my man is 27 eyars old. he will pay cable before lights. He will party untill 6:00am. he doesn't think of being responcible before having fun. I constanlty work more to make ends meet while he acts like he just got out of highschool! I have tried for three years to help make him more future oriented. Am I waisting my time? I'm only 21 and I hold us above water he he keeps pulling us under! help!
2007-01-30 01:44:54 · 20 answers · asked by Christy F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they never do
2007-01-30 03:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men never get mature.. it's a fact. And i think you are wasting your time. So an idea is to have a serious talk with his, and tell him that he isn't mature, and if he isnt going to start to act like an mature person you will end the relationship. See to it for 2/3 weeks, and if he isn't changed, show him the door.
It doesnt sound easy, but think about the fact that you already posted an question here for an answer and that you've accepted his behaviour for too long already. It's time to choose for your own.
Good luck.
2007-01-30 09:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me (a 29 yr old man) it sounds like your man has matured and is just irresponsible. You may be wasting your time. Responsibility and maturity are two different things. I would have to say that if you is 27 and still acting like this, it will take a lot to change his ways.
Good Luck!
2007-01-30 09:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shmesh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is taking you for a ride and you got to make the trip a little rough so that he will get on his feet. You are too young to take him, nor will he mind any of your requests or threats. Tell him in clear terms that you would leave him if he does not change. If he does not give a damn, leave him.
2007-01-30 10:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by havah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The correct question is, "When will MY man mature?"
There are plenty of guys out there who have their priorities straight and are younger than 27. Sounds like he is not interested in your feelings or concerns.
Simply put, your "man" is not a man. He is a spoiled boy and you are the one spoiling him. I doubt you can change his behavior. Your choice is to change your attitude or your partner.
Good Luck.
2007-01-30 09:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your man is very comfortable knowing that you'll pick up his slack. Stop working the extra jobs and let it fall on him for a change. Don't make it so easy on him to be so irresponsible. If they cut the cable, then so be it. Let him see that you are his HELPER and companion and NOT his mommy or his ATM. Good luck!
2007-01-30 09:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if he hasn't matured by now,he will never mature after all he is 27
you might want to reconsider where your life is going to be with him down the road.start holding your head above and let him sink,his ship on his own.
2007-01-30 09:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never and that's what you women love about us. As far as the bills go, did you explain to him that without electricity he can't watch his cable?
2007-01-30 09:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a trick question??? My ex is almost 60 and has not matured yet. He thinks he has...LoL
Many men never mature.
Keep in mind women mature faster than men.
2007-01-30 09:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by nmd_elkie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If things were that bad, you'd have left, so there must be SOMETHING that keeps you around. Her's to hoping he uses better English than you do...he'd at least be able to get a decent job, if he wanted one!
2007-01-30 09:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no baby they do not they are as is . if at 27 he is that way that is him. get your bags packed some men really do take care of their women, he will never.
2007-01-30 10:05:19 · answer #11 · answered by skylinerose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋