Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

Especially when i am with a wonderful man now!!!!

2007-01-30 01:47:49 · 14 answers · asked by coco 2 in Singles & Dating

it's only a "complicated relationship with my best friend so this stalker girl from back home might leave me alone."

then i said "sure"
he asked "why i said that"
i answered "I mean not that i have a right to care or anything i just was wondering but for some reason I don't know If I completely believe you. Not like it really matters."
then he said "im not gonna lie, unless i have somethin to lie about"
and then added, "an never judge a person on what you see, cuz the outside could just be a road block that you werent supposed to run into"

the first thing i thought was sure...but why would he make up that weird a lie just to try and get with me? what do you guys think?

2007-01-30 01:47:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Parents Are Old! 39 and 37.
Should I buy them a ipod?
Do you think they will know what it is?

2007-01-30 01:46:56 · 20 answers · asked by Marky Boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

three possible dates we were supposed to have
#1 the first she said she would call me , she never did except she texted 4 hours later she said she had to take a freinds son to the emergency room.
#2 she texted and said she was going to be late, showed up 35 minutes later said she was out shopping with her son.
#3 she texted and said her daughter was sick
we did go out once and kissed twice she texted me apologizing for all three situations but?

2007-01-30 01:46:20 · 18 answers · asked by smurf 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 24/F. We have a great relationship. Of course we have the occassonial arguments but that is normal. He wants to buy a house together and keeps telling me the wonderful pros of it. We can be financially independent and he can fix basically anything so we woudn't have to hire labor. I am in a quandry as to what to do. Part of me wants to go for it and part of me is terrified. My family and all my friends think I'm crazy, but I'm afraid if I don't do it I will be missing out. FYI : my boyfriend does not get along well with my family which is another thing that is worrying me. We sat down together and went through a contract so if we do happen tp break up we are both covered. I really want to do this, but can't help wondering if this is a huge mistake. He tells me this is the best investment for both of us, which I agree with, but what if things don't work out?

2007-01-30 01:45:21 · 2 answers · asked by dazed and confused 2 in Singles & Dating

If you really care about someone and knew letting them go might be the best thing, even if she doesn't agree....would you let her go and hopes she comes back?

Did anyone do this before? Did they come back...?

2007-01-30 01:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 01:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i was on my school swim team and one day when we had a swim meet at our school on the way to the pool i noticed this guy on the other team and i immedietley liked him...and the wierd thing is that every time i looked at him he was already looking back and i know this is wierd but i felt this connection...but i dont know if its a real connection or the ind telling me to back ....but after the connection i got i couldnt get him out of my mind

Everybody who i have told this to tells me i dont really have a chance bc he goes to another school and we only see each other at swim meets but still i flet this connection but plzzz help im stuck???

2007-01-30 01:44:58 · 25 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Singles & Dating

can anybody tell me roughly how much must I pay for lawyer fee if my husband is not contesting our divorce? Have been separated for almost 6 years now..

2007-01-30 01:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my man is 27 eyars old. he will pay cable before lights. He will party untill 6:00am. he doesn't think of being responcible before having fun. I constanlty work more to make ends meet while he acts like he just got out of highschool! I have tried for three years to help make him more future oriented. Am I waisting my time? I'm only 21 and I hold us above water he he keeps pulling us under! help!

2007-01-30 01:44:54 · 20 answers · asked by Christy F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bestfriend is mad at me because I hugged her ex boyfriend and he touched my stomach. i admit I was wrong for doing that cuz I know she still loves that boy. Yesterday She was mad cuz she thinks I like him. The truth is I Really DO Not like him and I really want her to understand that I dident maen to hurt her and I would never do something like that to hurt her.What should I do?

2007-01-30 01:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Bree Lynne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How was the first year with getting used to all the kids and all the changes? Trying to figure out how to deal with my wife’s daughter who we have on a full time basis and my 2 kids part time, trying to adjust to getting everything done now that there’s 5 of us, accepting that she won’t love my kids like I do and vice versa (even though we do love them all), accepting that her family raised her daughter and now they need to back off and let it be just us, her accepting my ex. wife issues, and us in general changing our independent single mindsets that we’ve had for the last few years. It’s really challenging and sometimes I feel like giving up and saying it’s too hard but it’s going to be like this with anybody and the fact is we do love each other we’re just stressed out with all these changes. How do we get it all to work and accept everything before we kill each other or divorce? It would be terrible if we split not only for the kids but because we do love each other. It’s just incredible hard.

2007-01-30 01:44:34 · 7 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here is my problem...I know it sounds wierd BUT I am not jealous of my boyfriend and I trust him 100%. I have never had trust in any of my boyfriends which leads me to believe that since I do have trust in him I just dont care what happens. Whether I walk him and find him with another girl, how do I know if I would be jealous of him if that were to happen?

I know this question sounds ridiculous but please bear with me I have never had trust in any of my relationships because of past issues but I just want to know that I wouls indeed be upset if I were to find him with another woman...Thank You!

2007-01-30 01:43:52 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Actually I am pretty sure I know what she means, but I just don't know what to do....

There's this absolutely amazing girl at work. We get along so well, I haven't clicked with anyone like this in years, we enjoy each other's company outside of work, and even on the phone. The problem of course is she has a boyfriend for 4 years. I've never told her how I felt; normally I would play games with her, and find a way for her to dump her boyfriend, but for some reason I can't bring myself to do that with her...maybe I've mature (but probably not). Finally to get my mind off her, I decided to go out with this other girl; I like the other girl, but doesn't quite compare to the girl I really like.

When I told the girl at work about the other girl I was going out with, she said she didn't like her and seemed a little jealous...normally I would take this as a sign and do something about it; but I just can't bring myself to play games with her...what should I do? I can't stop thinking...

2007-01-30 01:43:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance have been together for the last year and a half, but as we have arguments quite often, it happens that we do not speak to each other for few days afterwards.... and I mean he says he loves me, but I want him to be mad about me just as he was when we started dating... These arguments are mainly, because I need more sex, or shall I say, I say that I need sex more then twice a week.... and he is just so tired. He does have a difficult job, but still.... sometimes I feel like he does not care.... so help me, make him going wild about me... help me to make him falling again, for me... pls

2007-01-30 01:43:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 01:43:02 · 5 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Singles & Dating

who helps you out the most, who?!!?!?!?!?

2007-01-30 01:42:41 · 9 answers · asked by jonny Atlantis 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok- here's the thing. I'm in 7th grade and in all my years of school, not one boy ever liked me...except for one ( but he doesnt really count cuz he broke my heart numerous times ). I understand that all the older people will say I'm too young to care, but I'm NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!! You don't know how sad it is to know that boys like my friends or classmates, but no one likes me. I'm an interesting gal. Sure, i can sometimes act crazy and hyper, but im smart, funny, good looking ( i think), dance, like good food, music..... you know the stuff. Why aren't guys liking me????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
ANY HELP OR TIPS THAT YOU GUYS AND GALS MIGHT HAVE WILL BE GREATLY THANKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-30 01:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting a divorce and want to study outside the USA. But I want to take my children with me. Has anyone went thru this? What are the possibilities that i will be able to do this? Do i need my ex's agreement? What if he says No? Are there any legal way i can do this anyway? I want him to see them. But i need to study in another country for a time.

2007-01-30 01:42:36 · 2 answers · asked by Moniqe M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 01:40:30 · 6 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

talking to him?

2007-01-30 01:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by anthony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like everytime my wife and I argue, I end up dreaming of my ex. Is this normal?? its not just one dream, it will go on for a week or two.

2007-01-30 01:38:49 · 16 answers · asked by itsgino28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my grandfather died in November and i guess i wasn't that close to him i actually don't really miss him that much i've never cryed or anything even at the funeral what's the matter should i be sad?

2007-01-30 01:37:50 · 21 answers · asked by saxophone girl 2 in Family

One minute he's talking to me heaps.The next hardly at all. We smile,we laugh,play tricks on eachother,have good eye contact and he likes to keep the conversation going if i talk to him first. Then sometimes he barely looks at me when we are talking. Sometimes he does stand close and then other times not so close. If i'm standing by myself he will come and stand next to me sometimes and start talking. then sometimes he is louder than normal.There are so many other things that point to him liking me .He is nearly 16 years older and single which makes me doubt that i would ever have any sort of chance. I love when he is sweet but it's getting on my nerves with the hot and cold business. do you think he likes me or not?

2007-01-30 01:37:21 · 3 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

Last Valentines day My friend was really upset becuase she didnt get a valentines card. So i got her a card, and ask her crush ( MY boyfriends brother) if i could say it was from him. and he said it was ok. but i was in a really rush that day. and my friends crush and my boyfriends dad wrote in the card so she didnt know it was me. But i confesed today but didnt tell her the full story i said i just brought the card he wrote it, i didnt tell her that myboyfriend and his brother who is my friends crush dad wrote in it. at the time i though i was doing something nice but now i feel really bad and she seems upset with me. Please help xxx

2007-01-30 01:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by red_sea_diver86 1 in Friends

me and my cousin hang out together a lot, this means we eat together also a lot..the problem is when he eat he makes weird sounds in his mouth while he is chewing and its really bugs me..sometimes i can avoid hear it other i dont, I dont know how to tell him and what should I say!! i dont want him to get mad or something

2007-01-30 01:36:55 · 2 answers · asked by ♥ coolFreak ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think maybe we would have been better off with the first mate and what do you think?

2007-01-30 01:35:45 · 28 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Its sad, isnt it? That majority of women need men just to make their lifes complete.

I think its lack of love from their family and friends so they NEED a man.

Those who obviously misread my previous question - this is what I meant >>>

WHY do women NEED men? Can they not function on their own? I am talking about young women - not marriage material (over 23ish). Im talking about UNDER 23 or whatever age.

2007-01-30 01:35:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how important is it to a girl that she found the "good" guy. I dont get drunk, smoke or even swear. Im actually very compassionate, funny and down to earth at 22 and think i hold great moral value. plus i treat my girlfriend like a queen, but i just wanna know if a girl really appreciates these values say over looks?

2007-01-30 01:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anthony C 6 in Singles & Dating

and when we do not care. he just care a lot..

2007-01-30 01:34:05 · 6 answers · asked by hagar a 1 in Singles & Dating