i told my teacher i was being bullied but ...................?

Question

i told my teacher i was being bullied and this just made things well WORSE as she is going to tell the teacher incharge of the buses to show me some picatures and i need to choosse wich ones were involved and they are gonna hate me coz i dont want to grass them all up!!!!!!!! HELP MEEEEEEEEEEE

p.s i dont care if i can't spell as i am only 14

Answer 1

tell the teachers how youre afraid the bullies will mess you up more and see if they can help come up with a good answer. most bullies will stop bullying you if you make it less fun for them then the trouble they get in. so it does usually make sense to get them in trouble. I had some bullies after me so I got all my friends together and we fought them and they left us alone.

Answer 2

OK, first things first - bullying is wrong and well done for talking to someone about it. That probably doesn't help with you worrying that those responsible will turn on you even more. So, personally, what I would do is go and talk to the teacher in charge of buses and tell herspecifically that you are giving her the information in confidence. If she has any sense of decency she then won't reveal who told her about the bullying. If I were you I'd also talk to your parents, if you haven't already, they can give you the support you'll need, and maybe could find another way for you to get to school so you don't have to face the bullies. Thirdly - don't let these people get you down too much - all bullies are cowards and are only doing it because of their own insecurities. You're better than them. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

OK.Forget the spelling- that's not the important issue here.
You've done the RIGHT thing in reporting them and don't back down now.Bullying in school,in the family or in the workplace is unacceptable.All bullies are cowards because they say and do nasty things behind the back of teachers and parents.They do it because they themselves are insecure and its them that have the problem.If you dont see this through will the bullying stop?
No way.
Pick em out.
If after this they bully you again for grassing them up then report them again until it's stopped.
Given that you have good teachers or a good principal they should take the right action and bring this to an end.
I know this takes guts but hey you"ve got guts haven't you?

Answer 4

Talk to your daughter about it, offer her comfort and advice (you were in third grade once too!) and contact the school. Discuss the situation with the teacher and principal and make clear that you want to see some immediate changes. Remind the teacher that your child may not be the only one being bullied. Familiarize yourself with the schools bullying policies as well as any relevant state laws. One thing you don't want to do is overreact. Screaming or crying might intimidate your daughter and discourage her from talking to you in the future. Take your daughter seriously. Don't laugh or accuse her of exaggerating because again, it may discourage her from further communication. Your primary goal is to show your daughter you understand the challenges of bullying and you will work as a team to stop it. Good luck!

Answer 5

don't worry, the teachers/adults will take care of it. Tell your teacher you want to remain anonymous so the kids dont know it was you who told. Those kids deserve whatever is coming their way (scolding, detention, etc.). Think of it this way, because you spoke up... you are saving another kid from being bullied by those people. Who cares if they hate you... just hang out with your friends. If you dont have many friends, feel confident because you just did something great by speaking up, be confident and start talking to some nice, cool people. You'll make friends soon.

Answer 6

you must tell someone what is happening,i know that it is very scary and you probably feel like you are grassing on the bullies but you need to get help because otherwise it will keep happening and even get worse,teachers normally take bullying very seriously so talk to someone now dont leave it ok,my daughter was being bullied and it was really hard for her too but eventually she spoke out,i wish you all the luck and really hope its stops and you can feel happy and safe at school :)

Answer 7

That is a really bad thing for your teacher to do. If these incidents are happening on the bus, then your teacher should tell your bus driver to watch for such incidents and he/she can report them. This relieves you from the pressure of being called out by others for telling on them. Teachers must think more about the feelings of their students. I speak as a teacher when I say this. My students have no problem coming to me because they know that I will handle any situation with their feelings in mind.
You need to tell your teacher that she needs to consider what the consequences will be if the other students find out that you did this.

Answer 8

Bullying is Very bad and those bullies could grow up to be abusers!!! I always loved to beat up the bullies for the ones that were getting hurt, and I always got in trouble for it. Find someone to hang around with that can help you and get the teachers to help!!

Answer 9

It sounds like the kids who are picking on you already have a problem with you. I think refusing to stand up for yourself would be a mistake. Sure, it will probably make the them mad but what is the alternative? Just going on endlessly enduring anything they dish out to you? Whatever disciplinary action that is taken isn't your fault or responsibility. Besides, bullies do what they do because, among other things, they think they can get away with it and because they know it makes you feel weak, powerless and intimidated. You need to decide to quit allowing their bullying behavior get them what they want.

Answer 10

Please talk to some-one at school and make them promise you they will stop these bullies in a way which will not make you be the one who has grassed them up. Your school life should be fun and enjoyable and you shouldn't have to worry about getting the bus home from school. You could ask a teacher to keep a distance but watch and if possible take pictures. That way, they can't blame you. The teacher could say that she/he noticed it happening and decided to take action.