2007-01-31 04:19:22 · 17 answers · asked by whirlwhiz2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you will have to do is confront your friend with the information that you have and you don't have to let her know your source but just confront her and let her know how she hurt you and what you were feeling at the time, give her a chance to come clean and if she doesn't apologize and come clean and promise to never do it again, let her go......
Always keep your guard up with her and be very careful because I've found that most people like this hardly ever change
2007-01-31 04:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, the person who does that cannot be a friend. He is only pretending to be a friend. You should severe all relations with such a person, who harmed you surreptitiously. But before that, you should expose him, so that similar acts are not repeated in future.
But make sure that you are not mistaken, because quite often we misinterpret the acts of a person and nurture a wrong idea about him throughout our lives.
Best thing for you to do is to ask him for an explanation and find out what is his side of the story. Then decide your course of action. Don't act on impulses.
2007-01-31 12:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by saudipta c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive but dont forget. Everyone makes mistakes. Has he or she said sorry for it? Do they really and truly feel bad about it? If so then just let it go by. Chances are you probably have also stabed someone you knew in the back (whether they found out about it or not). I have. I stabbed one of my friends in the back a while ago and we are not friends anymore. I miss her so much and that is one of my BIGGEST regrets. She is your friend. Forgive her, you dont have to ever TRUST her or him again but atleast still be there friend. Tell them that you forgive them but the trust/loyalty bar dropped. Goodluck i hope everything turns out okay for you!
2007-01-31 12:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by twentyalready?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi fren first thing u came to know the truth of ur fren so its totally depend on u to continue u r relationship or not but abt stabbing and betrayal definetly u should forgive him/her by heart and think abt the next decision of quitting his/her frenship thnk relaxly that in ths world frens are like oxygen to live. in day to day life u'll meet all these kind f people daily. so learn to live bravely and happily.
In anthor words trust is u r self and be u r self.
2007-01-31 13:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by ayesha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big thing, and trust is what you lose when things like this happen.If the friend is sorry then you gotta think is this problem that big to lose a friend over and if it is you gotta also think are you willing to give this person a second try only if they want it. it might hurt but, be blunt friend are for life.make sure you have the right one. sorry for the betraly.
2007-01-31 12:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by pvy_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone stabs u in the back they are not your friend, distance yourself, and cut them out of your life, and never go back around them.
2007-01-31 12:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to school and learn to write a proper sentence.
2007-01-31 12:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply call them out on it....especially in front of other people. That way they'll look like a total idiot.
2007-01-31 12:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget and forgive the person
2007-01-31 12:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by spiritual healer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget and forgive the person.
2007-02-01 00:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋