I know there is no definate way of telling ut he is the only one who has had the window of opportuinity to take this money out of my wallet.Since then he has bought a new mob phone and repaid a debt of twenty pounds.In that short time of 24hrs.This is really a bad situation i find myself in.Any experience would be of help.I know the money was in my wallet because i have a witness to my cash who saw me count it out twice.And he has not had the opportunity to take it only this one person has.Other than seeing him take it i am sure he has.i have done some maths as i was given more money after my witness had seen me count out my money out to add to my total.Either way money has gone missing with the person i believe that has taken it.I just need tell tell signs if there are any such ones..
2007-01-31 04:23:32 · 11 answers · asked by The Ghost of Scousertommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have probably seen a few tell tale signs already and as time goes on you'll see more.I say steer clear, do not initiate any phonecalls or meeting up and if this can't be helped keep your bag close to you, even if it is just the two of you in the room, take your bag with you if you need to leave the room.I have never been in your situation but i know what it's like when you lose trust in someone, recently i have had to lock away all my personal and work related belongings away everytime i leave my desk at work and the look on the colleagues face who i had lost trust in when she saw me do this told me exactly what i needed to know and although i am not happy about it in another respect i am relieved because at least i know what/whom i am dealing with.
hope i have been of some help
2007-01-31 08:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a very similar situation. Like you I was unsure about how much money I actually had at the time but knew I had more than the amount left when I needed it again.
Only 1 person had access to this money apart from me, a long term friend whom I trusted implicity. However, because I could not be absolutely certain How much money I actually had, I decided not to confront him and leave it to his conscience - after all he was a very close friend.
I did not see him again for some months and made no attempt to contact him. Eventually he decided to contact me and I could tell by the tone of his voice that something was troubling him. I agreed to meet him in a neutral place and, on meeting, I remained non-committal and allowed him to lead the conversation.
After a few minutes of pleasantries he said that he had a confession to make and that he had stolen £200.00 from me but that he intended to pay it back. My response was to say that he had not lost my friendship but that he had completely lost my trust and must work hard to regain it. This he accepted and is still working on proving to me that he can be trusted.
He has not yet repaid the money but, to me, the main issue is trust. I know he feels remorse for his actions.
I hope my experience helps you to resolve your situation a little.
2007-01-31 04:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by paul h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be 100% sure. Think about it again and if you are absolutely satisfied it was stolen by this friend (he actually isn't a friend of he wouldn't steal from you) play it cool. Confrontation will get you no where , he's not going to admit it .If you can't prove it he could end up turning the tables on you and make you out a liar. If he is part of a group I know difficult to break all contact but be especially careful with your belongings, try and avoid him visiting where you live and most of all remember if he did it once he could do it again. Keep this person at a safe distance.
2007-01-31 04:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really your friend, then the right thing to do is sit him down and speak to him about him. Try not to accuse him, as this will just make him defensive. Once you have confronted him and gotten his side of the story, decide if you believe him and if the friendship is worth continuing. If he admits to it, make sure he is sorry and plans to pay you back. If he says that he didn't, then you have to decide whether or not you believe him. If you don't then I would discontinue the friendship, as you will never trust him or feel completely comfortable around him again anyway.
2007-01-31 04:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joke back! Soo heres an idea: Tell them if they don't give you your money back, your gonna call the police. And if they don't... Muahaha.... Get a friend to dress up as an under cover cop and actualy arrest them! Haha nice right? MuahahahahahahaMuahahahaha (cough-cough....practicaly choking..) lol hope i helped! Good Luck man, you got this! : )
2016-03-28 22:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is just no way you can confront him as he will never admit to it even if he did do it. Just dont leave him on his own when there is money about. This is a hard one really cause you could be wrong and by asking him it might break your friendship.
2007-01-31 05:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Next time you meet, and making sure you're in a face to face situation, tell him about your lost money. You won't need to say you think he's the one to have taken it. I'm sure you'll be able to see by the expression in his eyes, and on his face whether he's guilty or not.
2007-01-31 06:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get the answer you want as he won't admit it all you can do is put it down to experience but also you could be wrong
2007-01-31 04:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by top cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he took it, he not going admit it, i think it better to let it go and be carefully next time
2007-01-31 04:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i would be very cold againist that person and would stop meeting.
2007-01-31 05:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋