Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

there is this person i have known for years , but she barley talks to me and she barley looks at me, but every1 else like me cept her i don't know what to do i really like her she is very beautiful.any advice?

2007-01-31 04:28:40 · 4 answers · asked by Fanatic Lover 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 04:28:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont know what to think?
My boyfriend is 26 hes a 1st LT we have been talking about getting married because he might be getting stationed in Germany! So when we were in Indiana at Christmas with his family he said we will go to the court house if I get the job because I wont go without you. But now it looks like he is going to be getting the job and it stresses me out and scares me cause he will be gone for 2 years. When he told me I stayed strong and I was kidding and I said you cant go without me and he said well you cant go. So I dont know if he is just saying that or if he is going to propose and hes just trying to throw me off. Please help. Let me know what you guys think! Thank you

2007-01-31 04:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it can be odd, unusual, perverted, twisted all is accepted

2007-01-31 04:27:25 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know any legitimate way I can come up with $1500 in a month? Please don't refer me to prepaid legal.....I need serious answers. My husband's ex is about to move out of state with his son and we need an attorney to fight this so that he can see him on a regular basis......and yes, he pays child support which I know someone will say but that is not the issue....thanks!

2007-01-31 04:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by Lori W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a tendancy to tell guys that are into me in the first week or so in dating to go ahead and date other people if they want to. After they hear that they get upset and say that they aren't interested in anyone else. Of course I dont want them to date other people but I seem to say this when I am totally into the guy. Am I insecure or just afraid of being hurt if he decides to just run off with another girl? Hmmm... I want the guy to know I dont expect him to just date me but then I do....but I guess its a test to see if he would really go out with anyone else. Is this normal?

2007-01-31 04:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with one of my bestfriends??? i have a boyfriend.. What should i do...

2007-01-31 04:26:59 · 3 answers · asked by Mz. Robbinson 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it akward in this day and age for a guy to wait until he's married to have sex? I mean what if the guy is in his 30's or even 40's?

Is it a turn off for girls?

2007-01-31 04:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by Kasm 1 in Singles & Dating

I been with this girl for about 8 months ive done done everything i could to take care of her and the worst part is she has genitals warts and never told me until i found them on myself then she confesses but i love her so much im willing to deal with it but now she says im not sexually attractive like i use to be and she wants time apart she says she still wants to be with me but not right now if we dont get back together ive now got something that mosty girls wont even talk to u because they know u have it i just dont know what to do it seems like she is using me because she knows i'll do anything for her please someone try to help me understand.

2007-01-31 04:26:20 · 3 answers · asked by cox7648 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like Men have changed so much. I mean what happened to monogamie? Why can't you guys just settle for one female anymore? Why do you have this pressure to explore and have sex with other females? Why don't you value love anymore? Why don't you fine as hell men out there with the career don't want a good girl anymore? Why do we have to be extraordinarily good looking with a career, have your babies without getting out of shape, give you your privacy, cook & keep the house clean just so you can still cheat on us? Why don't you give us your love we deserve it, not no other woman out there just cause she looks good in a short dress can replace the love we feel for you, doesnt that show in everything we do for you? What would we have to be like in order to get what we want from you? Things like respect, trust, love, devotion, loyalty, graditude & consideration?

2007-01-31 04:26:12 · 37 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 04:26:02 · 27 answers · asked by prince47 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm the maid of honor at my best friend's wedding in April. How much of a gift am I expected to give? Am I to take into consideration that I have to pay to get my hair, makeup and nails done on top of getting a dress & shoes? Or not? Do I give more since I'm the Maid of Honor or can I give the normal amount I would give if I were just a reglaur attendee? Please help!

2007-01-31 04:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What physical feature of a girl would turn u off?
Is it bad acne, thick thighs, eyebags...anything

2007-01-31 04:24:52 · 3 answers · asked by joan_the_yaminion 2 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with the first love of my life, and I am depressed! What can I do to keep him off my mind?

2007-01-31 04:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by Precious 1 in Singles & Dating

break wind right in the heat of the moment? Laugh? Run and hide? Or pretend like you didn't hear a thing??

2007-01-31 04:24:15 · 20 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

do you think he will jus up an leave me like everyone else who has relocated on me he i moveing farther and farther away and i'm so like flipping out

2007-01-31 04:24:11 · 4 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Singles & Dating

I know there is no definate way of telling ut he is the only one who has had the window of opportuinity to take this money out of my wallet.Since then he has bought a new mob phone and repaid a debt of twenty pounds.In that short time of 24hrs.This is really a bad situation i find myself in.Any experience would be of help.I know the money was in my wallet because i have a witness to my cash who saw me count it out twice.And he has not had the opportunity to take it only this one person has.Other than seeing him take it i am sure he has.i have done some maths as i was given more money after my witness had seen me count out my money out to add to my total.Either way money has gone missing with the person i believe that has taken it.I just need tell tell signs if there are any such ones..

2007-01-31 04:23:32 · 11 answers · asked by The Ghost of Scousertommy 2 in Friends

I'm throwing my best friend her bachelorette party for her wedding (she doesn't trust the MOH with it) and I want to send some really cute custom invitations. What are some cute/funny ways I could word the invites? Rhymes are always cute too ;-). Thanks a bunch!

2007-01-31 04:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

been married for over 3 years now but seperated for 1 year can he still be removed from the country or not?

2007-01-31 04:22:38 · 7 answers · asked by LISA A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I explain it to them they are 9 and 11

2007-01-31 04:22:33 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Lin 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 04:22:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this great gal for 5 weeks now. 3 weeks ago she asked me if I could keep a secret that could be told to absolutely no one, of course I can, I said. Then she wouldn't tell me, she said she didn't trust me. That kind of pi**ed me off, why even bring it up if you aren't gonna tell me? Oh well. Last night I finally got it out of her. For the last 6 months her neighbor has relentlessly been persuing sex from her and it has been driving her nuts. She said he calls her a minimum of 5 times a day every day. He plays footsie and touchy feely under the card table when we have them and other couples over for cards. You get the idea. This guy is well known in the community and very verbally influential. My new gal loves his wife and kids, they all get along great and she doesn't want to lose that friendship. My gal is afraid if she says anything there will be he** to pay and that this guy could make her life miserable. How do we deal with this guy and this situation.

2007-01-31 04:21:35 · 2 answers · asked by Yaasbut 1 in Singles & Dating

NAMED AND SHAMED!!!
An italian chef accused of deliberately infecting his girlfriend with HIV will be extradited back to Scotland to face criminal charges.
Giovanni Mola, 36, jumped bail and fled back to Italy after being charged with culpable and reckless conduct and endangering the health and life of the woman.

Giovanni Mola, you are a disgrace to us italians! We are naughty by nature, but we need to do with responsabilty!

Your picture is here for everyone to see....

http://coolcyberdude.ifastnet.com/Giovanni%20Mola.jpg

2007-01-31 04:20:50 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

what would u do if when u were walking with ure boyfriend..lets say in a mall, and while holding ure hand he's checking out everything in a skirt that walks by.....

2007-01-31 04:20:44 · 2 answers · asked by joan_the_yaminion 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked an earlier question yesterday titled My Marriage. If you'd like to read it it's closed and under Marriage and Divorce.

Anyhow, I'd like to clear a few details before I ask my question.

There has been only pushing, and yelling between my husband and I. Also, I have moved out, living with my mother at the time. We have a 2 month old daughter, which he does simply adore. Both of us have extreme tempers that flare quickly.

Just so you know, I do not blame myself for his behavior. I do say though that I am a person that aggravates others, which does not help the situation. I want to work this out between us, and we still have some options left. If they don't work, then yes, I will be getting a divorce from him. If we do get this help, I will not be living with him during that time.

Now my question to you is, if we decide to try and fix things before they get any worse, would you suggest a therapist for each of us to see, a marriage counselor, or both?

2007-01-31 04:20:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, this means that I have attended several bridal showers (work, home, different sets of friends, etc) and several baby showers. She is due with her 2nd baby in the next few months and I am showered out! Should I feel obligated to throw her a shower, when I have spent so much on shower gifts lately? She keeps hinting around about it whenever I speak to her, so I am assuming that no one has volunteered for this yet.

2007-01-31 04:20:12 · 11 answers · asked by Sharon 5 in Friends

2007-01-31 04:19:56 · 50 answers · asked by st. p 1 in Singles & Dating

at work last night, a friend jumped in and stated in front of the guy that i have a crush on , "we want to know if u r single?" she did it out of the blue and i had never told her ab my feelings for the guy. he smiled and said" yes, i am single" but i was so embarresed bc she made me look desperate. afterwards i just steped out the area and kept myself busy. in two days i'll be working with him but now i am very uncomfortable and i am not sure ab his feeligs. what to do?

2007-01-31 04:19:27 · 23 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 04:19:22 · 17 answers · asked by whirlwhiz2000 2 in Friends

IN my case my parents are saying that they are showing their
love and affection to me, but i cannot find it so only i want to known that it is in my case or others are also having the same
problem.

2007-01-31 04:19:14 · 12 answers · asked by Joy P 1 in Family