Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

I'm 39 but always fall under 23-27 year look. i've been dating (nothing serious of course) a few guys between the age of 23-27. I'm always honest about my age but they seem to be impressed by how young i look...anyway should i stay away from the 20's? I'm also dating older guys.

2007-01-31 03:50:53 · 2 answers · asked by newcastle 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there!!

what should i sent to my brother's baby to be born, as a gift?
thanks
sam

2007-01-31 03:50:37 · 24 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-31 03:50:25 · 3 answers · asked by anjemima 1 in Singles & Dating

We get along ok. No fighting, abuse of any kind or anything. I just do not feel like I used to. We got married when we were 23 and 22. Both of us have changed so much. With our current personalitys at 34 and 33 we would most likely not be anything more than passing friends if we meet today. She is a stay at home mom. We both agreed to have children wich I love and am very happy we had. I will never leave her while they are still at home. They are more important than anything else in either of our lifes. I do not know how she feel but I would guess it is the same. I feel bad sometimes becouse I feel this way. We have been through most of our 20,s and 30's together all the hard times and good times that come with that. But what can you do when you no longer feel that connection. She is no longer the person that I turn to first in hard times, that I feel like I can count on no matter what, and that I know will understand me. Anyone else with this kind of experiance?

2007-01-31 03:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

In 12 yrs of marriage there have been a few violent fights between me and my husband.One he choked me when I was 8 mths pregnant and another he charged me,i fell and got a concussion. The others I feel equally responsible for because I was just as physical. He always knit picks at petty things about me like, I smell like an ashtray( i smoke) so does he, my coffee stinks in the morning, says that I can't make a decision to save my life (when this is actually him),says hurtful things and then says that its me because I don't get his sense of humor,once told me that having sex with me was too much work, always seems irritable and aggravated,but denies there is anything wrong. Refuses to spend any quality time with me,such as a date. keeps making excuses, any attempts I do to make our marriage better he is a road block.I know this sounds crazy,even to me, but does something seems wrong with this picture?part of me says this relationship is messed up, other parts of me says maybe its me

2007-01-31 03:49:08 · 16 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We get along ok. No fighting, abuse of any kind or anything. I just do not feel like I used to. We got married when we were 23 and 22. Both of us have changed so much. With our current personalitys at 34 and 33 we would most likely not be anything more than passing friends if we meet today. She is a stay at home mom. We both agreed to have children wich I love and am very happy we had. I will never leave her while they are still at home. They are more important than anything else in either of our lifes. I do not know how she feel but I would guess it is the same. I feel bad sometimes becouse I feel this way. We have been through most of our 20,s and 30's together all the hard times and good times that come with that. But what can you do when you no longer feel that connection. She is no longer the person that I turn to first in hard times, that I feel like I can count on no matter what, and that I know will understand me. Anyone else with this kind of experiance?

2007-01-31 03:49:08 · 26 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

not reply to a message when you were giving them a easy way out. i asked this guy i was seeing for the last few months if he didn't want me to contact him again. i think its best to be straight and upfront been hurt enough in the past so i'm straight talking. i was ready for his reply of yea i think that's best but nothing no reply i know his was just out of along relationship and is hurting. why not reply easy way out.

2007-01-31 03:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I call them Pikies....Or Chav's

And plentyoffish is full of them.....look

http://www.plentyoffish.com/basicsearch.aspx?iama=m&minage=18&maxage=23&z_code=tn11jy&seekinga=f&miles=25&searchtype=7&country=92&page=6&count=199

2007-01-31 03:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 03:47:07 · 28 answers · asked by Chika Hermosa 1 in Singles & Dating

I tell them that there not so smart and they should try more but they never listen and whenever i talk to them they are dumb and dont have any clue wat i ever talk about!!!!

2007-01-31 03:46:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you get into a physical relationship with someone, who is more likely to get emotionaly attached faster, the man or woman? By this I mean, who is it going to be harder for to let go at the end of the relationship since there was physical contact? Are the men going to want to hang on longer, or are women because they get emotionaly attached qicker? I was in a physical relationship with this guy and I am in love with him. We still talk, but is it likely that he feels the same for me?

2007-01-31 03:46:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm making a few wedding cards. i have the cover ready but i can't think up any wedding card pharses. i haven't been to very many weddings. What does it usually say inside a wedding card? Both the congratulations and invitation.

2007-01-31 03:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Weddings

Cause I see you people get to a high level in short time. I imagine you're spending a lot of time in front of this site, don't you? I sometimes access it, but..come on...1 month-level 3? half year-level 7???????!!!!!!!!!!! or are you just extremely good in this? maybe you should have become psychologists...don't get upset :)

2007-01-31 03:45:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy at batchwood hall nightclub st albans and he said he doesn't want a relationship. i refused to go home with him and i have been texting him saying i get sexully frustrated sometimes.

He revealed he felt the same way

will it ruin our friendship or make it better?

help!

2007-01-31 03:45:52 · 10 answers · asked by thecoollioness1985 1 in Friends

If a guy who is a "friend" of yours talks to you about him and his gf's sex life. Does that mean he respects her?

2007-01-31 03:45:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Fifteen years in a wonderful marriage and a friend of mine ask when does he stop being the only person giving to his wife's sister and their family. We were talking last night and he has constantly has been giving nice items to his sister-in-law, to her husband and their children. He only communicates through his wife but not once have they given anything back; their hands have extended more since he makes good money and has nice things. What struck the questions was when he gave to some very, very poor friends of his family and they were so appreciative they used some of their money that he gave to buy him a cake to show appreciation. This made him feel good but the next day his sister-in-law asked if one of their children could have one of his computers. Now he feels used since she has never given anything back; not even a thank you card. When is enough enough??? I know we should not give to receive but at the same time, I don't feel he should be sucked dry.

2007-01-31 03:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by George S 1 in Family

flirt at all. He used to try but now he dosent even care and I love to be flirted with. I have tried to give him pointers but nothings working. What do I do? Other men flirt with me all the time and I like it but I wish it was my husband.

2007-01-31 03:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by Shannon B 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so you all know that Valentines Day is coming up very very.................................soon and i havent got my boyfriend gift yet. But im just 14 he is 15 and no im not gi=ving him sex thats alredy out of the questio. So what im asking is what sould i get him and dont me nasty. I need all your amnswers and adive right now. HELP ME ASAP

2007-01-31 03:44:27 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Singles & Dating

I have twins boys 3 yrs. and 4 other kids, 2 are teens and the others are, ones 10 , and 5. plus I take care of my 88yr. old grandmother and I have a type 1 (diabetic) husband . and my dad is a manic depressant and I live with all in a single wide trailer , OH plus 4 dogs , not mine. AND 2 ex' s that don't pay childsupport ect... This is my real life!Happy and tried, because they all love me, sometime I think too,much. If you have more differicult life . tell me so i can feel not so alone. True Lives please?

2007-01-31 03:44:00 · 9 answers · asked by TCC Revolution 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my boyfriend when I was 18. We met the first day I was in college, because I joined the collegiate newspaper staff and he was already a member. We co-wrote lots of articles together and had all of our classes toegther (we were both journalism majors). We got to be good friends and both graduated. He worked in our college town and I moved away for a year. We kept in close contact and when I moved back we moved in together and have been having a live-in realtionship for 8 months now. I am kind of seeking a propsal now. We are in graduate school togther and I like the idea of a long engagement and the commitment factor. He had already said that he wants to be with me forever, but although it sonds kind of greedy, I want the symbolism of a proposal and a ring...although there is no need for a large ring.

2007-01-31 03:43:02 · 19 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 03:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by hot gal 1 in Friends

I mean, why do people get back with their ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends? They've exprienced the disappointment once, but they do it again! Don't you ever learn? Don't you think that with the amount of people on this planet (and there are some pretty good looking ones... ok, not all of them for sure!) it would be wiser to turn the page and start anew? It seems to be the easiest the thing to do rather than go out and find somebody new... Why do people do that?

2007-01-31 03:41:42 · 39 answers · asked by simoncrann 2 in Weddings

Best explanation 10 points.

2007-01-31 03:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Friends

the story is that I foud out that my gf cheated on me, how I found out?? well I saw an email that she wrote to a guy and I read his response, the where saying how they love each other ..ect...

I told her, and she said that it was nothing and that she didnt write anything, she cried to assured me that it was nothing, and after 2 days of argument I told her that it was ok and to forget about it....but the truth is that I didnt forget about it

I told her that yesterday " listen I dont think you are hosnest with me"and she said "why dont you trust me"...ect...and she cried....now I feel bad for making her cry, should I feel bad about that??

just want to point out that in past 2 months, she had changed alot, she wasnt as romantic as she was with me

2007-01-31 03:41:07 · 19 answers · asked by sergio r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when you returned?

2007-01-31 03:40:55 · 4 answers · asked by nobody 5 in Friends

well i like a shy guy and he asked me for my number and stuff. he was suppose to call me but he didnt and he always makes up and exsuce. like he cant hang out because he is going to his brother. i wanna get to know him and everything

what should i do to make a date of get his attention.

2007-01-31 03:40:32 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Justinee X3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-31 03:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-31 03:38:52 · 27 answers · asked by katerina 1 in Singles & Dating

talk to him on the phone yesterday, but wait i need my ladies on this one he said it is good if we dont talk on the phone every day but am like it bad enough i not going to every see you again then you got to pull one like this what wrong with you. does this mean something bad or good for me is the friendship going down hills or should i just be patient and stopping worrying myself.

2007-01-31 03:38:24 · 1 answers · asked by jazzyjqween 1 in Friends

line a guy has used on you ?

2007-01-31 03:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships