Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

so i have problems talking to people. whenever i have a chance i never no what to say to them and i just stay quiet and i dont like that. what do i do! ):

2007-01-29 15:53:54 · 17 answers · asked by aiverson23@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

i dont wanna but this dude keeps talking down cause i talk 2 to his chik on da fone i mean y should u get mad he keeps talking down when my backs turned but that b**** should tell me straight up 2 my face he could probally woop myy a** but i dont care im not gonna let him take my pride from standing tall ill fight back any wayz if he trys to jump me i got friends 2 so im not scared just tell me what you thin

2007-01-29 15:53:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what turns you on at the movie theater with a guy?

2007-01-29 15:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by Jenna T 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf and her kidz feel very comfortable not wearing clothes. They all walk around the house naked. It is just normal for them. Now I am no prude or nothing but I'm not sure how to react when they just walk in on me in the bathroom or whatever. With the little kidz I'm not real uncomfortable but with her 15 yr old daughter....that just seems wrong..I have seen her naked many times...she's even pulled the covers off me to wake me up... she even pointed out my hard-on and my gf just laughed...What should I do??

2007-01-29 15:53:39 · 13 answers · asked by donnie b 2 in Family

I'm 16 and the guy i like is 21. I've known him for almost a year and we get along really good. Our personalities just click and i'm happy whenever im with or talk to him. We hang out, and talk a lot on the phone. He knows that i like him as more than a friend and he told me he likes me a lot and that he cares a lot about me and i know he's not lying cause i dont know, you can just tell. you know? but, despite this we're still not together because as much as he says he likes me he also told me that he was a little uncomfortable with the age difference and that he wouldnt be able to tell his family about me so it bugs him. So i dunno what i should do...i really really like him so should i just wait (till like im 18 or something) and hope he changes his mind? or should i just move on? >__<

2007-01-29 15:53:00 · 13 answers · asked by musicslyfdl 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf kissed a girl one yr bak wen he was drunk and depressed, and I don’t know for wat reasons but I did forgive him, and things were absolutely normal, now that thing is bothering, is it cuz it is the same time of the year or will it pop up again and again, our is a long distance relationship ( pple who think long distance relationship cant work, please dont answer) and he cud have missed telling me this, I m not defendaing him but I know he tells me everything, I don’t know I did right or wrong by forgiving him, but why is it disturbing me now??

2007-01-29 15:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by ria 2 in Singles & Dating

i reallly like this guy that goes to my school we have been talking line for awhile, and he wants to start talking to me at school, but i actually look better on my myspace pics because its low quality, i'm actually not that attractive in real life, he's seen me at school before but i still feel insecure about talking to him. i start thinking, when he sees me and thinks i'm ugly. i don't know what to do. should i just talk to him at school?

2007-01-29 15:52:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 15:52:39 · 20 answers · asked by butterflykisses88 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of talents... like I'm an expert tennis, chess and poker player & a former musician. Im also a med student. I also come from a pretty financially well off family. Not to sound like a jackass, but when I meet a girl should I keep this a secret and not tell her until its really serious or should I just not keep it a secret if she asks...? I NEVER mention it or brag about it... but if she asks i dont seem to hide it. So ladies please tell me.... when these girls ask me about these things, should i mention them or keep them a secret?

2007-01-29 15:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm writing a paper for school about single mothers and the effects of divorce on children. There is a hypothesis in class that the stats are a bit exaggerated. Do you think that children of divorce, particularly men, fare as well as those of non-divorced parents when older? I'd like to hear from people whose parents actually split at a young age. Do you think this affected you in a profound way??

2007-01-29 15:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by AngelBaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What I mean is this. My brother in law is a cruel father to his daughter(18) and son(14). He has always been rude to the kids but things have escalated in the last few years. He swears at them, slaps them and worst of all he says the nasties comment to them. Example: he's told his daughter to go get it up the ****. Many of the family members are disgusted by his actions. No one says anything to him because he's nasty. My sister hears these things and says nothing to him. What is worrying me is my niece, because her father shows no love she's been getting it from other places(you know what i mean). She's had an STD. I've talked to my sister concerning my niece but nothing has changed. My niece used to cut herself before and I fear for the worst. I've offered her to come live with me because she says she can't take it anymore. She refuses cuz I told her that we have rules and she would have to obide by them. I love these kids and don't know what else to do. Any advice please?

2007-01-29 15:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-29 15:50:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 15:48:39 · 4 answers · asked by cherrybabe 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are mad at me for talking with ym friends and being on MSN all day long. They say "we dont even see our daughter". I think they are boring...so ow they said we are taking ur computer away unless ur grades go up. I think its unfair to take ym computer away...how can i convince them..because taking my comp away will make m hate them more.

2007-01-29 15:48:27 · 27 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family

I have a friend who made out with a 12 yaer old at a party but he thoght she was older and now i think they are hitting it off hes a freshman and shes in 6th grade is this wrong?

2007-01-29 15:48:04 · 35 answers · asked by brent w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 15:47:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

although i am full menopausal things are going good now that i have some estogen flowing from the doctors and i feel my age now i need help on how to get the passion to come from him he says it is because he was single for so long and that he is 51 and not 20 but i know it can be better what can i do to get more passion from to rock my world?

2007-01-29 15:47:53 · 2 answers · asked by karen h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Due to popular opinions that i make a move on this girl that always sits next to me in class (for about 4 weeks now), i decided to talk to her and get to know her better. At first she was playing with her hair when we started chatting. She greeted my conversation with a smile and seemed genuinely interested in the conversation.Then the professor started lecturing and she was fidgeting with her earrings, playing with her hair (grooming...?) and passively bitting her nails the entire time.

What do you guys/gal think?

2007-01-29 15:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

Two questions about child support in California. My daughters mother (we were never married) recently lost her job. She is now on unemployeement, but is still requesting that I pay my half of child care. In addition, she is asking that my child support payments go up to reflect that she is now only getting $1000 a month for unemployement. Can she do that even though she is not working?

Second questions, when i have additional children with my wife, how much can i expect my child support payments to go down to the mother of my daughter? What if we have two additional children?

Thanks in advance. It is nearly impossible to get answers to these questiosn from CSS.

2007-01-29 15:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by ferris_ca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My love and friend is named Tamara. She goes by Tam and Tammy.

Is Tam Tam or Tammy Tam good?

2007-01-29 15:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i've known/dated/hungout with off and on for 6 months finally brought up what was going on between us and he said that I "knew how he felt about me" but he didn't want to be in a serious relationship now, because he needs to concentrate on getting his life straightened out (which is definitely true), and when he is in a relationship he gets sucked into it and it is the only thing he focuses on (also very true- he's kinda obsessive about it and takes it really seriously-kids, etc). But he is "committed to me" and "isn't going to cheat on me". That sounds like a total b.s. line to me (except that i honestly think he needs to figure out his life before he gets serious w/ anyone), so I just figured there wasn't anything serious going on between us. But now he calls me almost everyday, but we rarely talk for more than a 1-2 minutes, because he has to get back to work, his phone loses reception, I can't hear him, etc. I don't get it. If we are not serious, why does he call so much?

2007-01-29 15:46:49 · 2 answers · asked by menau 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is my problem.....
i like this guy and everyone says he likes me too ...(haha u might be thinking so what is the problem)... well there is the problem.....i think he likes this other girl too and i think she likes him as well......(no u are thinking , this is pathetic)...so me being pathetic lol......want to know if there is anyway to know who he likes more.....(now u are thinking, repetitive question)....but anyhow i am kinda sad by all this and i am not sure what to do about it.....i know that guys are fickles sometimes but he is like trying to be with two ppl....sigh...i don't like being a third wheel or something
oh we are all single so nothing much is happening.... except i think he is dating both girls(me and someone else)
thx u ~~~~ serious ans plz

2007-01-29 15:46:35 · 1 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

What's anyones opinion on keeping a secret from their spouse or significant other? Are some things worth keeping to yourself or should you share all? What are the deal breakers when it comes to secrets?

2007-01-29 15:46:27 · 21 answers · asked by mcneely96 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 3 friends(dont talk to them that much,they have better people than me)and I don't really fit in at school.My classmate(not friend)talk about me on Myspace and Aim saying that I am a aids girl (i never had sex and i dont have aids)and im a *****.2 months ago I told her I never liked this girl and she got all pissed.She started talking about me and people were asking me:Do you like Angela Xie?I said No,its because we don't get along and she doesnt like me.She soon found out I said that and said that I was calling her a *****,gay(i hate that word gay when you call people that offensively),and she wouldnt even talk to me anymore.Anyways she makes fun of people who look not so popular,have lice and etc...What do I do?I tried to confront her and all she would say is SO...

2007-01-29 15:46:21 · 1 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Friends

i really like her but not sure if she does. her friends says she does but not sure if its true!!!

2007-01-29 15:46:09 · 10 answers · asked by joeyarmendariz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 15:45:58 · 20 answers · asked by Ankit K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 15:45:35 · 20 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best guy friend happens 2 b my exwe had a tihng going on but i broke it off b./c he had a gf.his friend started to yell @ me so i lied & said he meant notihng to me&then he shouted that it meant the world to him. He loves his supposed gf but is mad at me for trying to give them a chance to work tihngs out. i do care about him alot and i miss him. why did he get mad at me for giving him and his gf a chance to actually work? i was the distarctinon & i tried to get out of the picture. is it stupid to miss his hugs and talking to him?he always said notihng i cud 2 to make him not forgive me.....should i try and be his friend again? or kick him to the cirb like he does to all of his gfs nd benifits?

2007-01-29 15:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks about 2" in diameter. He then asked if the jar was full? They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the rocks. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

"Now," said the professor, "I want you to recognise that this is your life. The rocks are the important things - your family, your partner, your health, and your children - things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car.

2007-01-29 15:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by reena_ree86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

heres the deal, my mom and i are two totally different people. we have different views, beliefs, personalities, sometimes its so bad i think im adopted. i dont fit in n my family at all. its hard and noone understands. i spend all my time alone and it hurts, but i cant relate to the people in my family. im honestly like the black sheep of my family. im ok with being different but it hurts when my own family calls me a freak or wierd! im an unique person. not like anyone else, so how can i learn to relate, ive considered running away. i ned help they invade my privacy and make me out to be a horrible person.

2007-01-29 15:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by rckstar88 2 in Family