Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

I am 46 and have been dating/living with a well educated and overall financially supportive man for 15 yrs. When we first dated he told me he did not think I would be a good mother. As time passed he stopped sleeping with me and then after that I no longer wanted to sleep with him. His sister has suffered schizophrenia as has my Mom. He tried to break up with me at yr 5 and did in yr 11. He wanted to live together again 2 yrs later. I am thinking of fertility treatment in a last effort to have a child and am considering another man for whom I have romantic feelings. My partner thinks, as I, that we are a bad genetic match. He says we are too old and he does not want to be saddled with fertility $ which probably wont work due to my age and college $ for a child that is adopted or of another man. He wanted a baby 10 yrs ago with someone else. Some say have a baby with him 'cause then he would $. He says I have changed and he has grown to love me and see I am good in his life. (?)

2007-02-01 03:36:29 · 22 answers · asked by plutos.girl 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a really nice time, he asked me if I'd like to go out again sometime - I said yes. That was Tuesday - now it's Thursday and he hasn't asked me out again yet. Should I wait for him to call or can I call him and thank him for the date ?

2007-02-01 03:35:58 · 23 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesnt have feelin and that he cant stand her he says he hates her. man give me a answer asap.

2007-02-01 03:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by LALA 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it fair to have them drive 50 minutes to go to my wedding? I found a place that is beautiful, it is also 35 minutes from where I live. Should it matter?

2007-02-01 03:34:47 · 27 answers · asked by redsoxgal 1 in Weddings

i have just found out that my 2 friends have told my form tutor i have been bullied and they have got another teacher to pull me out of a lesson some time tomorow i wish they hadent told someone as i have told some one my self! should i be angry with them for telling someone under my will?

2007-02-01 03:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by <3 skittles <3 2 in Friends

My b.f. and I are constantly fighting. I love him dearly. But, I'm not sure if he loves me anymore. We go to his friends house and he sits and cuddles with his 12 year old daughter. Plays with her hair asks if shes ready to leave.....never even notices I'm alive. She is failing school. But he refuses to disipline her cause he says she has enough problems he don't want to add to it. And now he uses sex as punishment for me if I do or say ANYTHING to her. I asked him to go away with me friday....he said NO! He will go away with his friends at work but not me. Should I just give up and move on? BTW....we live together and that makes things worse. Help!!

2007-02-01 03:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by Lor 1 in Singles & Dating

I think is silly to break up a frienship over a guy if you don,t like him.girls are sopposed to stick together threw good and bad.guys are gonna come and go,friends are not easy to find.has anyone lost a friend over a guy/girl?

2007-02-01 03:34:17 · 4 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother moved to VA with me for a better enviornment. Upon coming he had a plan to save and go to school. My fiance wants me to move with him to save money for a home however, he lives in another state which is about 30 miles from where I am now. My brother do not want to move to my fiance state with me. My brother is not able to help me with rent so I know he can't afford his own place. My brother have no follow through with his plans. He has no money saved and he did not enroll in school. He wants to start his own snow plowing business in a state that has little to no snow. I am the only relative he has in this state. What should I do?

2007-02-01 03:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by Chitea 2 in Family

2007-02-01 03:33:58 · 5 answers · asked by Chika Hermosa 1 in Singles & Dating

She's a complex lady. There's a lot I want to know.

2007-02-01 03:33:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okk! so i really like this guy but im worried i scared him off.. i invited him to come to this dance here in my town this weekend and he couldnt so i said..hmm.. then what are you doing on the 16th and he said i dont know so i invited him to come to this semi-formal at my school and he said haha i duno yet tho, and then he said he had to go..ever since then he hasnt been talking to me much..on msn its just one word answers..im not sure if i need to break the ice more or something..ice breakers would be helpful and how i can maybe fix this..please help..i really want him to come to the semi too..its not like i said with me..just to come to it..i dunno what to do

2007-02-01 03:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June and my parents are Christian. They really want to have a nominally Christian ceremony. I on the other hand would be more comfortable with a Wiccan ceremony. Unfortunately most of my relatives would not come to a Wiccan wedding, and having them with me on my wedding day is very important. So as you can see I'm very conflicted.

2007-02-01 03:33:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he said he didnt want a gf right now. what does that mean, does he hate me?

2007-02-01 03:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by laura loves bobby 1 in Singles & Dating

im not being funny but i am a pretty ok person, quite sociable and really love people in general but i dont really know what your supposed to do to make friends anymore, im quite conservative and not that i think its bad, but i wouldnt want to go to singles stuff or meet a friend.com or whatever because you dont know who you are meeting and they tend to be men! and though i love men, i just want more girlfriends, hope this doesnt sound silly

2007-02-01 03:32:27 · 4 answers · asked by nina c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:31:51 · 34 answers · asked by debra m 1 in Singles & Dating

I decided to get to know this girl that always sits next to me in class (for about 4 weeks now), i decided to talk to her and get to know her better. At first she was playing with her hair when we started chatting. She greeted my conversation with a smile and seemed genuinely interested in the conversation.Then the professor started lecturing and she was fidgeting with her earrings, playing with her hair (grooming...?) and passively bitting her nails the entire time.

What do you guys/gal think? (That was yesterday)

UPDATE: Today we talked more freely and we had a pretty engaging conversation. She laughed at everything i said, funny or not. She wasn't afraid to invade my personal space and look at my notes either.

What are the chances she's already taken?

2007-02-01 03:30:55 · 11 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

People say that it was the H who cheated. That is true. But it is also true that in 99 percent of the cases the woman knows that the man is married but she does it anyway. Why should she get a pass? I was approached by an old boyfreind. When I found out that he was still married, I told him thanks for the interest but no thanks. "No" is really easy to say.

2007-02-01 03:29:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mom just wants to make sure he can get home. It is only a sometimes thing. We would like to hide it in the car, so he wouldn't even know he was being "watched". Don't even know if something like this exists. I know phones can be equipped with GPS, but he would lose the phone. I am sure there are other people out there with the same worries as their parents get older. Thanks for any help.

2007-02-01 03:29:47 · 8 answers · asked by dwnnj 1 in Family

We've been together for 5 months exactly and i want to give my bf a little something, any suggestions?

2007-02-01 03:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how bout a space cowboy???

2007-02-01 03:29:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:28:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive decided to divorce my husband of 5 yrs. He has cheated on me, been abusive (physically and mentally), and extremely selfish. I'm glad to be moving on with my life without him. Sometimes I get very lonely and finances aren't that great. We have a young son, and I want him to have a wonderful life! I just need some encouragement to stay positive and keep moving forward!

2007-02-01 03:28:46 · 14 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 months ago i was geting evicted i couldnt pay my rent, i have been talking to a guy and we had become friends, he call me the day i got evicted and invited me for dinner. Well i explain to him that i couldnt pay my rent anymore and my boyfriend have bail out before i got evicted because he didnt want to help with the rent and i told him to get out my life if he couldnt help, my friend found a place for us since he was renting a room he wanted more proivacy also and we rented a house together. The problem is my friends boss is not paying him for 1 month now and i told my friend to quit that job and he dont want to, he is mad because he is not getting pay but i am the one covering all the expenses and he didnt pay any of his last month, he is a very nice guy but i dont want to end up with another eviction notice and unpaid bills, i dont know what to do!

2007-02-01 03:28:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife lived with parents until wedding at 37. Other day my wife (now 38) was crying and said that she was dying, can not breath because she hadn’t seen her mother for five days! She works and eats lunch with her sister everyday and still calls, texts, IMs to her while at home. She had even refused to turn off her cell on wedding night. She wants to spend every occasion, including her or my birthday, at their place. Exchanged more than 40 communications with her family in three days although she had visited them on each of those days for several hours. There is nothing in my life that remains private, nothing! She tells her parents about our vacation, sends them our schedules, calls them while going to airport, on the plane, about landing, and stuff like that. Our every move requires approval from her family. Feel like I am dating a minor.

How often a married woman (38) seeing her family is normal? Do I have wrong expectations? What should I/we do? Please Help.

2007-02-01 03:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by Wild Berry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a women, as of now I am fresh out of college, and am looking for a full time career. I also want to eventually get married and have children, and continue to regularly work out.

Please give me a hint. How do us women do it?

2007-02-01 03:27:28 · 26 answers · asked by dizzy_19832002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a women, as of now I am fresh out of college, and am looking for a full time career. I also want to eventually get married and have children, and continue to regularly work out.

Please give me a hint. How do us women do it?

2007-02-01 03:27:02 · 2 answers · asked by dizzy_19832002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dreamt that my parents threw me a birthday party inviting all of the people I graduated high school with. I had particular feelings for Ryan, but he didn't seem to notice me at all. It also seemed as though Josie was trying to ruin my party and make me miserable. I confronted her and asked her intentions behind all of the evil things she did. She told me she hated that I had the attention of every guy at the party, especially Ryan's. I let it slip that I was crazy about him. If he'd just give me a chance, I'd be content. I poured my heart out to her, just in time for him to hear what I was saying. He asked me to repeat it, so I did, and then turned to walk away, embarrassed. He grabbed my by the arm, and then pulled me in for a very passionate kiss. Then explained that he felt the same way. At the end of the night, we had the most romantic, passionate love-making rendezvous I had ever experienced.

2007-02-01 03:26:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:26:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anyway she was very happy with me we didn't have sex but we kissed held hands and was very romantic with each other,,we like each other and i want to be with her,,,she says that she needs time to see her feelings for me,,,coz she don't want to rush,,,there's no other man involed coz i asked her and i don't think she would lie to me,,,,i want to know why women have to take so long to decide if she wants to be witha man????,,,i want to ask if she would be interested in a trial relationship is that a good idea,,,,?????

2007-02-01 03:26:15 · 14 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating