me and my first wife got divorced and remarried also his girls parents are divorced and remarried.my son has all these parents to visit on xmas and they didnt have time to visit our family (dads side) sons girl said they didnt have time for our family so they spent xmas at home,so my wife got mad and told off his girl.I havent heard from her since.any sugestions on how i can get my wife and future daughter-in-law back together. They were close at one time and I would like that again
2007-02-01 03:06:14 · 4 answers · asked by bearman48064 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just talk to your wife & explain that you all must move past this. Keep the communication lines open with your son & his wife & try not to get offended if they cant always visit.
It's hard on a marriage when there is alot of family wanting your attention. You just can't be everywhere.
Also let your son & his wife know that you were hurt & want time with them too.
2007-02-01 03:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your son about this and maybe you can come to a decision together about spending time together.
We decided after going to six different places one Christmas that we had enough so we spend Christmas with our family at home. My sister-in-law started have a New Years day celebration at her home and anyone who wanted to could come over. It took a lot of pressure off everyone.
The holidays are stressful enough without having to worry who you will upset. My nephew just got married this past year, they spent Thanksgiving with her parents and then spent Christmas afternoon with us. They will do Easter with another, and so on that way everyone get some time with them.
Your wife needs to remember she is not their only family. Why does it need to be a holiday for them to spend time with you? A Saturday every couple of months can be just as fun.
2007-02-01 11:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by desiree c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to find out from the girl why she didnt want to spend time with your family and go from there.
2007-02-01 18:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
massage?
2007-02-01 11:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Steelhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋