This girl in my neighborhood was friends with me for about maybe 6 months, and then suddenly she started hating me! We play with dolls and stupid little plastic figures of animals (we're 10) and she had just moved to my neighborhood (which i have been in since i was 6 months old) and she started trashing my dolls (doing really stupid hair styles and nearly breaking them) and stuff while she always makes a huge deal of whenever i touch ANYTHING that's her's. like one time i was picking up some saftey cones (those orange thingies) and i was going to rearrange them and then she was like, 'Did i give you permission to touch that?' my other friend (who also lives in our neighborhood who just moved in also) was wondering why she said that, and a month ago she went on strike against me, (because her parents were/on strike because they didn't get paid or something) and that day she decided to do that i got a bad grade on a test, and she saw me sobbing when i was talking to my mom about it when
2007-02-01 03:44:35 · 8 answers · asked by the new cookie cutter style 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my mom was in the car and on her way to work, she was walking by from coming home from school, and obviously she saw me crying and probably thought i was crying because of her. when i finished homework that day my other friend came over and said that the girl i hate right now is on strike against me and i started crying again. that girl's cousin (who i *was* friends with) had been turned against me because she was 'defending' her cousin, and i told her that her cousin that her cousin thought that she was spoiled, and the girl i hated cousin asked her cousin over the phone if she had said that, and of course that liar said no, but she said that right in front of my face. Now that girl i hate wants to be friends with me again, and i have no desire to be friends with her again. what if she comes over to my friends house when we're playing and she suddenly decides to 'be BFF'S again!!!'??
2007-02-01 03:48:04 · update #1
she is also super spoiled, and gets pretty much anything she wants... she can spend all the money she wants, but she can't buy me. hmm. i think i answered my own question. -_-
2007-02-01 04:00:39 · update #2
ok i swear this is the last paragraph of details i'm going to add, but she is some little happy bouncy bunny at home. her parents treat her like a princess, take her to target at least twice a week and she always gets something, she barely eats (sometimes she makes me think she's going anorexic!), and she has friends at school and makes good grades. i can't simply find out what is wrong with her.
2007-02-01 04:03:09 · update #3
That is a lot of information to take in. Don't be friends with her. If she makes you cry she isn't worth your time. Tell her how she hurt you and move on and find better friends.
2007-02-01 03:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like it was said...Something is probably happening at home or school that was making her upset. The fact that her parents were on strike suggests the problem may be at home. She's at the age where, if you were to be her friend, you could really help her feel better -- get some advice from your mom, and try to be nice to her as much as you can, if you do decide to be her friend. But you have to decide that if helping her out is worth whatever harm will come to you (or your things) in the process.
And I have to say, WOW, you are an eloquent 10-year-old.
2007-02-01 11:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by JDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something is going on with her family or at school that's causing her to act like this. You should talk to your parents or teacher and maybe they can have a talk with her parents.
Maybe you can ask her why she wants to be friends again and why she did all those things. If you don't want to forgive her you don't have to, but she might be truelly sorry for what she did.
By the way, you are a very good writer to be 10 years old. You sound like a smart young lady, keep it up.
2007-02-01 11:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, the best advice is to ignore her and act as if she has done nothing. Just play with your other friends and reat her nicely as if nothing had occured. Keep a smile on your face and be very happy when in her presence. Don't let her know that her behavior even effects you. She is probably miserable about something that is happenening in her life and her treating you badly is just an after effect. Live your life, there are many other girls to play with besides her. Don't even let her effect your happy little life.
2007-02-01 11:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so horrible hun!!!! She needs to realize that she needs to respect other people's belongings, ie: your dolls! why would she nearly break them, thats so mean!!!! I hate grabby people that reach for your belongings and go through them when you dont want them to, and then their reply is "oh my GOD, its just a toy" or whatever. Tell her that you want a REAL friend, not someone who is spoiled and has to ask permission to touch an orange cone. be sure to mention that example.
2007-02-01 12:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you are 10 ...
2007-02-01 12:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by *Alice* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Megan....
She became nice again?!
STAY AWAY FROM HER~~!
2007-02-02 17:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh......what was the question again??
2007-02-01 11:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by anothersomeonenew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋