my friend is 20 and 6'5 and a genuinely nice person. whenever i am having a rough day or time i just like spending time with him and just being around him is comforting. he has some extra weight on him and has tons of freckles, but hes nice looking, at least in my mind. i feel is he strong and kinda like my rock when we walk due to the fact hes so big. there are times i get mad at him for being insensitive and not caring enough about my needs, but the times where he is in a good mood and sympatetic i have some feelings for him cause often nobody else cares. the crucial part is these are not sexual feelings, just feelings that want him to be healthy and happy. i dont have aspirations of kissing or anything with him. i feel weird about this situation. is there anything i can do or say to make it easier or any way to let him know without him getting the wrong impression, cause i dont want to lose him as a friend. any opinions or suggestions are appreciated.
2007-02-01 02:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you both may be in the same situation. I know there are others that i enjoy being with and find very attractive but never thought of sleeping with eather. It nice having them around and having a good time mabey even coudling with out going the extra distance. you should have a talk with him and let him know you enjoy spending all your time with him and would like to be close friends and take things from there. I am sure he feels the same as you and then find out what yous may want down the road.
2007-02-01 04:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how much he means to you as a friend, not all feelings that storng have to be sexual! its a common thing to feel stongly for a friend and want them to know how much they men to you. just dont be afraid to sit them down and tell him how you feel. make him realize that looks arent everything and the worlds not out to get him or anything. yalls friendship should over come anything like this, just talk to him and let him know it. and tell him how you feel about him when he gets insensitive! it can only make yalls relationship stronger
2007-02-01 11:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel that he likes you, so given you have to talk to him and let him know. If you like him, then you are in control..TAKE IT FROM ME you have to do what feels right.
2007-02-01 10:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋