my bf kissed a girl one yr bak wen he was drunk and depressed, and I don’t know for wat reasons but I did forgive him, and things were absolutely normal, now that thing is bothering, is it cuz it is the same time of the year or will it pop up again and again, our is a long distance relationship ( pple who think long distance relationship cant work, please dont answer) and he cud have missed telling me this, I m not defendaing him but I know he tells me everything, I don’t know I did right or wrong by forgiving him, but why is it disturbing me now??
2007-01-29 15:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by ria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ofcourse u did the right thing!! =]
forgiving him is one of the best way to show him that you care and it will make him realise he really shouldnt do it because it doesnt make you happy. knowing that he tells you everything is also good and the fact that you're not turning against him will give him some guilty feelings if he does it again. and with long distance relationships, sometimes its hard to remember everything you've done and be able to tell your girl/boyfriend and its also hard being the fact that you guys are so far apart and i think the way you're taking it, is great because you're accepting the fact that he makes mistakes.
it probably bothers you because you're worried about him, the fact that you mentioned that he's drunk and depressed is probably something that would get you worried. it sounds like you forgave him because of the circumstances.. you were more worries that he was depressed than you were that he kissed another girl.. which shows you care which is why its probably not making you feel the best...
keep up the trust in your boyfriend and if you're not sure, just ask him. he sounds like a sincere person if he tells you everything so maybe you dont really have anything to worry about =]
2007-01-29 16:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did the correct thing and it is because its the same time of year i think ---- im in a long distance relationship and we have our ups and downs but we work them out --- do the same thing trust him --- he trusts you ---- best wishes
2007-01-30 00:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋