l've been treated like a rag doll well ther reason why i say this because when i was in a realtionship with this all he did was use me and play mind gamesa and black male me well he's 35 years of age and i am 24 we have 2 children together and never there for them at all when we was together he disrespected me not only that he would never help me with nothing when the kids needed to go to the doctor he wouldn't take them i alway's went no only when he was unemployed and they kids was in day care and i wanted him to watch the kids since he was working he still wanted me take them too daycare he cheated and bragged about how good other women is and not only that have there nerve to say i don't look good and i'm fat and need to lose some weight so i ended the relationship cause i was tried very cause i was stressing myself out trying to make him happy and take care of my kids know since i've got myslef together he saying he's change and he go do right i don't beleive him i need your help
2007-02-01 03:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by MRS DEE 2 U 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've gotten yourself together, why take a step back and let him tear you down again? He's miserable and wants company. Where is the woman that he cheated with that's oh so much better and oh so much prettier than you. She doesn't want him, and he comes back to you because he feels like you can't say no to him. Especially, now. he probably sees that you're doing better without him and it irritates him. The way I see it, if a man changed and wanted to do better he would be doing for his children. His first attempt would be to make it up to his Kids not you! Please, continue to take care of your kids and keep yourself together, don't let him tear you down. Good luck to you.
Men have a problem with mistaking FORGIVENESS for ACCEPTANCE. When we take them back we forgive them and try to move on. They take it as us accepting what they did and feel they can do it again!
2007-02-01 03:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this kind of relationship and it won't change. Yeah they say they love you and what not but it is to pull you back in and it is okay for awhile but then goes back to the drama but worse each time. Just be there for your children build a relationship with them and move on. I have been separated from my ex for 6 years now and my life has been so much better and happier. my children are happier and we can laugh and play together without him putting us down. I see him now and he looks so bad and I hear from others and now his new ex-girlfriends and he hasn't changed. Don't let this man tear you down and turn you in to a hateful person for that is what happened to me until I got out. just leave and pursue your happiness somewhere else. Good Luck.
2007-02-08 10:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by butterflyangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this hard for you because you have two kids together. But if you can live without him I think you would be better off.You should get a nice place for you and your kids and get yourself back into shape and buy new nice clothes and flaunt it.
Most men think nobody will want you because you have kids but they are defintely wrong.Take care of yourself cause you are stll young and find yourself a real man.You and your kids deserve it,let him see what he missed out on.
2007-02-09 02:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy feels like he has a pathological character ailment. Have examine that it takes approximately 2 years generally to alter into obvious in a relationship. as quickly as he has you properly hooked. there'll I think of have been crimson flags alongside the form you have probable chosen to forget approximately. he's abusive, manipulative and could not get better. he would be back and you could be very reliable to your sake and not pay attention to any beginning back memories he could spin. he's employing the blanking of you as a weapon in his arsenal and while he thinks he's waiting he will touch not for the different reason than administration as quickly as greater. Please i encourage you he's undesirable information and you would be putting your self in threat in case you have something greater to do with this guy. it incredibly is not your fault any of it and don't take on your shoulders any blame. he's warped and continually would be.
2016-10-16 10:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe him. People don't change that much. Sounds to me like he thinks he can play you again. He'll behave for awhile and then be right back to his old tricks. Your better off without him.
2007-02-08 12:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by kf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take him back.get on with life without him in it.Hes a cheat and not worthy of your love.Do not go back concentrate on your children and you.He doesnt deserve you.he says hes changed I doubt it.just trying to control you. Stay away.
2007-02-08 04:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT! If he was willing to treat you like that then there is no way that he loves you. You can do so much better than him. Think about your children, if he was willing to do that to you think what he could do to them if you kept him around. Its definitely not worth it.
2007-02-08 04:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by siberian_tigress88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT LET THIS DEAD WEIGHT BACK IN YOUR LIFE. YOU HAVE IT TOGETHER NOW AND HE WANTS A SUGAR MOMMA. BE STRONG FOR YOU AND YOUR KIDS. IF HAS CHANGED HE COULD MAYBE STEP UP AND BE A BETTER DAD BUT, I WOULD NOT GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO BE MY MAN
2007-02-07 11:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out of this life what you put in. He does'nt treat you badly, you allow yourself to be treated that way
2007-02-01 03:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he's taking you for granted. it's time to leave him. he needs you more than you need him and you're still young. you should not waste whatever's left of your youth on someone like that. go girl!
2007-02-01 03:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Angie Pastrami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋