ok ive been with this guy for almost 8 mothns and he says he loves me ...what are some signs to tell that he truly means it.. im kinda fuzzy about it cuz all i use to date were jerks who cheated on me and did'nt treat me right ? i am so confused.....just right now im so confused about mine and his feelings
help!?!??!?!
2007-02-01 01:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by juggalette jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never, trust is overrated. Even if he is 200% trustworthy today and you give him your trust, tomorrow he could change or change his mind about how much he wants to tell you and therefore breaking your perspective of the trust you have. Let it go, live in the moment, he's not them and you're going to create a situation where he will behave in a way you don't want him to while you're stressin. Be happy, be secure that the only trust you need is in yourself and that you are the best you can be - what he does is between him and the big guy.
2007-02-01 01:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by kimmmmmmm1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh you poor dear. I understand how you feel. You've had all fleebs in your life and now it's hard to trust any of them. I've had the same problem with women. I can't seem to trust them. The love of my life had an affair with her boss and killed everything for me when it comes to a relationship.
The only thing you can do is do your best to trust him. Keep telling yourself that you trust him. Don't go looking for things to not trust him on. Kick back and let life move on and trust him until he gives you a reason to not trust him. If he's as good as you say he is, he won't give you any reason to not trust him. Don't look at every little thing and make it into something against you or your relationship.
It's going to be tough but you can do it and just like the old song says, "Just let your love flow like a bird on the wing".
2007-02-01 02:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I've had lots of problems with guys being jerks too, but sometimes its better just to trust guys...if he hasnt cheated on u in 8 months...thats one good sign, right? If you don't trust anyone, you'll never experience anything...
2007-02-01 01:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 07:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by roedel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not ...
you gotta risk it...
You gotta put your heart on the line, you can spend your whole life guarding it and then wake up one day and your life has past you by and you haven't fully lived...
talk about it more with him...
it may comfort you..
good luck...
2007-02-01 02:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not date if you don't know what to do...
or don't put all of this pressure on the situation
u need to just go with the flow and don't go
so fast....
2007-02-01 01:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by msconfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋