Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

I'm 14 and I've met a great guy that i'm in love with and i want him to be my 1st. my mom's already asked me about birth control but i said no and now im seriously thinking about it. what do i say to her? and guys i want to be serious about this ok?

2007-01-29 16:50:22 · 24 answers · asked by Deanna C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 16:49:06 · 10 answers · asked by akhter 1 in Friends

if someone askes a guy out is that tecnichally asking them to be your bf??? also if not how should i ask this guy out? i'm really new wich seems kinda stupid but how do i ask a guy out? what should i say

2007-01-29 16:48:46 · 4 answers · asked by snowflake10012 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there any special reason that makes the men feel desapointed of a woman that he loved before?

2007-01-29 16:48:26 · 4 answers · asked by Nora la exploradora 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really use to like this guy and I used to think about him everyday. I had a crush on him for a year. But now, he likes me and I don't feel the way that I used to feel about him anymore.

This is not the first time that happen. That is one of the reasons why I never had a boyfriend.

2007-01-29 16:47:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents devorced when i was @ the age of 10. mmy Mom and I were living @ my grandparents house. my gramd father was so nice to me, he used to pay attention to me more than his own kids. everyone loved and still love me there.once we moved to USA i feel empty and alone. after my parents seperation i never felt i don't have father, becuz my grandfather was always there for me, to kiss me, to huge me, and to love me. now that i'm here i feel the lost of father inside me.i havn't even seen him after they seperated! nobody's here to fill his spot for me. not even my grandfather,becuz he is in our country......most of the time i write poems and i hate my dad cuz of not bing here for me! my mom didn't get married after the seperation and i don't want her to. but i don't know what to do with this feeling? feeling of not having a father and support!!! what should i do???

2007-01-29 16:46:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-01-29 16:46:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine doesn't like to express or show his feelings. He can be moody and quiet. I can only make from the vibes and intuition that I get from his subtle actions and hidden words. He says he likes me. He reveals and tells what he wants, when he wants to do so. We've been together for about 8 mos. He gets jealous when he sees my guy friend talking to me too much and will always want to know if I like the guy. The passion during intimacy is INCREDIBLE!!!! He's not a touchy-feely guy outside in general. Since they are so secretive, how can I find out on my own, just how much he does feel for me?

2007-01-29 16:45:38 · 7 answers · asked by artutina 4 in Singles & Dating

I see so many (not all) teenage parents who always whine about having such a big responsibility, not being able to go out when they want, not being able to finish their education right away etc. Do you think they should just shut up and deal with it because they got themselves into the situation they are in? are they trying to make people feel sorry for them?

2007-01-29 16:45:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend wants to leave me because he belives I am making him jealous on purpose. Before he moved to another country, I did his fantasy for him, but it was different from what he really wanted. He had never expressed how much he wanted me to and exactly what it was like before. After he left here, he told me about his real fantasy so I did it through the internet. He loved it for a while, but now he told me I did it to make him jealous because I couldn't do it when he was here. I tried not to send him emails because I have been explaining to him why I couldn't do his fantasy for over a month, but he just believes what he believes. I thought time will help us.He started to send me emails like "This girl I met likes me. She is the most beautiful girl in town. If you can send DVDs and CDs I like, I will forgive you, and etc"Should I wait for a while to email him? Can I get upset at him? I am scared to loose him by aruguing with him again.

2007-01-29 16:45:29 · 2 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Singles & Dating

she not annoying so much, it's just that what she does is really annoying.
i am nothing like her, she's tall and reasonably thiin...so am i, i'm just a bit shorter and a bit flabbier.
she spends all her time in her room and it's really annoying...she doesnt act nice when she's around guests and she is always telling me that whatever i do is wrong or naughty...she is sooooooo stuck up and emotional, she'll talk to mum about anything when i tell her stuff i dont tell mum.
i dont think i need any advice, i just wanted to bich about her.

2007-01-29 16:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In a battle between the following, who would win?
-Balto (Balto)
-Simba (The Lion king)
-Cujo (Cujo)
-Dracula (Bram Stroker's Dracula)
-Jaune Tom (Gay Purr-ee)
-Meowrice (Gay Purr-ee)
-Thomas O'malley (The aristocats)
-Shere Khan (The Jungle Book)

2007-01-29 16:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Crystal A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 16:43:46 · 14 answers · asked by cherylyn 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on Kristian since last year in November. I've tried getting over him, but it doesn't seem to work. A couple of weeks ago, I have had these weird feelings for him. Like ; I have feelings for him, I don't want him to get hurt, and I just want him to be happy. I've tried getting a hobby, and I love my hobbies, but I just can't get over him!! People say that he's my boyfriend, but I didn't expect to hear it. All of a sudden, my head is telling me this, "You love Kristian. You cannot get over it", but I keep on thinking I keep on jumping to conclusions. HELP?

2007-01-29 16:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Why does it seem that nearly 75 % of men in this society are being dragged through the mud by an ex wife? No, im not divorced, but I do see too many examples of men giving their wives everything including kids, then WHAMMMMO, it's over. Child support, fights, kids in the middle of it all, families butting in, a total NIGHTMARE !
And it seems that the men pay for the rest of their lives, what a friggin scam. The laws need to be changed, and NOW !

2007-01-29 16:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the best position to be when making love to a virgin for easy penetration and reduction of pain for her.

2007-01-29 16:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by icycharia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20 and still have possession of my life force.

2007-01-29 16:42:17 · 18 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf used to say he loves me all the time randomly, but now he only says it after i do...? he still acts like he normally does besides this...

2007-01-29 16:41:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i was kind of looking for a girlfriend and i was not just going on looks, i was trying to get to know this one girl but i could tell finally that she had absolutely no interest in me so i gave up but still talked with her as friends this was in choir class and there isnt really that many people that i like to talk to so i talked with her a lot and a couple of other people one of these others is a beuatiful girl who has a boyfriend i really didnt have any strong feelings for her yet we went on a choir trip and while eating me and her kept joking around with each other and picking on each other and i kind of caught myself falling for her i am now sure i love her but she still has this boyfriend i get the feeling that its nothing serious between them because she gets aggravated with him and he does stuff like goes to ballgames without her, not with another girl just without her i dont know if she feels anything for me or if she knows i have feelings for her i want to ask her out HELP!!

2007-01-29 16:40:19 · 2 answers · asked by nat8920012001 1 in Singles & Dating

OK look, I've been married for almost 10 years and the whole time its felt like its been me thats been doing all the giving. Frankly, my wife hasn't been the easiest person to get along with during these 10 long years. Recently, she has been trying to change, but it might be too little too late. I feel like I'm running on empty most of the time. Also, I think i just want to meet new people. I have no friends for gods sake since I've been with this woman. I just need some advice. Thanks

P.S I took my marriage vows seriously enough to make it last 10 years so I don't wan't to hear any of that stuff about not taking vows seriously. I mean 10 years is a lot longer than most marriages last these days.

2007-01-29 16:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thinking about having a breast lift,does anyone know how much this cost?

2007-01-29 16:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by mtsc13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard confidence in a girl is attractive. What else is besides the obvious-good looks. Basically what is attractive in a personality?

2007-01-29 16:38:07 · 2 answers · asked by beforehecheats 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in high school ... i only have a few months left untill i graduate... so i have a question... over the summer me and this guy broke up .. we went out for 2 years.. the worst mistake in my life.. i ruined myself dating him, but it was my faught and i have worked very hard this year to put everything back together.... a old couple that we use to hang out with just had there baby they are 18 !!!! i left my ex because i want to finish high school and go to college... how can i tell myself to let the past go and that it wasn't worth it with him, and that i should be thankful i'm not a mom at 18 ...any words of adivce? thanks

2007-01-29 16:37:45 · 34 answers · asked by Emmie S 1 in Friends

My friend Janessa gets really nervous and embarrassed around boys. She says her heart starts pounding and she gets butterflys and shivery. I feel really bad for her cuz I can't help her with it. I mean its not like I've never gotten butterflys. I just am more confident around the opposite sex. I mean I'm a model so I think that helps with calming my self and stuff. So Her question is How do you guys calm your self when your talking to the oposite sex?

Oh and she said her voice gets scared sounding... I don't know... maybe someone can help her out with this. She really wants to talk to this boy but is just to scared... So thanks....
Janessas Friend
Brandy

2007-01-29 16:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by Chaysee 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy a lot.
he talks to me sometimes, i have his number but i think it's in an all friendly sorta thing. He isnt really popular but he is nice and he looks hot. people have asked him out for me though i didnt ask them to...he acts friendly and he sorta just talks to me about school...never really deep conversations....i'm just really confused. one of my friends who had asked him asked him out for me(i had asked her to ask him if he fancied me) she told me he wasnt ...i was standing in earshot of them though and so he might've just said no coz i could hear...them other people that had asked him out without pemission had said that he didnt want to ruin the friendship we had...PLEASE HELP ME!!!
i really like him

2007-01-29 16:34:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 16:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by sparrow 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have decided to get married. We purchased a set of wedding bands last weekend. Howeve there has not yet been an official proposal. I referred to him as my "fiance" today when I spoke with someone at the jewelry store. Now he keeps teasing saying I have to ask him to marry me instead of him doing the proposal. I want him to ask. I'm a bit partial to doing things the old fashioned way. Any interesting comments or opinions?

2007-01-29 16:33:02 · 13 answers · asked by secondopinion 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it normal to like someone that is a 11 year old girl and your 14 and have been friends for a few years.

2007-01-29 16:32:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy keeps telling you that he has nothing to do over the weekend. is he trying to tell me something like he wants to hang out or whatever. we both like eachother a lot. but aren't going out or anything.

2007-01-29 16:32:39 · 18 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a boy that gets mauled from about 12 girls hes the best boy friend of mine and he likes me and i like him should i help him if so how can I? or should i kiss him and i think he's tryied to kiss me i think what should i do? (and he's cute too!!)

2007-01-29 16:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by Keana 2 in Friends