I've created a monster!!!?

Question

I have done something very childish and bad and now i don't know hhow to get out of it... I created a fake e-mail to find out what my crush thought about me...I found out he wasn't interested because we didn't click...whatever...but now I've found myself talking to him for almost three hours straight everyday...and he loooves talking to me...he says i'm smart, loves want he hears back and there is a connection he hadn't felt in a long time...he now wants to meet me in person ...but he can't because then imagine what he'll think of me... how do i get out of this...how do I make him see that the girl he turned down is perfect for him in every level.. every aspect and that sometimes it takes a little time to see that...:(
please help my conscience is starting to itch...

Answer 1

do it to it. at the very least he'll learn some valuable sitcom lesson that the most beautiful thing is sometimes right under your nose slash urkel is really funny?

something like that

Answer 2

Well, haven't you just disturbed a hornets nest with this one!! You might consider starting to let him know (on-line of course) in bits and pieces that the two of you already know each other, and that to meet would be a mistake at this point. Perhaps when he is ready to meet you, you will agree-but in the future. And have you asked him (on-line) if he is already with another girl? What was his answer? Maybe it is only you that has the crush, and he does not like the "real" you. A lot of things to think about for sure! Good luck with this problem!!

Answer 3

That's so cute! This is what I'd do. Tell him to meet you someplace, get there a little earlier, in disguise. Watch him for a bit, and when he looks agitated or is about to leave, "bump" into him. Casually mention something from one of your chatting sessions and see if he catches on.
Eventually, if you really like this guy, you're going to have to tell the truth. Otherwise your just some kind of "wierd online stalker".

Good Luck!

Answer 4

To be user-friendly i'm shocked he replaced into prepared to have intercourse with you once you cheated on him, much less proceed relationship - there is somewhat no longer something you're able to do different than study out of your errors and not cheat lower back, experience like crap (which you deserve), and circulate on interior the relationship if achieveable.

Answer 5

This is one fine example of how wrong people can be when they say 'we both don't click'. It really means they have not given themselves enough chance.

You have disproved - at least in your mind - he is wrong and that yes - you both do in fact 'click'.

Now, the next move is yours. In one of your 3-hour sessions, you ought to come clean and tell him. If he finds you that much compatible, he should at least be happy that you took extraordinary steps to really 'talk' to him. If he is man enough he will see this in the proper light and accept you for what you are.

No you did not create a monster. You did an unusual thing. But, of course tell yourself this - you should be prepared for disappointment when you do tell him. But then, the satisfaction is in knowing that he is not man enough and that how he reacts. If he rejects you, may be that is a good thing.

You have done nothing wrong. In fact, it is quite innovative....!!

Good luck.

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Answer 6

why didnt u 2 click in the first place? ok just suprise him and show up some where to meet him be ur self he will see it his self that u r perfect for him in every way cuz he will know how good u guys got along before u met in person how well u guys connected what r u telling him ur name is

Answer 7

You only have 2 choices. You can:

1) Set up the meeting and then he is BUSTED!!!

2) You tell him in a nice / polite email from the Fake Lying You and tell him you met someone else.

Either way, you are about to lose it all. Dishonesty is NOT the way to be in a relationship.

Answer 8

You need to tell him the truth, but in person. Over email won't help at all. IT will probably be easier for him to take the information from you in person. If he doesn't believe you then try again in about a week and he will probably realize that you are better then he assumed and he likes you. Well good luck!

Answer 9

ooohhhhhh im sorry to hear that hun, but you must tell him thats you. sure he may get a little peived but thats the only way to solve this.
see i wanted to do something simulare to my fiance, he works during the day me at night, and i wanted to be someone else and see if he is what i think he is,.....and yes i said fiance, and no there is no trust factor there he cheated, and i dont know why im marring him. but doing so there is conciquences to playing another person on the internet.
lol hehehaha. thats not towards you hun.
anywho............. you must tell him, swallow your pride and confesse. he may resect you more, he may think that you two do have something to share.
who knows right.
not to sound weird but you can email me and let me know how it goes, my older sister had the exact same problem as you and she listened to me cause she too felt bad.
and now they are married with a child on the way

good luck

Answer 10

Wow--that's a good story. Pretty funny if you ask me!

Here's what you do--arrange to meet him--and--oh my god--actually DO IT!

Tell him that you wanted to get to know him, and you wanted him to get to know you without the drama of your lives causing a problem. Laugh, and tell him you're sorry you went about it in this way, but it's not such a huge deal! Really--compare your problem to a little girl in Baghdad who will watch one of her family members get blown to bits today... Honestly, your situation is pretty minimal and if this guy is actually worth it, he'll see the humor in it and probably give you a chance!

Answer 11

Here's the deal. With the real you, he sees the whole picture and has decided you're not compatible. With the on line you, he sees a sliver of you and makes up the rest. And what he makes up is what he'd really like to see. But that's not you. It's not going anywhere. The online you needs to go away.