my husband never takes the initiative to make love to me. i am frustrated and have tried to understand and talk to him about my needs, but it just does not change. i am 36, he is 37, we are healthy and okay with life, married for almost ten years, could this be the reason? i have a high sex drive, i could make love every night. but now i have to reduce my appetite, control myself, and wait until i cannot hold the need anymore. i sometimes have the feeling i have to "rape" him to get satisfied. this is very frustrating. last time we spoke he just said that it's because he does not think about sex, but he's not alone in the marriage. and having sex when we want to is one reason people get married. is it really possible for a man to stay without sex for a month? i am sure that if i was able to resist it, he could just stop having sex altogether. I do not really know what to do. I am not even sure he is taking it serioulsy and understanding how it affects me, my feminity and happiness.
2007-01-31
03:12:38
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Lisa
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Marriage & Divorce