Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

i have been really stressed and i think its because of the guy i like...see hes kinda a jerk cuz he led me on then got a g/f...but now he doenst again...and the whole time he had this g/f he was still saying he likes me and stuff...but i dunno...and hes all under my skin and stuff...and its driving me nuts i dunno what to do

2007-02-01 03:14:39 · 13 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

My stepbrother is in jail and has been writing my family letters. Lately he has been asking about me. I haven't wrote him back bacause I don't want him to feel bad about anything, so what do I say to him. I don't want him to think that I'm avoiding him.

2007-02-01 03:14:07 · 19 answers · asked by Antonia D 1 in Family

wel d guy i like ( e used 2 like me b4 who askd me out n i sed no, wich im regretin n i think eh8z me) told me to get im that could song hav been a hint/ meant sumat or was it just a song he wanted? and what is this song trying 2 say? i dont rely understand xxxx

2007-02-01 03:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by ???????? 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in June, and we don't really have a song of our own, but I'd like a song saying how lucky I am to have found her...so glad we met, that she's what I was missing, etc.

2007-02-01 03:13:40 · 13 answers · asked by polli_d 1 in Weddings

we have been fighting for the past month pretty hard..not about anything certain but about his temper and the way he treats me. Last night I tried to sit by him and he told me "sit over there I need space" so I said " I dont know how much longer I can take your rejection" we went on fighting and I said that I should just move out. He told me not to talk to him for the rest of the night...I went in the bedroom, took a bottle of wine and had my own little party in the bedroom and watched AI :) We didnt see eachother or talk the rest of the night. He came in around midnight for bed (i was already sleeping) and he was snuggeling and holding me really tight like nothing was wrong. I was tired and did not hold him back and was trying to get my space but now today he acts like nothing is wrong. Do you think his holding me is his way of saying sorry? For the life of me I CAN NOT figure out men and what they mean. Can someone tell me what you think and how to handle a man like this? Thank you

2007-02-01 03:13:19 · 39 answers · asked by katie j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

long story but need advice pls...i met a really nice guy on new yrs eve through my best friend..we hit it off straight away and spent most of the night together...not in a rude way! lol...he told my friend that he really liked me and got my phone number..its bn 5wks now and in that time ive had one call and 1 txt and met up with him only once. he has constantly been telling my friend that he really likes me but is useless with girls and is 2 scared 2 call me. the prob is im quite shy too but have called him once myself. r we jus bein really silly and need a gd kick up the bum? is he genuinly interested or not? do u think i should give him the benefit of the doubt cos hes said he's shy? am i jus bein impatient? should i try and take the lead? or is he just a wimp? aaaarrrrrrggggghhh...i really like him...pls help...confused x

2007-02-01 03:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by carly-jayne r 2 in Singles & Dating

Your feelings are gradually changing to the point of no speaking. You feel used, taken for granted and just have nothing left to say.

2007-02-01 03:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by belmont5858 1 in Singles & Dating

If you hurt a girl so badly and knew it, and it had to end the relationship. Would you confront her or try your best to avoid her. Also, when the person you hurt cries, does that even bother you??
This happened with me and my now ex. He said he wanted to be freinds, but now he does not even talk to me. Even though he was at fault for the relationship ending, I have forgiven him to be FRIENDS, and at first he was ok about it, but now he seems to want to have noting to do with me. We always said to each other that we would remain friends. Now its not that way. I called him in tears and tried to talk to him and cried about it but I got nothing. He has changed, he doesnt seem to be the same guy I knew. He hurt me pretty bad, do you think he just feels guilty and ashamed? When we were together, he never disrespected me. When this all went down, the disrespect came out on both of our ends. But again, I am very forgiving.I cant hold a grudge with him.

2007-02-01 03:12:43 · 7 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a excellent relationship with my girlfriend.I love her to death It was her 25th birthday two weeks ago and I not only took her to a very expensive restaurant in NYC, but took her shopping and spent a lot of money on her. She had an amazing weekend and couldn't stop thanking me. She comes from a wealthy family, and her father who works for ESPN surprised her with three tickets to the Super Bowl in a luxury suite( all expenses paid to Miami, Airfare ,5 nights at the Ritz Carlton, dinners, and spa treatments. It is now my 25th birthday today and I am a huge football fan, she doesn't even watch it. She decided to take two of her sorority sisters from college to the game, she rarely speaks to. Now, I don't want to sound spoiled, but I think I have a right to be angry??

2007-02-01 03:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1 in Singles & Dating

Im just wonderin......im a little chuncky....i dont have a problem meeting guys or getting a boyfriend though.......

2007-02-01 03:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:09:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like him and he sits right next to me in class im at a virtual high school in a trailer building. and i don't know what to do....can someone help me???

2007-02-01 03:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by skool_gurl001 2 in Singles & Dating

She isn't actually even my mother in law(yet anyways). My bf and I are in a serious relationship and I am already having trouble with his mother. She is always telling me that I need to wear more make up or do this or do that, which tends to offend me. She also has talked crap about my family which really offends me. I really want to get along with her because she is my partners mother and I know that they are close, but I am going out of my mind with the stuff she says to me and about me. What should I do to come to a peace with her?

2007-02-01 03:09:22 · 12 answers · asked by hc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay like my 2 older sis always change the way i wnat things 2 go! oka yi got instant messanger and my sis took it off some how! iall my friens thought i was dissing them. then i got my mom to let me go to disney land and stay in a hotel for 2 days. and my sis talked her out of it! this happens every day even if it is 4 little things! she is always bossing me around! i hate it but when i tell her she just blows me off. my 2 older sisters R very colse and i am ALWAYS the odd man out. i love them but i sooooo hate what they r doing 2 my life. help?

2007-02-01 03:08:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My roommates and I have been friends for almost a year now. Fate brought us all together and we are all that each other has. We have been through the good, bad, ugly, and just plan stupid. And with this certain feelings can arise.
The story is that we are an odd bunch. Two twenty one year old females both poignantly different and yet so similar it is scary. He is nineteen and the savior of our lives. He has been our support system and the one and only guy that has truly cared about either of us.
My problem is, I have fallen for him ... and he has fallen for her. She doesn't want to be with him and I don't think he wants to be with me. But yet he sends mixed feelings to me. He will 'physically' be with me at times and others he is running at the mouth about her. He is captivated by her just as I am with him. Reminds me of threes company. My question is ... he tells her he cares about both of us. But, he always shows and gives her more. Does he even truly notice me?

2007-02-01 03:07:22 · 8 answers · asked by Echo Engel 2 in Singles & Dating

i told my teacher i was being bullied and this just made things well WORSE as she is going to tell the teacher incharge of the buses to show me some picatures and i need to choosse wich ones were involved and they are gonna hate me coz i dont want to grass them all up!!!!!!!! HELP MEEEEEEEEEEE

p.s i dont care if i can't spell as i am only 14

2007-02-01 03:06:29 · 21 answers · asked by <3 skittles <3 2 in Friends

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2007-02-01 03:06:26 · 5 answers · asked by hollywoodbaby2015 1 in Singles & Dating

l've been treated like a rag doll well ther reason why i say this because when i was in a realtionship with this all he did was use me and play mind gamesa and black male me well he's 35 years of age and i am 24 we have 2 children together and never there for them at all when we was together he disrespected me not only that he would never help me with nothing when the kids needed to go to the doctor he wouldn't take them i alway's went no only when he was unemployed and they kids was in day care and i wanted him to watch the kids since he was working he still wanted me take them too daycare he cheated and bragged about how good other women is and not only that have there nerve to say i don't look good and i'm fat and need to lose some weight so i ended the relationship cause i was tried very cause i was stressing myself out trying to make him happy and take care of my kids know since i've got myslef together he saying he's change and he go do right i don't beleive him i need your help

2007-02-01 03:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by MRS DEE 2 U 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my first wife got divorced and remarried also his girls parents are divorced and remarried.my son has all these parents to visit on xmas and they didnt have time to visit our family (dads side) sons girl said they didnt have time for our family so they spent xmas at home,so my wife got mad and told off his girl.I havent heard from her since.any sugestions on how i can get my wife and future daughter-in-law back together. They were close at one time and I would like that again

2007-02-01 03:06:14 · 4 answers · asked by bearman48064 3 in Family

he says that he's a natural flirt? But in reality, he hardly flirts.

2007-02-01 03:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by christypooh87 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a guy ive been crushing on and ill see him on febuary 10th again i dont no what to say to him or how to get his number or how to give him mine!!! I really like him HELP... i dont wanan look like n idiot !!!

2007-02-01 03:05:22 · 11 answers · asked by aly 1 in Singles & Dating

jst tell ur views to share with ur counterparts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-02-01 03:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by Amrit 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:03:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The only thing that makes me believe in UFOs is that, sometimes I lose stuff. But I don't believe in many unscene things. Time travel might be possible. If you go flying back through time, and you see somebody else flying forward into the future, it's probably best to avoid eye contact. Death is something we all must face. When I die, I would like to go peacefully, in my sleep, like my grandfather did. Not screaming and yelling like the passenger in his car

2007-02-01 03:03:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...here goes...i broke up with my ex over a year ago and he still comes over to my house unannounced whenever he feels like it. I met someone who I work with and he is great...he knows about the ex thing and he's ok with it to a point.....i cant blame him. What I need to know is what do I do? I have 2 children with my ex one lives with me and one with him so we do have a connection still and I will always love him but I really like this other guy. We've been out together lots of times and the first time we did anything sexually was 2 nights ago....should I continue this relationship with him or am I doomed to be involved with my ex forever??? HELP!!!

2007-02-01 03:03:19 · 6 answers · asked by lisaj284 2 in Singles & Dating

She isn't actually even my mother in law(yet anyways). My bf and I are in a serious relationship and I am already having trouble with his mother. She is always telling me that I need to wear more make up or do this or do that, which tends to offend me. She also has talked crap about my family which really offends me. I really want to get along with her because she is my partners mother and I know that they are close, but I am going out of my mind with the stuff she says to me and about me. What should I do to come to a peace with her?

2007-02-01 03:02:45 · 2 answers · asked by hc 1 in Family

I just started on YA and find that there are so many married / committed people contemplating cheating, actually cheating, or have cheated/ Where have the morals of people gone today? Why is it okay to hurt the one you love? What happened to working things out, even the hard things. Can someone help me out here?

2007-02-01 03:02:42 · 19 answers · asked by Cute Stuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just two friends out having some fun. Then after a few drinks, she turned into this sexual monster and now she's in my room...do I break out the books and start studying, or wake her up to talk about it?

2007-02-01 03:02:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok - I have posted about my ex before on here and from you wonderful people realized he was a loser and I needed to move on. Well here is another little turn - I have been talking ( honestly just talking) to this guy and last night we talked about our birthdays. His birth day is the exact same day as my ex's Coincidence or fate ?
Also he left really early for work this morning and he was turning into his work at the same time I was heading to work. Normally he doesnt leave until 7:40 or 7:45 from his house and I am usually already at work. And this morning it was 7:35??? Trying to get my attention ???? Because his work isn't but 2 miles away from my house & I pass his house and his work on my way everyday.

2007-02-01 03:01:39 · 9 answers · asked by cheeks4u21 1 in Singles & Dating

When he is working he wakes up at 5ish so he can get an hour or so in, in the morning. Then when he comes home he logs on and plays anywhere from 3pm until about 2-4am. But now that he's laid off it's been absolutly disgusting. It goes from 9am until 4am. My problem is that we've been together for 3 and a half years, and he wasn't always like this. His brother told me to shove a screwdriver through the hard drive, and i think i might.

2007-02-01 03:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by earthangel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships