how to stay friends?

Question

i like this guy as a friend but afriad he is going to fall for me how to avoid that and give him the right clues to show that all i want to be is just friends and nothing more before he starts haveing feelings for me this is how it is with all the other guys plz help

Answer 1

thats a tough one, its hard when a guy wants more than a friendship and you do not, the man almost always gets his feelings hurt. Just remember that he has a heart, and try to put it to him plainly, and let him know you are not interested in anything more than friendship, and would love to hang out and do things as long as he understands the friendship boundaries. I will warn you, some guys do not get the message when you're nice, my bf told me this when I had to let a couple down, and I finally had to be almost a byatch to get my point across that I only wanted friendship as I was already with someone else. The friendship with these 2 did not work after that, and it bothers me, but its not my fault, I tried my best. If he values your friendship he will stick to the boundaries you have laid down, and be content with them. If not, just be careful, you may experience a big time mood change with him and not fully understand what is going on with him, seems different, try your best, good luck