Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

was seeing a guy i work with and split up just before xmas.... he says that he is now back with his ex....im happy for him, honest! but he keeps hugging me and kissing me on the cheek,asking me if i miss him when we`re not at work ... starting conversations with me.. mostly flirty,inuendos refering back to "us"...... when i dont return the hugs or the inuendos like i used to, he goes off and has loud convesation with fellow colleagues about his current g/f and sometimes..their sex life!... it is starting to annoy me, i want to go to work ....to work! not to feel uncomfortable..sometimes i will avoid him so that i dont have to talk/listen to him. i want to shout at him "leave me alone" but i cant cause we have to work to together and i dont want an atmosphere..i dont know if he`s acting like this cause he still likes me and wants me to react back or he is trying to wind me up and hurt me. how can i deal with this, im dreading going to work!

2007-02-01 03:45:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I miss my ex girlfriend alot and we talk now and then but lately ive been finding myself wanting to be back with her. I dont know why but I just cant tell her. she never cheated on me or anything...why cant I ask her back out?

2007-02-01 03:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by The J 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean when you meet a girl and she asks you stuff about yourself is it OK to tell her everything she asks in an open and frank way.Will I have more chance with girls if I go openly or start pretending?

2007-02-01 03:45:04 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

which of these two colours most compliments blue?

2007-02-01 03:44:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl in my neighborhood was friends with me for about maybe 6 months, and then suddenly she started hating me! We play with dolls and stupid little plastic figures of animals (we're 10) and she had just moved to my neighborhood (which i have been in since i was 6 months old) and she started trashing my dolls (doing really stupid hair styles and nearly breaking them) and stuff while she always makes a huge deal of whenever i touch ANYTHING that's her's. like one time i was picking up some saftey cones (those orange thingies) and i was going to rearrange them and then she was like, 'Did i give you permission to touch that?' my other friend (who also lives in our neighborhood who just moved in also) was wondering why she said that, and a month ago she went on strike against me, (because her parents were/on strike because they didn't get paid or something) and that day she decided to do that i got a bad grade on a test, and she saw me sobbing when i was talking to my mom about it when

2007-02-01 03:44:35 · 8 answers · asked by the new cookie cutter style 6 in Friends

2007-02-01 03:44:13 · 29 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:44:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he said ''I love you''
so I became all nervous and told him ''why''?
I know...it was stupid but yeah..thats what I said..
than he said
anyway who said love you?

huh?..

2007-02-01 03:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what i mean is that i,ve seen people pick on geeks,fat people,gay/lesbians,even people with braces.when i was in school i got several fights when someone made fun of them,and was punished for it.why can,t people just mind there own buizness,it,s there life-let them be,cause it,s wrong to be rude.

2007-02-01 03:43:28 · 3 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Be honest in your answer and just choose a letter no explaination needed but it you want to give your opinion it's ok.

A. I don't really like it but I do it.
B. It turns me on.
C. It's my duty as his partner.
D. Because he makes me.

2007-02-01 03:42:07 · 10 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a excellent relationship with my girlfriend.I love her to death It was her 25th birthday two weeks ago and I not only took her to a very expensive restaurant in NYC, but took her shopping and spent a lot of money on her. She had an amazing weekend and couldn't stop thanking me. She comes from a wealthy family, and her father who works for ESPN surprised her with three tickets to the Super Bowl in a luxury suite( all expenses paid to Miami, Airfare ,5 nights at the Ritz Carlton, dinners, and spa treatments. It is now my 25th birthday today and I am a huge football fan, she doesn't even watch it. She decided to take two of her sorority sisters from college to the game, she rarely speaks to. Now, I don't want to sound spoiled, but I think I have a right to be angry??

2007-02-01 03:41:57 · 22 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend who is currently working at a watch fixer place says she's bored and needs something to do. She says she is waiting for something exciting to happen..

2007-02-01 03:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by slashmastah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i had a first date with him that went pretty well...we went to his place for a movie (nothing more than kissing happned) and we talked briefly one time after that night, and now i asked him if he wants to go out on saturday...but he said we'll talk more about it in the next days 'caus he's kinda busy this week......is he into me or not? i just wanna know so i won't lose time waiting for his call :D

2007-02-01 03:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard that a school in New Jersey was showing 3rd graders a video about families. In this video it showed households with a Mommy and a Daddy, it showed divorced parents, but it also showed homes with gay couples where they children either had 2 Moms or 2 Dads. What do you think about this? Would you let your children watch this?

2007-02-01 03:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My gf of 3 on&off years broke up with me, again. Once she wanted to get married..I didn't. Now I told her I do. she wants to see others, doesn't beleive my intent, says I'll tell her anything. Should I go talk to her mother? Her mother watches her kid and is in her life daily. They do not always see eye to eye, but maybe her mother can help me understand what I should do next.

Any thoughts?

2007-02-01 03:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by drinkornot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So, me & my ex have been broken up for more than a year now. Since we broke up, we've still been talking. & we can still go to each other to talk about basically anything just like when we were going out. He's gone out 2 other girls already & he still talks to me. He's still with one of them, but he's thinking about breaking up with them, he told me the whole story. I don't know if he's going to break up with her or not because he told me that he's never broken up with anyone before. & the other night when we were talking he told me that he loved me still & he always did. I don't know to think. I felt like a rebound when we were first going out, I don't know what to think now. I'm always going to be his friend, I just don't know if I can be his girlfriend again.

2007-02-01 03:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by _____ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am desperately trying to find Alan Whiles. He grew up in Eston, Middlesbrough, but has gone missing. He was born on the 02-02-1985. This is VERY important! He may be going by the name Carter. If anyone knows him, please, please reply. Thankyou.

2007-02-01 03:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by Proud mama UK 5 in Family

Theres this guy who I REALLY like, and for a while Ive been unsure if if he likes me
sumtimes he'll say some sweet things, like "it was no fun without you"
and then yesterday he REMEMBERED my birthday and gav me a card with a personal message inside to do with this joke we hav

so is this a sign he properly likes me?
becos hes really popular when im only a bit, so please help!!

thank you xxxxx

2007-02-01 03:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy new yrs eve through my best friend we hit it off straight away and spent most of the night together (not in a rude way! lol) he told my friend that he really likes me and got my number. the prob is since then ive had 1 call, 1 txt and ive only sn him once. he keeps tellin my friend that he does really like me but he's useless with girls and 2 scared 2 call...im quite shy 2 but i have called him once myself. i really like him and want 2 c him but not sure if its goin anywhere...r we jus both bein silly and need a kick up the bum? is he not really interested? should i believe its cos he is shy? am i jus bein impatient? aaaaarrrghhh...pls help. dunno wot 2 do.

2007-02-01 03:40:06 · 23 answers · asked by carly-jayne r 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 03:39:32 · 11 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

When I clean the entire house it takes me 3hrs tops. If my mother or sister does it it'll take them much longer. And the difference between my cleaning isn't that big. Ive also noticed this in many of my other family and friend's family.

2007-02-01 03:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other day, my girlfriend, of almost 9 months said, "I love you" to me. I told her that I loved her about one month ago, but she didn't say it back. Anyway, since she has said those three words, I've been scared. I'm not scared to commit to her, but I'm scared that I can't give her and her beautiful daughter the life she deserves. I think about all the irresponsible decisions I've made in my life, and I can't help but think that I'm going to mess something up in this relationship. I want to have kids, but I'm afraid that I'd be a bad father because of my bad upbringing. I'm not a very social person, but I try my damndest. This woman means the world to me. Are my feelings of fear normal? I'm in this for the long haul, but I just doubt myself. I don't want her to know how scared I am because it may push her away from me.

2007-02-01 03:39:10 · 23 answers · asked by chickenbeansoup 1 in Singles & Dating

She tells me she loves me not him...BUT...

2007-02-01 03:39:04 · 13 answers · asked by lucky7 1 in Singles & Dating

my mate hasn't got a girlfriend so i decided not to take mine when we go out to-night for his birthday. Now i feel very mean, as her cousin goes out with my other mate and he's bringing her along too. My girl feels left out, not sure what to do. I love her very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Her cousin and my girl are very close and this had caused problems before. I think it is my other mate just causing problems, what do you think?

2007-02-01 03:38:20 · 13 answers · asked by Audrey L 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I can remember my sister & I ALWAYS cleaned the house (I'm 19 now). It's a beautiful house that was built about 8 years ago, and it kills me to see it ALWAYS MESSY.

I'm going to be brutally honest- the only person in the house who makes a mess is my MOM. She comes home from work and just eats and sits on the couch. I wouldn't even put it all on her, but SHE IS THE ONE who makes the mess. Any crap around the house is from HER.

She keeps "her papers" ALL OVER THE PLACE. She has 4 hampers half full with clothes and clothing everywhere. I can't take it anymore. I can't even count how many times I've cleaned the house, only for it to become totally trashed 3 hours after my mom comes home. I'll clean her mess, and when she comes home, suddenly her papers and just straight up junk is all over the kitchen table. We can't even eat dinner as a family. There's always "papers" all over the table when we eat.

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-02-01 03:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by :-) 3 in Family

there was this guy i was friends with for awhile and i began to like him A LOT.

then this girl came up to me (i know her a little bit but not really close to) and tells me she really likes this guy. i found out it was the same guy i liked. i did NOT tell her i liked him too.

anyway, he asked me out and i said yes. i asked him if he knew about that girl liking him and he said yea he knew but he wants to be with me not her.

i believe him, but should i tell this girl that we're dating? my boyfriend wants me to tell her because she's always calling him and he doesnt have the guts to tell her to stop and i dont either! shes a really nice girl but has serious emotional problems. should i tell her or my boyfriend? or do i just let her find out by herself?

2007-02-01 03:37:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with foam fillers!

2007-02-01 03:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do??? I'm so confused...

2007-02-01 03:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by lucky7 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever used one? which one?
what is the cheasiest line you have ever heard?

ive never used one
cheasiest one someone has ever used on me i think would have to be "your dad must have been a brilliant baker for you to have a pair of buns like that" it was something along those sad lines!!
lol, xxx

2007-02-01 03:37:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this boy likes me and i like him. but he keeps getting my friend to ask me out for him. i want to say yes but im like im in the 8th grade were not in elem. school if he wants to go out with me and if he like me that much then he needs to be a man about it and ask me out. i want to say yes but then again i dont. i want him to ask me out and stop getting my friends to do it for me. what should i talk to him or what? this is an easy 10points for good advice

2007-02-01 03:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by ashley c 2 in Singles & Dating