Should i give this girl another chance?

Question

three possible dates we were supposed to have
#1 the first she said she would call me , she never did except she texted 4 hours later she said she had to take a freinds son to the emergency room.
#2 she texted and said she was going to be late, showed up 35 minutes later said she was out shopping with her son.
#3 she texted and said her daughter was sick
we did go out once and kissed twice she texted me apologizing for all three situations but?

Answer 1

Some people just dont care being procrastinate. Well if your have the courage to give her another chance then surely, go ahead. It might have been real life scenarios, what if it was all real and you'd just let her go. Personally, for me if I'd really hold on to him/her I'd give another chance, what if it works out? Good-luck!

Answer 2

Here is my opinion about the girl

Situation #1, 4 hours later texting is unacceptable. She should have texted you while waiting in the E.R. Even if the situation was grave, all people visiting the E.R. do is stand around and wring their hands. Texting some odd 4 hours later after she was supposed to contact you is irresponsible and cavalier.

Situation #2, wow this girl is full of excuses. Showing up late (to the tune of 35 minutes) is irresponsible. Does this woman know how to hold a job? Does she show up on time for her son's school events or daycare? This just sounds more and more like she could care less about you.. your needs.. or being a responsible person in general.

Situation #3, no wonder she apologized. She doesn't deserve any more chances. And if her daughter was sick, why didn't she just call? Why only the text? I am thinking that maybe this woman has something to hide.. another man, perhaps?

Good Luck, and Good Riddance to Her!

Answer 3

If all she knows how to do is impersonally 'text' you, you might look elsewhere. Besides, 3 excuses in a row? Hmm. The first one might have happened. The second one is pathetic - if she was shopping with her son and knew she was going to be running late, she should have called you before the agreed upon time for the date to let you know. The third - again, she should have called to apologize and not just sent a lame text message to tell you her daughter was sick. Apologies should be made in person or on the phone - not 'text messages'.

Sounds like poor communication skills - a bad start for any relationship.

Answer 4

Yes. If she didn't care, she'd just not show up, or not say anything. At the same time, why didn't the friend take her son to the ER? Why couldn't she do the shopping earlier, or make sure she was back in time? Sick child is understandable, you don't want to leave your sick child with a babysitter. You only went out with her once. If you like her, give her another chance. If it doesn't work out, then you've only spent 2 nights and 2 kisses on her.

Answer 5

Give her a chance. She has kids and that is her first responsibilty in life, if you can deal with her having kids then another chance is not big deal. If you can not deal with being 2nd in her life then there is no reason to give a 2nd chance. Sounds like she is interested or she would have never txt msg you and let you know what was up.

Good luck. And if you really want to impress her, the next time you pick her up for a date bring the kids a little something. Or after a few dates offer to bring the kids along, this will go a long way in her book.

Answer 6

Sounds like she has a busy life. You should forgive her if you are willing to engage in a relationship where the other one has children. You have to ask yourself if you can handle that because I will guarantee that the kids will always come first to her. Course if she knew she had a dinner date and went shopping with her son, she should have went shopping earlier that way she would have been there on time. I think you already have you mind made up. If you think there is something there then keep trying but if it seems as though she is letting you down gentle get out before its too late.

Answer 7

Do you care for her ? I had a chance to meet with this very nice man and it would have been great , but I had children and all I got to do was run my children all over the place 24 7 and you know I felt like it would be a mistake to start seeing someone very nice and everytime I turned around I would have to take my children somewhere and mess this up, so I didnt persue this because or having to do everything for others . Give her a chance if you like her she might be like I was the taxie cab driver .If she didnt care she wouldnt have even called you .

Answer 8

I'd give her another chance just because I think if she wasn't interested she wouldn't have come out with you at all. However, she would be on thin ice with me, because if this kind of thing is a habit, then it means bad things like she doesn't respect your time or maybe even you aren't the only guy she's juggling.

Answer 9

If you're thinking of giving her another chance that means you care about her. I think you should meet with her once again and ask her about the truth. Maybe she was busy and it was just a coincidence. You can't be with her if you don't forget about this unfortunate beginning of the relationship.
You deserve for honesty and she deserves for chance to explain.

Good luck.

Answer 10

No! Dont you think you need someone with a less-full life? If youre last priority now then thats what you will stay! Dont settle for less than you know you are worth.