I'm in so much pain...what do I do?

Question

I have 3 friends(dont talk to them that much,they have better people than me)and I don't really fit in at school.My classmate(not friend)talk about me on Myspace and Aim saying that I am a aids girl (i never had sex and i dont have aids)and im a *****.2 months ago I told her I never liked this girl and she got all pissed.She started talking about me and people were asking me:Do you like Angela Xie?I said No,its because we don't get along and she doesnt like me.She soon found out I said that and said that I was calling her a *****,gay(i hate that word gay when you call people that offensively),and she wouldnt even talk to me anymore.Anyways she makes fun of people who look not so popular,have lice and etc...What do I do?I tried to confront her and all she would say is SO...

Answer 1

I'm on the verge of telling you to show her up, but that's kinda hard to do when you're young in a mature manner.

Oi vei, lemme see.

Ya know, I think the best thing for u to do is make new friends. Wing it. Trial and error. Go down swinging or don't get up to bat at all.

Fact is there are tons of kids in your school who feel alone and in a rut like you do. I mean think about it, if YOU are so worried about keeping up appearances, what are the chances that nobody else is trying to do the same thing. Heck, that's what ALL of the popular kids are worried about and that's what all of the people in the crowd are worried about (if they weren't worried about this, there wouldn't BE a crowd to begin with).

So next time you're in class and you're working on something with a classmate, ask if you can hang out with her and do some stuff together. If someone came up to you asking that question, you'd say "sure, tag along" so why would you expect otherwise of anyone else (unless she had plans and was busy).

You're really not that weird. Even deciding to type this question doesn't make you weird since people do it all the time (I see these questions all the time on here and you can look through my answers just to check). Just stick you're head and hands out there and let the magic happen! Trust me, it's not as hard as you think.