Especially when i am with a wonderful man now!!!!
2007-01-30 01:47:49 · 14 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why, but don't do it. If you do, it will cause confusion and hurt feelings for everyone involved. What would telling him accomplish?
2007-01-30 01:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because humans have the natural tendency to want thing they cannot have. Don't feel bad, this feeling will pass with time, especially now that you have a new wonderful man by yourside. Make sure you keep your distance from your ex and devote all your time to your new love, don't take him for granted, you don't want to ruin a good thing :) Good luck
2007-01-30 09:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by kdm615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that I feel you on this one...
You still love the memories..not the man. Those memories will never go away...so the feelings you had shared with him are going to carry with you throughout the rest of your life.
Be happy you had that with him (despite his being "not so wonderful") and don't let it hinder your feelings or relationship with the wonderful man you are with now!
You made a choice...now stand by it!
All the best!
2007-01-30 09:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Zliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read the Feb Real Simple Magazine. It was very eye opening. It explained all the crazy things we do when we are in love and linked them to chemical changes in the body. Read it before you act on your wantings. Also, ask yourself why he is your ex and why the man you are with is wonderful?
2007-01-30 09:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by D Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women think with their hearts and not with their brains. Women are more emotional than will ever be good for them. This phase will last until the next big crush leaves you with an even bigger hurt.
Ouch I sound like a doomsday prophet, but prophecy it is - so learn to live with it .
2007-01-30 09:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by lock j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all ddepends were you with him for a long time if you wre its just cause you probably got so use to bieng with him but you should think about it. Maybe just maybe you do still have feelings for him and if you do you need to think about what your going to do either stay with that great guy or go back to someething that didnt really work out in the first place.
2007-01-30 09:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by ermosa_milagros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you want him to know that there is a chance you will be coming back his way, and for him to be ready. You want to know his reaction, but it is all wrong. No fair to the new boyfriend. Just let things ride and a person would respect you better if you showed no interest.
2007-01-30 09:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are saying is not that unusual. People play a different roles in our life. With relationships its about learning what we want later on in life. We learn from each relationship that we are in and take something out of it. I am sure that you loved him and I am also certain that you are a compassionate person so that love will never truly leave. You love him but are not in love with him as he played an important part in your life.
2007-01-30 09:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you still love him and want to be with him, but u know that things want go well if you do go back to him. You want to change his ways (but always remember you cant change nobody) because deep down you know that he is a good man.
2007-01-30 09:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by missdekyia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As women we try to fix people that we just can't. it is normal to feel this way but try to fight it. it's not worth it and take a chance of losing a good man .good luck!
2007-01-30 09:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stacie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋