He fought so hard to get me back and now he's avoiding my calls and texts which is not like him unless something serious is going on. I'm pissed because he won't let me help or at least give me an explanation. I'm not about to deal with this but won't let go til i know the reason. He's done it before and I can't let him do it again. What should I do to make him talk to me? I need closure.
2007-01-30 01:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Figure out FIRST whether you even WANT him back. Then TELL him what you have decided. If you both want each other, then he will open up. If you want him back (and it sounds like you do) then you give an ultimatum: let me in or let me go. Don't bluff--you have to really mean it. If you have decided that you DON'T want him, then all you need to do is tell him and move on with your life. NEVER contact him again and let THAT be your "closure"
2007-01-30 01:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep reaching out ... dont pry .. just let him know ... that you are there for him ... when he is ready to talk ... let him know you are concerned ... and will be an ear ... and a voice to help him out and even a shoulder to cry on ... if he doesnt want to talk right now .. you cant make him ... but let him know that you are here for him ... send him cards, flowers ... just be a good friend
2007-01-30 03:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋