Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

ive only got £20 any ideas ?

any links or pics would b grate

thanks

2007-01-30 01:33:30 · 17 answers · asked by doughnut1002001 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if you have fallen out of love with someone if you still care for them and want the best for them?

I still like spending time with him, I trust him, I am attracted to him, I enjoy spending quite nights alone with him and I also enjoy going out for dinners and spending time with our families, therefore I still care for him, How do I know if I have fallen out of love with him or not if indeed I do still Care about him?

2007-01-30 01:31:57 · 1 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Over the last 2 years i have grown really to like a guy that I come into contact as part of my business for a few mins a day most days of the week, one day in the summer I was totally brash and out of character by looking him up and down like I really wanted him, (must of been a pretty hot day) and he got very nervous and started dropping things, I started giggling, but he just got more nervous, feeling a bit guilty about my actions I cooled off a bit, ever since then I have chatted with him, and seem to have been gaining his confidence little by little. Recently he has been speaking to me in a soft voice, always saying Hello in a pleasing tone, I like holding his stare, he seemed pretty pleased about it last time I looked at him that way, that "I know she fancies me" kinda smirk but not sarcastic if you know what I mean. Now the thing is I can't tell if he first of all fancies me, and secondly I can't tell if he is married or in a relationship. I really like him what do I do?

2007-01-30 01:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by greatdane 2 in Singles & Dating

But we cant stop arguing.I am 16 and she's 40,we dont have a generarion gap,she's open minded.I am the best student at school,or anything that i do,i hang out with a nice crowd!But t's either my messy room,not wearing clothes she fully approves of(although she pretty much likes the way I dress).I know she is too concerned about me and she does it out of her love,but it is soul-out-wearing.....I know I am wrong at everything and it is my fault if we argue.I love her so much and I can't take this anymore.She and dad are the people who I would give my life for....

2007-01-30 01:30:57 · 44 answers · asked by Demi 2 in Family

ok last year i was so SHY i didn't WANT any friends....this year i'm totally the opposite...outgoing everything
BUT even though i'm not shy enough to make friends it's kinda hard cause some people are mean and unaccepting and view me as a "wannabe" though i'm not even thinking their way! IM JUST TRYING TO GET FRIENDS!!!

and everyone has their friends/bf's already i feel like i would be breaking them apart to be part of their group!!

there must be a way to do this!!! ANY ADVICE THAT WILL WORK??????? =(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((...

2007-01-30 01:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Not trying to be perverted, but just curious what feature of your spouse turns you on.

With me it's my wife's eyes.

2007-01-30 01:29:44 · 34 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy online and it happened that he was going to a city near where I live for vacation. We chatted a few times online and enjoyed each other's company.So we decided to meet for dinner in my city ( it was actually his idea) then he would leave the next day to travel across the country.

However, he has stayed for almost 2 weeks now. I showed him around the city and also cities nearby. We had a great time together. On the birthday card he gave me he wrote that he had to leave soon because he had started to like me a little too much, and his trip later would be lonely without me.

I can tell he likes me. Nothing has happened between us though except for a kiss from him on my cheek at my birthday dinner.

I like him and really want him to stay longer. And on more than one occasion I felt like kissing him but didn't since he never really kissed me. He told me before he was shy.

So should I make the first move. And is it ok for me to ask him to stay longer

2007-01-30 01:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by Z 1 in Singles & Dating

i noticed recently that when you pose a question or add details to one...the button you have to click on says SUBMIT...lol...does anyone else think that someone at Y! was playing saucy mind games when they put that in...or is it just me and my saucy mind...?...

2007-01-30 01:29:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been on singles.net and yahoo and many other sites for months now and I had no idea my 13 y/o daughter has been hacking his site and only told me last week since then we installed a stealth keylogger to our computer. He has been calling and even met some of these women. I feel sick it makes me sick to think of some of the pictures and nasty chats I have read. I confronted him about all this and he tells one lie after another. He has no idea that i can read and even see every thing he types into the computer. We have had our problems with this marriage. And I am not innocent we split up for a while this spring and I did start seeing someone else but I told him it was over first and I told him or asked him to leave but he would not after doing so for 2 months I finally just went out with someone else. I ended this and we where trying to save our marriage. I thought our relationship was better than it had been for 9 years but the whole time hes been looking and playing me.

2007-01-30 01:29:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was thinking if I can go for a movie alone. or will it look odd if i go there and sit all by myself?

2007-01-30 01:28:17 · 39 answers · asked by drno 2 in Singles & Dating

my now feiancee keeps getting in these moods and yes i know he just got fired from his job and he has no money in his pocket but i have no problem at all supporting him for a while untill he gets another job (which is really hard to find in the city we live in) but hes still not happy and im not shure if its because he cant get a job and dosent like the idea of spending my money or what like he will get home from looking for a job give me a kiss and then just sit there he will talk a little but i know hes upset and when i ask he just wont answer or says baby dont worry about it...
what am i supposta do? i work 14 hours a day and when i come home i dont want to go out and help him look for a job this is making my life hell im 2 mths pregnent and the stress of him is making me sick hes normaly one of the most happy people iv met...
any help would be greatly appreacited

2007-01-30 01:28:00 · 9 answers · asked by Day Dreamer 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know i have feeling for her, but shes still in love w/ her ex-bf, and i know i have the courage to ask her, i just dont know what to say..plz help

2007-01-30 01:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by jedi_stigma 2 in Singles & Dating

I am virgin and I find myself really attracted to this guy I met through my sister. We are already disscussing children and I can really see him as the father of any child that I carry. The only thing that is holding me back is the fact that I am afraid of the "BIG DAY" that I do break my virginity! Does it hurt? Will it hurt? are the main ?'s that I do have! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! What should I do? am I ready? At least I think I am!

2007-01-30 01:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by LaLa-Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel everything I do is never good enough. I ask what she wants I do it I give and I feel all she do is take. I don't want to leave her, we have a young child and I believe in our marriage, I will say this if we didn't have a child together I would have left her. My son means everything to me, but I am to the point where I am ready to give up any suggestions besides counsling I have asked her but she wont I know shes not cheating please help

2007-01-30 01:27:04 · 13 answers · asked by WILLIEWOMPA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I found a love letter written by my wife to her classmate who she met when he came to India to take back his wife and kids to US.She had been in email contact with him for the last one year. She even took him to a remote resort. The letter is full of love and she asks him not to forget her and that she is ready to play second fiddle to his wife. When I asked her she said she never had any idea of deserting the family for him and that she only wrote it in a fit of fantacy/ dream. The letter was written at 4AM and we have been sleeping together all the while. She is sorry for having caused me so much pain and she is planning to leave for US soon, and she says we can join her soon. The contents of the letter talk about why and how she felt good when he called her in past and the love, affection and security she found in his friendship which she never experienced and also 'with love love &love Name who needs you a lot'. Is this simply a temporary fantacy, a dream or a wakeup call for me?

2007-01-30 01:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by havah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I noticed before my periods men tend to be so over friendly towards me before my menses? but the other ordinary days nothing happens.

2007-01-30 01:25:15 · 4 answers · asked by gimmik 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do my friends look at me like im a freak because im 22 and know i wanna be married soon and already jumped into my career? am i getting rid of a great childhood quick or starting my adult life too early?

2007-01-30 01:24:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anthony C 6 in Family

I don't think the 2 should be lumped together. Seems people don't get the answers they seek here because of this. I'm married & it would be nice to have a board I could go to without having to wade through all the junk that doesn't apply to me. I'm sure divorcees feel the same.

For instance, the people who are genuinely seeking advice about their unhappy marriages or pending divorces get slammed time and again by judgemental married folks who insist "it's them with the problem" or they're just not trying hard enough. Chances are, if someone is contemplating something as serious as divorce, they have tried and see no hope. Try walking in their shoes!

Similarly, you have the happily married asking serious questions, only to get smart-a$$ remarks from the many divorcees on this board who no longer believe in love/marriage.

Most of all, it's just sad to keep having to read all these men putting down single mothers & whining about having to pay child support for their own children.

2007-01-30 01:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do anyone else freak out f they can not get out to a pub or club on a sat night? cos i feel my life is over and afrai ill miss someting and feel totaly lonely if i have no one to go there with

2007-01-30 01:24:51 · 2 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1 in Singles & Dating

dirty fixen to take one guys

2007-01-30 01:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 01:23:44 · 42 answers · asked by paul F 1 in Weddings

She is like that in front of people and in private... It irritates the .... out of everybody! So I decided to be even more loud and obnoxcious than she is... It seems to work really well, but I am getting tired... Any ideas?

2007-01-30 01:23:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, of course I said yes, since I liked him.
Then I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. Yesterday, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking hihim if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hello. He emailed me back saying that I was too weird to be his friend and that we should just continue ignoring each other for both his and my sake and that i was wrong for wanting to hook up with him since he already has a gf. I didn't respond back to him, since he asked me not to. But then he got mad. ??

2007-01-30 01:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He fought so hard to get me back and now he's avoiding my calls and texts which is not like him unless something serious is going on. I'm pissed because he won't let me help or at least give me an explanation. I'm not about to deal with this but won't let go til i know the reason. He's done it before and I can't let him do it again. What should I do to make him talk to me? I need closure.

2007-01-30 01:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Singles & Dating

we dated for 4 months it was getting serious she has a ex in another state,that she is now somewhat in a relatonship with,but we talk on the phone and internet now she is suggesting that we hang out here and there.and take things slow were not in a relationship were friends.

2007-01-30 01:22:13 · 3 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a chubby railroader who loves to eat, so I took him out to a really nice dinner, but would like to surprise him with a gift.

2007-01-30 01:22:02 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

it's very annoying ,in school he like tries to run like i'm a damn virus, kind of hurts my feelings ,only a little. but anyway what do i do to show i mean no harm, like i never even did anythuing to him, he's the one who broke it off with me....so i don't get it every single time when i go in hall he gets up a leaves quickly. i don't want anything with him at all, i just notice that.

2007-01-30 01:21:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do beautiful girls tend to be dumb? Why do smart girls tend to be not beautiful? Is it true that beauty + brains = constant? WHAT IS BETTER?!

2007-01-30 01:21:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has just started elementary school as a first grader,and he came back and told me there's this really beautiful chick in the class and he has shown signs of love towards her. Should I let my brother woo her and date her?

2007-01-30 01:21:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 01:20:51 · 6 answers · asked by iamofnote 3 in Marriage & Divorce