.
2007-02-01 02:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...I will be honest in saying that yes, I have cheated..though I may not have looked at it that way then..
My husband was 20 yrs older than me and was very verbally abusive to me... He drove truck for a living and one of the fellas that he had helping him on the truck lived with us.. As time went on, he started "pushing me" towards this person by sending us to the store together to get parts, leaving him home with me to help me instead of taking him with him, etc. This person was closer to my age and my husband just continued to push me in his direction and this person saw how he treated me day after day...
About a year after this person moved in with us, my husband and I had a big argument and when he left for work, I was not sure if he would ever come back... This person tried to comfort me and one-thing led to another...and well you all know the story..
So, yes..my partner knew this person. I ended up having a 4 yr relationship with this person and a son... My husband and I continued to stay friends, infact closer friends than when we were together... I can't say that I regret it, because I would be saying that I regret my son...and I don't regret either of my kids..
Though I could say that I do regret some of the things that were done and said back then...
Would I ever do it again??? NO, not a chance...
2007-02-01 02:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was about 16 I cheated on my boyfriend,. Somebody told him and I felt horrible. I am now married and have children and could never cheat just for the fact that I would never want to hurt them, and to think of all that I could lose. We have a right to imagine and fantasize, but it would just be so wrong to do it. So, if you are thinking of cheating, maybe you should try to fix the relationship you are in now or leave it, but don't cheat on your mate, it only causes heartache on both sides.
2007-02-01 01:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by hamera7925 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did cheat once & yes my husband knew..Our marriage was in trouble & I begged him to talk to me, to try to fix it.
His reply was " I am who I am Deal with it"
So I did........I found a man who wanted to be a loving husband & father & left my husband for him.
Then my husband realized all he lost & we both grew up alot and learned what was important in life.
I loved him so much but wanted to feel loved in return.
I was wrong in the cource I chose & I hurt my son, husband, family and even myself by my actions.
I moved back with my husband soon after leaving him & he forgave me over time...it was a long hard road & no im not proud of what I did but I am happy that it forced us to grow up & face life and now we are happier than we ever were before.
I was a 17 yr old bride he was 18 we have a 12 yr old son and life is good. I have forgiven myself for the mistakes I made & forgiven him for not being the man he should have been.
Ladies & men.......I do have some advice if your thinking about cheating.......
Remember this involves more than just you & affects others,
The grass always looks greener on the otherside.....but let me tell you.........IT'S ASTROTURF.........it isn't real.
Work on your problems at home...fix them..dont throw it away.
Its an even lonlier world out there.......stay home where you belong.
2007-02-01 02:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have cheated if thats what you want to call it. I been married for 24 years and for the first 22 years my husband did whatever or whoever he wanted to.Do i regret it? The only thing i regret is I came back home.
2007-02-01 02:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by snafudotcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup; i did it because my husband at the time was psycho and accused me of cheating every single day of the week while I was at work. i was 20 and figured if I was going to be accused of it I might as well get the benefit of doing it. it was a co-worker and no my at the time psycho husband didn't know or know of this person; which I find utterly hilarious since he accused me of cheating with everyone that I ever mentioned from work and no I don't regret it. it was a learning experience.
2007-02-01 01:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by rla26368 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did cheat on my ex husband b/c he was cheating on me and i found out. i cheated with my current fiance who i had known for years before i even met my ex. he did not know him and no i don't regret it, i eventually saw my ex husband for the sorry cheating scum he is and i left, having a real man on the side made me see these things. my life is so much better now!!!!
2007-02-01 02:34:44 · answer #11 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋