i met a guy new yrs eve through my best friend we hit it off straight away and spent most of the night together (not in a rude way! lol) he told my friend that he really likes me and got my number. the prob is since then ive had 1 call, 1 txt and ive only sn him once. he keeps tellin my friend that he does really like me but he's useless with girls and 2 scared 2 call...im quite shy 2 but i have called him once myself. i really like him and want 2 c him but not sure if its goin anywhere...r we jus both bein silly and need a kick up the bum? is he not really interested? should i believe its cos he is shy? am i jus bein impatient? aaaaarrrghhh...pls help. dunno wot 2 do.
2007-02-01 03:40:06 · 23 answers · asked by carly-jayne r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIVE UP
2007-02-01 03:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"r we jus both bein silly and need a kick up the bum?"
No comment. I don't understand that phrase.
"is he not really interested?"
Well, he's obviously interested if he asked for your number. This reminds me a lot of summer camp. You all trade contact info and promise to stay in touch, but since you don't see eachother often enough, you feel no obligation. I bet if you see him again you'll get calls more often.
"should i believe its cos he is shy? am i jus bein impatient?"
This I have mixed feelings on. Some guys actually are shy enough to stay out of touch and still have the desire to call you. Some of them are just forgetful! And you aren't being impatient. It's been a month. If you haven't forgotten about him by now, there's obviously something special about him that you really like and/or are attracted to. If you feel impatient, you have a right to that. It's been a month.
So, my answer is this: Don't give up. Text him this weekend or something and try to get back in touch.
2007-02-01 03:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Klaries 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. He may feel shy or put off that you and your friend might discuss him (if you do)
2. Try not to discuss him with your friend, even though it's really difficult. She may be tempted to tell him what you've said and that you fancy him (would scare him off)
3.Don't phone or text him, let him do all the running and only stay on the phone for about 5 minutes, even if you find it hard, just say, ooops I must dash, I'm so busy.
4. Carry on with your life, but always be polite and friendly to him when and if he calls. If he sends you a text message, don't answer it at once, see if you can manage to wait until the next day. It does work, but is very hard to do.
Good Luck
2007-02-01 04:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i dont know how old you are or what the both of you are like its hard to say if you need a kick up the back side or just to grow up.... so i wont... I will give you the obvious answer: Either text or phone him and just ask him in a nice way exactly what you have said on here, after this quick text or 5 minute phone call you should know straight away or at least the ball will be in his court and you can get on with your life.... Its not rocket science.
2007-02-01 03:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of in the same boat myself, I have been told someone likes me, but wasn't sure whether or not to believe them so didn't give my number, keep missing him when we go out at the weekend, not sure what to do either. Mind you, if he keeps on saying he does like you to your friend and he has contacted you, I would say to hang in there. Get your friend to arrange a night out, inviting him of course and talk to him then. Things are much easier to judge when you see a person face to face, if things are going well ask him if he would like to meet up again and take it from there.
All the best ! I hope you have more luck than me !!
2007-02-01 03:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its like this: it really does sound like he likes you. based on the things that you say happened. yes you are both being very silly. and i mean, this all happened in new years eve? come on! its been around a month already, your not being impatient. try it one last time. i say call him again. if he doesnt answer leave a message to call you back and leave your number so there's no excuse from his part if he doesnt call you back. if he calls you and sounds genuinely happy about it and glad that you called him then he really does like you. if he doesnt sound that intersted or doesnt call you at all, well i guess you know what that would mean. good luck! but dont spend much more time dwelling over it, just do what your gonna do now!
2007-02-01 03:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're both shy and need a kick start. Maybe your best friend could give a dinner party and invite both of you, this would be a good way to interact without a great deal of pressure. Good luck!
2007-02-01 03:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 18:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think ur being impatient..i mean come on u met him over a month ago..and u both clearly like each other so take a chance and just tell him flat out what you think about the two of you together..and if u intuition is telling u he's just trying to play you then u should follow that feeling... good luck =]
2007-02-01 03:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to tell that both of you are shy and need a kick in bum to get started.The guy is afraid coz he thinks that callin or txting, u wud get irritated so he isn't taking any chances so that you don't leave him.In such a case i suggest you should take the step and start calling and txting him,also tell ur frnd to tell him that he shouldn't be too shy: just chill.
2007-02-01 03:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mystery Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you get the impression he was shy when you were with him?
I think you'd know if he was.
I would maybe text him and if he doesn't have a lot to say, and you find that you're making all the effort I'd give up and call it a day!
2007-02-01 03:56:35 · answer #11 · answered by sarahscarah78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋