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long story but need advice pls...i met a really nice guy on new yrs eve through my best friend..we hit it off straight away and spent most of the night together...not in a rude way! lol...he told my friend that he really liked me and got my phone number..its bn 5wks now and in that time ive had one call and 1 txt and met up with him only once. he has constantly been telling my friend that he really likes me but is useless with girls and is 2 scared 2 call me. the prob is im quite shy too but have called him once myself. r we jus bein really silly and need a gd kick up the bum? is he genuinly interested or not? do u think i should give him the benefit of the doubt cos hes said he's shy? am i jus bein impatient? should i try and take the lead? or is he just a wimp? aaaarrrrrrggggghhh...i really like him...pls help...confused x

2007-02-01 03:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by carly-jayne r 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

pls someone answer!

2007-02-01 03:30:55 · update #1

3 answers

keep going with it, you've got nothing to lose. send him a friendly text asking how things are going or something, see if you can get a text conversation going with him. if your friend sees him alot could you meet up with him when she's there (like meet her after work or something & get her to invite him casually 'i'm meeting ..... for a drink after work, why don't you come along, she'd love to see you?) then there won't be the big build up for him of getting all worried about what he's going to do when he meets you, what to talk about, what you'll expect from him etc, and you don't have to worry because if he says no then it's probably because of the short notice.

keep trying. i find that i'm more confident with shy people - maybe you'll find a not shy you once you get going xxx

good luck xxxx

2007-02-04 11:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0 0

I was that guy many years ago and I can sympathise with you as men can be shy also, have you tried asking for his email address as you can break the ice slowly by corresponding with him that way or continue texting each other until you feel more confident that you can take the next step forward, it could take a while and you will both still be shy on the day but at least you should have learned allot more about each other.

Hope this helps.

2007-02-01 11:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Craig 1 · 0 0

take the lead, becuase shy guy's make prefect lovers.

2007-02-01 12:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0 0

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