I am virgin and I find myself really attracted to this guy I met through my sister. We are already disscussing children and I can really see him as the father of any child that I carry. The only thing that is holding me back is the fact that I am afraid of the "BIG DAY" that I do break my virginity! Does it hurt? Will it hurt? are the main ?'s that I do have! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! What should I do? am I ready? At least I think I am!
2007-01-30 01:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by LaLa-Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 20 years old. He doesn't pressure me about sex. Actually I am the one that is always bringing it up and talking about children!
2007-01-30 01:47:19 · update #1
The fact that you are thinking ahead of the possible consequences is in your favor already. Take your time with it. If you are having doubts, then wait. If he truly loves you and respects you, he will understand and when the time is right it will be natural for the both of you. Never give in to pressure about it. The only negative to not having sex is remaining a virgin while the possible negatives to having sex are numerous.
2007-01-30 01:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you want to get pg from your very 1st experience of this type. Or do you? I see you don't have too many information about sex. Sex is a very important action and a very complex one. You should know a lot of things or else it can get really dangerous! Your bf might even have an STD or AIDS! Be very carefull on this and about the pain, it depends, but many girls do feel a pain as far as I know, I hadn't experienced this, but I guess that if he's there for you it will be a lot better and it will make it easier for you. Don't get into this until you document yourself!
2007-01-30 01:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt a bit! I know it is kind of gross but you have a thing inside of are private area called the hem and it gets broken then you will bleed, but that only happens once! I also don't think you are ready to have sex though, if you were ready then we would not have to ask total strangers on the internet!!!!
2007-01-30 01:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask you are not ready + this guy is talking about kids he just wants your virginity . you need to wait and find someone who loves you and wants you for all the right reasons.
2007-01-30 01:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are ready when you dont have to ask that question!
You will know in your heart when the time is right. Dont rush. I lost mine at 15 and i wish i had waited.
2007-01-30 01:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Is a major factor. If you have to ask, you are probably not ready. Don't lose your virginity until you are for sure.
2007-01-30 01:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by caldwell9192 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am 16 and lost my virginity not long ago..not something im proud of but it happened and i was very scared however..it did not hurt all that bad there is some pain but its gone very fast and you will soon enjoy it and youll enjoy it even more if its with someone you love..
2007-01-30 02:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by jm? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you sound you are ready and willing! It doesn't hurt much; coz its accompanied with joy and pleasure. If you are both in love, thats even better! Goooooood luck!
2007-01-30 01:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow the old standard: If there's grass on the field, play!
2007-01-30 01:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by wade b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will just know....dont rush you will be ready when your ready!!
2007-01-30 01:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋