Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

If you read other questions I have asked in Marriage & Divorce, you will understand my situation better. There isn't enough space in the world to explain all the things that are going wrong in my marriage right now. SO if you really want to help you can read my other questions, otherwise here goes: My husband is in the army, had to leave this morning for two weeks of field training (will not be home at all). Last night told me he wanted to get out of the army before he is set to deploy April 15th. Which is something we cannot afford to do financially or any other way, we have a one year old daughter. We have been married less than a year. I suspect he has been using drugs. I found cleansing pills in our bedroom, a swisher sweet plastic case for a blunt, some plastic balled up in a store reciept.. He was using drugs before we got married but claimed to have quit before he joined the army. He has a drinking and anger problem as well, and treats me like crap. Read on...

2007-02-01 02:49:00 · 14 answers · asked by .*AnNa*. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

the "Walk of Shame" back home the morning after a wild night at a guy/girl's house?

2007-02-01 02:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by Derek Wildstar 4 in Singles & Dating

i made out with a guy in the library is that disgusting or not and wat is the weirdest place u have Done it

2007-02-01 02:48:25 · 17 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 02:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by Pete 1 in Family

you try telling him but he thinks its all a big joke???

2007-02-01 02:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by Elaine S 1 in Friends

2007-02-01 02:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by wendy@kevin s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 02:46:35 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

that is fighting all the time to not live together anymore and start just dating again till things get better?

2007-02-01 02:46:35 · 11 answers · asked by pponiatow 1 in Singles & Dating

Well its been two weeks since we have broken up. I have given him his space, ive begged, pleaded, and even sent flowers. It would have been two years that we have been dating in May. I really miss him. And even though he doesnt want me anymore I atleast want to be his friend. What can i do to win his trust and his friendship back?

2007-02-01 02:46:30 · 2 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is 20 and 6'5 and a genuinely nice person. whenever i am having a rough day or time i just like spending time with him and just being around him is comforting. he has some extra weight on him and has tons of freckles, but hes nice looking, at least in my mind. i feel is he strong and kinda like my rock when we walk due to the fact hes so big. there are times i get mad at him for being insensitive and not caring enough about my needs, but the times where he is in a good mood and sympatetic i have some feelings for him cause often nobody else cares. the crucial part is these are not sexual feelings, just feelings that want him to be healthy and happy. i dont have aspirations of kissing or anything with him. i feel weird about this situation. is there anything i can do or say to make it easier or any way to let him know without him getting the wrong impression, cause i dont want to lose him as a friend. any opinions or suggestions are appreciated.

2007-02-01 02:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know this 16yr old who has a bf of 18yrs old,she claims that true love has hit her.what they have nobody has she claims.the thing is her parents want to know the guy,bring him over.but the guy refuses to even show his face.as i understand it they say true love has no fear and fights for it.so can someone tell me whats wrong with this picture,not true love to me,is it?

2007-02-01 02:46:04 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

A woman I know who is 45 just found out that her 73 years old parents were both homosexual. The story is that they knew that when they married out of college. Had four kids, lived in a suburban picket fence neighbordhood but until they were about 60 ( for some reason they "gave up all that" then) and continue to live as husband and wife, taking care of one another in their old age. Although I wonder why they bothered to tell the kids, I told her there is nothing to solve or confront. Let it go.

2007-02-01 02:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some things I can do to gain the interest of a lady, who says she is interested, and other times doesn't really seem like it. I won't hear from her for days. Let me know.

Thank you

2007-02-01 02:45:37 · 1 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance left for a hotel yesterday with his army friends and sgg, to wait for the plane. He called me twice. The 2nd time i was crying and i was stressed, and i think that got him scared. Later at night, i texted his cellphone saying have a nice flight. He had to leave at 5am, and he phone is usaully on. Do you think his sgg took his phone, or something??

2007-02-01 02:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't mean this in a bad way, but I am starting to wonder do women set themselves up to be hurt when we expect our men to come through for us. I will give a couple of examples:

1) He said he was going to call so u expected him to. He then calls the next day and say I was watching the game last night sorry, but u thought he was going to call because he said he would.

2) You go out on a date & u would like for him to take u out, but u end up going dutch because he is on a budget. You would like for your boyfriend to take u without going dutch.

3) He says he will call u & does not but really does not have an answer as to why if u don't ask he just acts like nothing is wrong. Is that the women putting to much into a phone call & if u think so what's wrong with the women thinking I just want him to keep his word.

These are all simple things, but I am asking do we as women put to much into these small things, are u guys not keeping your word, or do u not think like that.

2007-02-01 02:44:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband knos I don't like it because they make me feel bad about myself, like if I wasn't good enough, but he gets excited when he passes it on the TV and then watches it for a while. I dosn't like when I wear short skirts or shorts and once I put some money in my bra (it's jus a habit, nothing more), and he told e not to do it, because only whors do that... WHAT? dosn't he like that if he trys to whatch it then? he says "would you let our children do that when we have them?"... well would you let your children whatch pronos with you? I don't understand
please help me

p.s. plz, no rude comments... I will report abuse if you do

2007-02-01 02:43:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 02:42:37 · 2 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister is 19 years old. We are the total oppisites of eachother. I am married and have been married since I was 18. I found a great husband and we couldn't be happier. We have 2 successful businesses together and I am in college getting my human services degree. My sister cannot seem to get her life straight. She is in beauty school and doing well, which I am proud of her for, but She goes from guy to guy, she has a different guy every month. She always tell them she loves them right away and sleeps with them. She was with this one guy for 2 months and they already had their wedding planned and kids names picked out. He broke up with her 2 days ago, which didn't suprise me one bit. My husband and I let her work at one of our stores as manager and she quit after borrowing over $1000 from us so she could go shopping and go on vacation with her boyfriend. She cannot even remember how many guys she has slept with. How can I let her know she is being used by these guys. We don't speak

2007-02-01 02:42:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this mornin my dad told me to get some extra clothes together (but he fussed while I did), but that i was gonna stay at my moms but he had a realy bad attitude I asked what was wrong and he said my mom needed to take some responsibility my mom has raised me since i was 71/2 i moved in with my dad about a year and a half ago he told me i couldn't go see my nanna cuz he didn't want me to be a burden on her it realy hurt whats goin on it's not bad enough he's with a woman i hate she's constantly talkin bout my mom not takin care of us. but my mom does even though she hasn't worked in over a year and neither does her boyfriend but she helps my lil brother with his home work every evenin and tries to make sure we get what we want and need all my dad does is occasionally give me lunch and break money what am i suppose to do my dads house is home even when his g/f is there she doesn't like me at all but thats ok my dads is home : (

2007-02-01 02:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiancee recently told me whilst we were busy in bed that she was definitely going to cuckold me. What does this mean? I am highly submissive and do whatever she tells me even to the point of dressing up like a tart for her. I'm assuming because she's dominant that it's something to do with that. Any ideas???

2007-02-01 02:41:49 · 8 answers · asked by nightshifter12 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i always talk about getting married,and i don't want to be dissapointed evnthough i know he feels the same way and well i need advice

2007-02-01 02:41:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then cry when its that long plz give us break then u see why we cheat n u stay single

2007-02-01 02:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by paul lee 2 in Singles & Dating

if you have a msn id and you would like to talk to me could you tell me your id and i will talk to you (i enjoy meeting new people)

2007-02-01 02:41:23 · 6 answers · asked by JSD 1 in Friends

i just started dating a new guy 2 days ago. im excited! its like a clean slate. i hope he's the one. have you just recently started dating someone too?

2007-02-01 02:40:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 02:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

o.k. i was wit this guy and i found out he was cheating but everytime he call you answer how do you break the habit

2007-02-01 02:40:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dont say neither, pick one...I'd rather have my heart broken. It stil hurts me when I break someones heart.

2007-02-01 02:40:05 · 8 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I hear on the grapevine that my friend Dianne think's I'm mad at her. Nothing could be further from the truth. I'm not mad at you, never have been. I hope this clears things up.

2007-02-01 02:39:48 · 1 answers · asked by Joshua 6 in Friends

i like this guy as a friend but afriad he is going to fall for me how to avoid that and give him the right clues to show that all i want to be is just friends and nothing more before he starts haveing feelings for me this is how it is with all the other guys plz help

2007-02-01 02:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by zoey z 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, so remember when I asked about the guy I was obsessed with? Well I'm not obsessed and he's single. He broke up with his gf a few weeks ago. Should I give him space or go for it? I mean I don't want to seem desperate..He's been really sweet to me lately and I don't want to take it the wrong way and get hurt..Any advice?

2007-02-01 02:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by poetchicka2 2 in Singles & Dating