She is like that in front of people and in private... It irritates the .... out of everybody! So I decided to be even more loud and obnoxcious than she is... It seems to work really well, but I am getting tired... Any ideas?
2007-01-30 01:23:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She was like this before you married her...right? Some people have boisterous personalities. just hang out with people who appreciate your wife's personality. You sound like you are more embarrassed than anything. Politely ask her to tone it down a few notches. She might not even realize she's coming off this way.
2007-01-30 01:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem to win but you are actually intensifying the problem. You can always talk to her and ask her why she is loud? Explian her that you are not comfortable with that. Even I get irritated when some one speaks loudly. But I have found a way out through dialogue
2007-01-30 01:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this her personality from the beginning? Or is this something that came on later on? If it is later on, then she has issues that need to be resolved. If this is something that is part of her personality she may need to discuss with someone for a postivie outlet to let out all that energy! I am sure it can be embarrasing I know a few people like that, unfortuently they haven't changed and its been years! So I think you are going to have a heart to heart talk with your wife. Tell her, if she can't change her behaviour, you need to go out alone...lol. I can't imagine taking a loud mouth out anywhere. It is embarrasing and frankly quit rude. I wish you alot of luck with you. You may very well need to seek guidance in how for her to handle her personality in a better manner. Goodluck!
2007-01-30 01:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a noisy snorer as nicely. the only ingredient i've got found that helps in any respect is to maintain a noisy fan on by using our mattress all evening and to placed on ear plugs. i will nonetheless hear his noisily snoring, in spite of the undeniable fact that it does make it sound a lot lighter. i exploit "Mack's risk-free Sound" ear plugs because of the fact the study I did revealed earplugs with that shape are greater soft for many folk than different varieties of froth earplugs, and it has a noise help score of 29 meaning it drowns it greater noise than maximum earplugs. I even have additionally heard from somebody who says they spoke to a doctor who swears that while you're taking one Claritin good till now mattress time, it would end the noisily snoring. The standard practitioner says that so some distance all of his sufferers have had success with it. i've got no longer had my husband attempt it because of the fact that's only one standard practitioner, and my husband would not even have hypersensitive reactions. that's beneficial to grant it a shot in spite of the undeniable fact that.
2016-11-23 13:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you pay attention to her? I mean are you really listening to what she is saying? Do the others just pretend to want her around? How often does she get out? These are things you have to put into consideration. When someone is hardly ever payed attention to, getting out of the house, or listened to they will speak up just to make sure they are heard. If these aren't the factors, it could be just can't hear herself. Have her hearing checked.
2007-01-30 01:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by no.#1 Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she always been that way? Was she that way before you married her?
If that's who she is than you can't change that. It's her character and you should either learn to live with it or don't.
But I agree. It would be very annoying. Obviously she wants herself to be heard. Why is she trying to attract so much attention to herself? Maybe it's a self esteem issue.
2007-01-30 01:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk with her about it in a rationale mature way. Discuss the problem like adults and if she refuses to then perhaps you should stop going anywhere with her until she understands.
2007-01-30 01:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you not know this when you married her? Did she all the sudden become loud? Talk to her and tell her you can't handle it. She needs to comprimise just as much as you do for her. It's marraige.
2007-01-30 01:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Isaac C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wish i could help but my wife is a comilian nice in front of everyone and mean at home all you can really do is talk to her
2007-01-30 01:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by WILLIEWOMPA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her man,grow some cajones! Is she hot like Carrie Hefferenen? If so, than just tolerate it.
2007-01-30 01:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋