The lack of self worth on here?I mean,partners cheating and hitting each other and people ask should they forgive them?Each to their own-whatever floats your boat-but only if it suits all parties.Surely if it's a one way street you all know it's not right?
2007-02-01 01:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by *charmer* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I get the whole helping people thing...that's what this is all about.But it just saddens me that people have such a low opinion of themselves that they do consider forgiving someone who disrespected them so badly.
And also that people actually do these terrible things to one they love.
2007-02-01 02:11:41 · update #1
You know what not all people in this world are so confident in them selves that they can do anything with out a little nug in the right direction. Yes to you and me it is very simple to leave or to stop a relationship. But you have alot of factors too like kids, money,health or whatever it might be. What is right or wrong I think is not the real issue it is the persons self worth to them selves!! We all need someone once in awhile may it be right or wrong at the time!! So get off your high horse you never know how a problem might affect you someday!!
2007-02-01 02:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by ldbevers21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah men Laura! Not only are these questions disgusting but some of the answers are positively obscene. Children could be reading these and sexual questions and graphic answers are all over these boards. There is even a section devoted to homosexuals that anyone, even children, could see. Almost half the things on here are nothing more than sexual filth and these people should be ashamed of themselves.
2007-02-01 09:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life happens and it's not always a cut & dry answer.
You can't just make up your mind on some things, emotions are high & some ppl just need to talk about it.
Maybe they arent really asking our advice but deciding if they are making the right choices.
They seek reassurances here. It doesn't matter how the questions are asked, or how we feel about their questions.
What matters is that someone is hurting & needs to talk & THATS why we answer these people...It's called humanity.
2007-02-01 09:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Charmer,
This is nothing. I am founder of a support group for people who have partners who have abandoned the role as sexual partner. You should read the heartbreak of constant long term rejection and total lack of caring for people that they supposedly are in love with.
It's unbelievable that a person can claim that they love someone but have no interest in their sexual happiness.
SWAGE
2007-02-01 13:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you we're convinced that you we're in love with your soul mate you'd be sitting in the same boat. Manipulation and abuse are a mind game. Lets hope that you never have to find out what it feels like to be in this situation because it would make you a hypocrite for saying anything about it.
2007-02-01 10:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm rather surprised by some of the questions being asked also, but I'm even more surprised by some of the answers. If someone wants proof of the moral decline of the civilized world, then they just need to read a few questions and answers from Yahoo Answers.
2007-02-01 09:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Laura R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it only makes sense....this is a place people come for help, advice, and insight. If things are hunky-dory, what would you ask?
"Hello. My relationship is fantastic. Can you help me with that?"
And if their marriage is in trouble, are they going to be happy go-lucky, confident people or dissapointed, discouraged people? Also, if they didn't care, they wouldn't ask, and since they do care enough to ask, it only stands to reason that because they care what happens to their marriage, they are more likely to feel wounded and wonder if it is their issue.
However, I would agree with one of the earlier answerers....some of the answers in the "do what feels good" category make ME depressed....
2007-02-01 10:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The concept of good and bad is largely a relative one. However, I haven't seen any offence under the sun that couldn't be forgiven.
2007-02-01 09:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of these people will not leave......you need to know that before you answer the question......people want to be justified for their behavior and left alone in their decision. They never come out with what they decided to do.....they only come out to complain the poor me.....I have it so bad.....People are People.
2007-02-01 10:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We only travel down two way streets here baby!
2007-02-01 09:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋