i reallly like this guy that goes to my school we have been talking line for awhile, and he wants to start talking to me at school, but i actually look better on my myspace pics because its low quality, i'm actually not that attractive in real life, he's seen me at school before but i still feel insecure about talking to him. i start thinking, when he sees me and thinks i'm ugly. i don't know what to do. should i just talk to him at school?
2007-01-29 15:52:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry i meant..online for awhile**
2007-01-29 15:53:13 · update #1
Take a chance and talk to him. I think you are being too hard on yourself. You will never know unless you try.
2007-01-29 15:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he really and sincerely likes you for you, then he'll still talk to you at school. If he's a shallow guy, then he won't talk to you but it would be his loss, not yours. Give it a shot at least and you'll see if he's sincere. If he still talks to you, then he genuinely likes you for you. Your looks are not for you to judge though, I bet your a pretty girl, you just have insecurities. Don't worry, if the two of you have been talking online then more than likely he wants to talk to you in school because he wants to get to know you better and already finds interest in you. I wish you the best.
2007-01-30 00:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, if you two have talked to each other and he's seen you around, chances are he sees beyond what you see in yourself. to be honest, i never thought i was good looking either and was PARANOID like there was no tommorow that the guy who liked me (my now bf) was just blind thinking that i was pretty but most of them see past that once they get to know you.
have a little more confidence in yourself and dont waste any more time! talk to the guy!! it sounds as if he wants to get to know you.. dont let ANYTHING get in your way.. maybe to you, you may not be the most attractive girl on the block, but obviously what he sees is totally different!! dont worry.. if he pushes you away, then you've gotten rid of someone who isnt worth your time.. if he doesnt then, SCORE, you did it and you did it because he likes what he got to know.. he likes YOU, not how you look or whatever he sees on myspace.. im sure his interest is genuine so go ahead, talk to him and enjoy yourself!!
smile =]
2007-01-30 00:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have been talking on line than he must like you for more than your looks what is inside the person male/female is far more attractive than the outer appearance and far more interesting, Take a chance.
2007-01-29 23:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, beauty is on the inside and outside. if he doesnt like you outside of the internet then he is just a shallow typical male. you shouldnt waste your time worrying weather he is going to think ur pretty or ugly. he should like you for who you ae and not what u look like. and if he doesnt like you there are plently of fish in the sea. good luck. and dont worry because the more you worry about it he is going to be able to sense that and guys like girls that are confindent. so just be yourself and you should be just fine!!
2007-01-30 00:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just talk to him at school. just forget about the my space pic. u are the person who's in the pic and u are the person who will be talking to him. u are who u are. good luck
2007-01-29 23:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋