Best explanation 10 points.
2007-01-31 03:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My friend is 19 i am 14.
2007-01-31 03:42:08 · update #1
Friends w/ benefits means that you guys mess around/have sex,but both understand that is as far as the relationship is going to go.So as long as you are both single,you can meet up and do the dirty deeds,and just be friends!
2007-01-31 03:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1) Since you are 14 years old, you are being manipulated by a sexual predator. Legal age of consent is 18. This, legally, is considered statutory rape.
2) You are being used for sex, and nothing but sex. You are nothing more to this person than a sexual outlet.
3) You better tell your parents and have yourself checked for any STD's. This guy is probably manipulating more young girls than yourself.
2007-01-31 11:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means that u guys are just buddies that call each other up if u wanna f***. Your not a gf and that's not ur bf. Both of u guys understand what ur relationship is and u guys except it. U might hang out every now and then but mainly just the sexual part of yall relationship is what he at least aims for. No strings attached relationship.
2007-01-31 11:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It means your guy friend is a child molester! You're 14 and he's 19? Child, tell your parents!
2007-01-31 11:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mo the treehugger! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends with benifits means that you are friends but also share sex with eachother without a commitment.
And his age means that you are jail bait and that if he cared at all for you he would be your platonic friend ( that means without sex)
Likewise if he truly is your friend you would keep sex out of it so he doesn't end up in jail.
2007-01-31 11:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get out of there. That means you do sexual things for each other and right now that is against the law. Call dateline and ask them what it means.
2007-01-31 11:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means he wants to have sex with you but doesn't want anything more. Basically, he's using you. Especially if the age difference is what you say it is.
With that age difference it's possible to get him arrested and jailed for statutory rape if he has sex with you.
2007-01-31 11:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lake 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means the only thing he wants from you is sex. He has no intention of taking the relationship any further, such as being bf & gf.
He's your friend for one reason only.
2007-01-31 11:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Chatty 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It means that he expects you to have sex with him, and that's it. You can't think of yourself as anything more than just someone he can have sex with. AND, during that time, he can also have sex with anyone else. That should make you feel special.
2007-01-31 11:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by rob_hallock 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh my, i tried this with recent ex, a few months ago. It is being friends only in public, and in private, you call one another, see one another, and maybe some 'getting it on'
Run away from it unless you don't have 'feelings' for him and you think you could be OK with meaningless sex, because that's all it will end up being, trust me, I know....
Since you added your additional info: he is using you, he wants to have sex with you, but not get caught.... stay away from him........................
2007-01-31 11:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋