dear evey turkish men and women could you be ale to answer me this question?? i like to know if turkish men are married and they have children do turks men take care their children very well or ......
do they marry to one lady only or a few?? because i am in love with turkish man, i would like to trust him more because i guess you will know the habit of turk people especially the men from turkey, if turkish men can not trust and what is problem with them can you tell me please. because i don't want to put my life down as the other people after they been married they always ask " am i married to a wrong man?" because i don't want to be hurt in the end and i don't want to ask what most people ask me.
2007-02-01 01:51:58 · 7 answers · asked by GonE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What? That's like asking whether Canadian or American or Swedish men take care of their kids. While there may be cultural norms, it's rather insensitive to assume that you can generalize about an entire culture. Just date him longer and find out what he's like, as an individual.
2007-02-01 01:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Pippin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Basically what Eras and pinpin said above and you need to get to know him, Turkish men usually love children more then others and do a lot for their kids, but the main thing is that not every Turkish men are same...so think about it carefully just like you would do with a man share same nationality as you...
Best of luck...
2007-02-02 20:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by DejaVu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is right to generalize or categorize men like that. But since you seem to be very concerned and worried, I would also like to give you some information just to calm you down a little bit.
In Turkish culture, family life is very important part of our lives. We all like to spend time with our families. Husbands usually don't like their wives to spend too much time outside of the house. Most of them are very jealous of their wives and they like when their wives get jealous of them. It is not the problem that they don't trust, it is just taught that they should get jealous.
My father didn't but, they mostly love and adore their children.
In Turkish culture, it is very important to have children. Even if there are some problems between husband and wife, it is very normal for the wife and husband to continue the marriage for the happiness and healthful development of children.
An important problem that occur between couples in Turkey is betrayal because to be honest, generally Turkish men betray their wives at least once. But most of them realize their mistake and try to correct their mistake.
That is all I can say so far but you are the one to live the experience. If you are sure of your and his love, you have to take the risk I guess.
2007-02-04 13:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by goncae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what can i say? some are good, some are bad. generally, turkish men are reliable, protective and might be a little jealous(im one of these kinds' men :)). but, since there are many kinds of men, many kinds of people we cant say anything from here.
but, u have some prejudes about turkish and confuse us with arabians. turkish men dont marry with many women, this is totally wrong info of u.
2007-02-02 07:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by ErAs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think u should learn somethings about all turkish ppl because ur points r totally wrong and as a turkish man what can i say about me im a man maybe good maybe bad. u have to find out about ur man maybe he is bad. to generalize is wrong
2007-02-03 21:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by amaannnnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question..I'm a Turkish girl and I think most of them aren't good people..Ok some of them are very kind and polite people to his children and wife but there are bad types of them too..And they marry with 1 woman.
You can trust ur bf.I don't think he can hurt u if he loves u ;-) Be happy with him ;-)
2007-02-04 06:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Irmak 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes I have many Turkish friends they are good people
2007-02-01 19:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by xfile 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋