flirt at all. He used to try but now he dosent even care and I love to be flirted with. I have tried to give him pointers but nothings working. What do I do? Other men flirt with me all the time and I like it but I wish it was my husband.
2007-01-31 03:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by Shannon B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple, there's no law that says people can't flirt so let the other guys flirt all they want and all you have to do is imagine that they are your husband. You can imagine can't you? I'm not so good with flirtations either but I get buy. Some times I get lucky but most of the time I get tongue twisted and caught up in what I'm saying
By utilizing what other guys say to you you can bring your marriage together better and you aren't cheating if you don't do anything about it.
2007-01-31 04:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off if any one else answers that you should feel bad or shouldn't flirt with other guyz they can go to hell, there is nothing wrong with flirting as long as that is all it is, ok now, i agree with you its feels great to be flirted with, wither its a stranger or your hubby or wife, or gf, bf, now, what to do to get him to flirt.....well i could be here all day and talk bout it, and not get anywere with our a lil more detail and your responces to my coments and questions, so if you want to send me a IM message on yahoo, i'll be home after 5 and i can give you some tips and pointers to try :) and just so you know i'm great at this stuff, i really need to start charging:)
2007-01-31 03:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was he at it when he was courting you? Try some role playing with him. Tell him to come to a select bar and try to pick you up like its your first time meeting. Maybe he needs some competition? Make him watch you flirt with another guy at the bar, bet that will bet his attention!
2007-01-31 03:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by flirting with him. Flirting with him gives him not only teaches him what it means to flirt, but it may boost his self esteem and self confidence enough reciprocate.
2007-01-31 03:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by wonderingwifenga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always flirt with him first, if he's not very good at it then take him to a bar with a pencil and paper and tell him to take notes.
2007-01-31 03:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good if you got to flirt with others...go to an ocultist and spell him!
2007-01-31 03:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him grab his butt..play tickling games, things like that..hopefully you will relight the fire that has burned out in him..
2007-01-31 03:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u tell him that he cant flirt...??? if u havent tell him that it bothers you and try to make him jealous somehow... by talkin to other men and mayb goin out to lunch as friends with one....
2007-01-31 03:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be grateful for those guys willing to do it... And when that turns you on enough, give your husband the night of his life... :D
2007-01-31 03:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, just let him be himself. You seem to have a problem, not him.
2007-01-31 03:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋