So, this means that I have attended several bridal showers (work, home, different sets of friends, etc) and several baby showers. She is due with her 2nd baby in the next few months and I am showered out! Should I feel obligated to throw her a shower, when I have spent so much on shower gifts lately? She keeps hinting around about it whenever I speak to her, so I am assuming that no one has volunteered for this yet.
2007-01-31 04:20:12 · 11 answers · asked by Sharon 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get several people together ( friends & Family) to organize it.
and instead of buying her something, give her a card with a certificate for a night out, and you'll babysit.
2007-02-08 04:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't obligated to her for anything, if anything, she should be thanking you for all of the assistance in the past. If you can't afford it, don't, you too have to live past other individuals life achievements. A second baby, does she really need a shower, does she have other friends or family members who could take over the reigns this time? I don't mean to sound harsh, but lets be real here. God Bless.
2007-02-06 20:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 09:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by carris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you i would just keep the price low but help her throw a party for her baby cause after all she is your friend and you could always need something like that in return
2007-02-08 04:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by sexxi angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a bit longer. Maybe somone else will volunteer! Besides, you shouldn't have to feel obligated to do something like that.
2007-02-07 15:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel ambivilant towards showers right now, you probably wouldn't throw a very good one--or you would be gritting your teeth through the whole thing. I say don't feel pressured into it.
2007-02-06 17:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by ecarian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with some of her other friends and ask for help and ideas;or what till baby is born and see what she really needs. maybe a couple people can go intogether a just get one thing really nice
2007-02-08 00:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most people only have one babyshower and thats for their fitst baby only. But you are her friend and even thow you are tierd out you should still do it for her if thats what she really wants. After all thats what friends are for.
2007-02-06 15:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont want to do it, then dont do it, you shouldnt feel obligated just because shes your friend...
and if she asks about it again....mention your broke lol
2007-02-07 23:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act dumb , i hate people dropping obvious hints,makes me more determined to be totally oblivious to what they are hinting at.
2007-02-06 15:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by pugsaleena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋