Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

2007-01-29 17:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Suppose you were a big fan of a musical band - there were two main stars in this band - the lead singer & the keyboard player, both of them are brothers. The singer is a tall and handsome guy and he sings with so much passion that gets cheers from all the fans – and you are like totally attracted to him & eventually by virtue of luck, you both meet and go out on a date. You get to know that not only is he the lead singer, but also the music composer & lyricist, wow! The chemistry between you two is increased tenfold & you both are deeply in love with each other and pursue a serious relationship.

Now, this guy's brother - the keyboard player is kinda ugly and a bit fat; but a very good guy at heart. It turns out that he actually has deep feelings for you, but once he knew that you and his brother were dating, he is heartbroken but makes a mature decision not to see you or get involved in your matters.

But one day, by chance you meet this brother, say hi & strike up a friendly conversation. He is immensely delighted to meet and spend time with you & he expresses how happy he is to know that you and his brother are together. You both have an enjoyable conversation, until all of a sudden you get shocking news………

The main person responsible for the working & success of the band was not your bf, but the brother! The brother was the guy who composed all the songs, wrote the lyrics & even arranged the vocalist for the songs!!! Your bf didn’t do anything! You thought he was the singer of the band, but you were wrong founded – you bf had very poor quality of voice, so he was merely lip-syncing with the vocalist behind the scenes, but you couldn’t make out the difference, because the sounds were synthesized & the music was so good, that you were absorbed in the enjoyment. The reason your bf was even in the band in the first place is because he was his brother. You initially doubted the brother, but after he proved everything to you, you came to the realization – your bf is a cheat! He just lied to you about himself being so great, just because he wanted to love you. And needless to say the brother is heart-stricken with disappointment as well.

In this situation what would you do next?

1.Dump your boyfriend immediately because he lied to you & then get away from both of them.
2.Calm down and still stick with your bf, realizing it’s too late – you have already given your heart away to him.
3.Dump your boyfriend immediately, but after a period of time start dating his brother, as he is very talented and good-natured.

2007-01-29 17:09:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-29 17:09:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it true at one time greece women were more hairy than other women

2007-01-29 17:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do both do something different with your own kids like going to the movies and ect? Or should you do things all together has a new family?

2007-01-29 17:07:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This makes me sound like a psycho, but I CANNOT stop thinking about this guy I have a crush on. Seriously, I think about him at least once an hour and he is always at the back of my mind. I think about him even when i don't want to. It's really bugging me because I'm not sure WHY i even like him that much. I don't stalk him, but I'm totally obsessed with him!
What can I do to make it stop!?

2007-01-29 17:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has a warrant, she is pregnant, they both do drugs. He is violent, and she is In Love (in lust really), she wants to better her situation, WITH HIM... What advice would you give her?

2007-01-29 17:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by topsecretwrappers 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 17:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by akhter 1 in Friends

i know her from since seven years she is my good friend too

2007-01-29 17:06:57 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Friends

Hi, My name is Faith and I'm looking for women from Houston, TX who want to be my friend. I'm not usually a social person because I'm kind of laid back, opinionated, outspoken, shy, etc. I'm from New Orleans (Hurricane Katrina) but I don't have any family members out here except for my husband & his brother, my sis-in-law, and niece, etc. I want my own friends who have the same interests like me: surfing the web, shopping, reading, writing, TV, radio, etc. I'm looking for female friends who are black, white, etc., who are married or dating, from 18 yrs. of age to 40. I'm 19 yrs. old and married. *Please no rude comments please, I'm reaching out here.*

2007-01-29 17:06:51 · 2 answers · asked by Dimples 6 in Friends

We are seeing each other for an year and always have a nice time when we are together .But my girlfriend keeps browsing internet dating sites regularly ,even she entertains if any of her ex-flings call her.When she is caught she says that its normal in most of the couples.She even keep looking at any handsome man passing by if we are together.She always try to say that I am paranoid but I am sure she flirts often.Can anyone suggest me what should I do ?Is this a sign of a cheating partner?

2007-01-29 17:06:23 · 13 answers · asked by CuriousGeorge 1 in Singles & Dating

I was so hurt to find out my boyfriend used porn.. He says he does'nt anymore but he does not seem to have any sexual desire for me.

I am frustrated, doubtful, shy to be naked because he does'nt look at me anymore like he used to. I feel it is not me that he wants, but a young, new, and "not hurt" woman. I feel that he thinks I am beautiful, but intellectually. Like.. She is very beautiful.. but I love porn !!!

I have talked to him about it and he tells me that there is always a tension, that he cannot "always" look at me. (I do want so much of his attention because I know es given it to lots of women), and he does'nt feel like having sex with all that tension.

I am so hurt.. and I don't know how to be sexy anymore, or initiate sex. If I do get sexy for him, I am sure he will be receptive (maybe because of his guilt feeling)..

Is it possible for a man to lose his desire.. and have it again..Or is it like when love dies, it's over ? Any ideas how I can get my confidence back?

2007-01-29 17:06:11 · 1 answers · asked by knightie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone knows the cliche aphrodisiacs, so please, something else. Something interesting.

2007-01-29 17:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by William M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 17:04:01 · 2 answers · asked by Krambala 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy I like but the thing is, I'm kind of scared to ask him out because I don't know what he'll say. i know him quite a bit, we've been talking for a while but I've never told him how I feel. i feel kind of bad because i got some pics of him and he doesn't even know it but I want to know if anyone else thinks he's cute. but i'll only do it if you guys want to rate him.

2007-01-29 17:03:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They were having a relationship for nearly one year. You told him to dump her because you two have a young child together. But even after he "dumped" her, he seems to be very obsessed with her, wants to talk to her, etc.

This is happening to my friend right now... what would you do in that situation?!

2007-01-29 17:01:25 · 25 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm only in HS so i know its different in college, but i'm sick of trying to figure out who likes you, i might just be single for a while.

2007-01-29 17:00:45 · 15 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so We have been dating for 3 years in Feb and she is a little on the insane side. After a year, i broke up with her to have some fun over the summer. I flirted with this girl, but my girlfriend and i got back together before anything happened with the other girl. Now my girlfriend is making this other girls life a living hell. She teases her and calls her names, and this girl did nothing to my girlfriend. My girlfriend forbids me to talk to her. Is this reason enough to end a 3 year long relationship? (I am 17 and a senior in high school)

2007-01-29 17:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by mike w 1 in Singles & Dating

I was going with this guy, short of. I thought everything was going okay, meaning that I thought we were going somewhere. He send me 24 yellow roses and when we ment, he brought me the cuties teddy bear. Before we ment, we would talk on the phone. He would tell me all these wonderful things...like, he doesn't cheat, used, play, or anything, because he thought that was totally wrong. He said he wouldn't do that to someone. I believed him. He would come to my place and hang out. We would cuddle and everything. He took me to the movies one time. That was the only time he took me out. We always hang out at my place. On my 23rd. birthday, I lost my...you know with this guy. Then, like 6 days after that....we rented a room and you know.... I swear everything was going perfect. But, the next day.... he told me that the dating isn't going to work out. I was in shocked, because the day before...we spent like 6 hours together in the room.

2007-01-29 16:57:08 · 13 answers · asked by graduation_girl2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was so hurt to find out my boyfriend used porn.. He says he does'nt anymore but he does not seem to have any sexual desire for me.

I am frustrated, doubtful, shy to be naked because he does'nt look at me anymore like he used to. I feel it is not me that he wants, but a young, new, and "not hurt" woman. I feel that he thinks I am beautiful, but intellectually. Like.. She is very beautiful.. but I love porn !!!

I have talked to him about it and he tells me that there is always a tension, that he cannot "always" look at me. (I do want so much of his attention because I know he's given it to lots of women), and he does'nt feel like having sex with all that tension.

I am so hurt.. and I don't know how to be sexy anymore, or initiate sex. If I do get sexy for him, I am sure he will be receptive (maybe because of his guilt feeling)..

Is it possible for a man to lose his desire.. and have it again..Or is it like when love dies, it's over ? Any ideas how I can get my confidence back? Thx

2007-01-29 16:56:37 · 1 answers · asked by knightie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would someone say they are somewhere else? Like my b/f will tell his cousin and sister when they call him on his cell phone, that he is at home or "near by" or down the street, etc. rather than telling them he is at my house...
This to me means he is betraying me, and that they must know something I do not know, and he is afraid they might tell the other g/fs that he sees me....or vice-versa...
I asked him why he does that....he never did that before. He had a good explanation, and said pretty much it is not any of their business anyway where he is. And that if they know where he is they may show up at my house looking for him- that basically they do not need to know where he is..
am i making a big deal out of nothing?? It hurts my feelings when he does this, should it? It seems like he is denying me and the fact that I am anything to him at all...don't denial and betrayal go hand in hand?

2007-01-29 16:56:30 · 1 answers · asked by teresaannburr 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay well I have this teacher in college, and he touches people all the time, both guys and girls. He puts his hand on ur shoulder, while hes standing behind you. Or if he gets a real happy moment he might hug you and I get the feeling if I would hug him back he might cry with joy. But I don't. Other times this teacher acts kind of depressed and sad. Myu question is, why do some rare teachers do this (put their hand on you), while others teachers are so stiff and no personality that they barely look at u, let alone want to touch you? What kind of personality will cause a teacher to want to touch his/her students not in a sexual or provacatative way? But just in a warm way.

2007-01-29 16:55:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my freind was dating this guy ok. and anyway he dumped her for some other chick, the other chick got preg and he kept calin my freind sayin he hates the preg one and wants her back. so the other night , he called her and confessed his treu love for her and that he thinks of her all the time and etc.. while his babys mother was in the hopstial who just gave birth!!! wth??

2007-01-29 16:53:37 · 18 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Singles & Dating

This guy I use to date is gorgeous... the bad thing is.. he knows it!!!! It makes me so mad that he knows he could get any guy he wanted, and proved that by cheating on me.. with like a bagillion diff guys... He hurt me SO bad.... I wish he could hurt as much as me.... do you think the old saying "every dog has its day" is true?.. do u think maybe he will become horribly maimed one day?... or... what could i do to make him think hes not that attractive....

I just need something.... to mke him feel ugly, and not worth it....

2007-01-29 16:53:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I confessed to this guy and turns out he liked me more.
Now we've been together for about a month, and he's already talking about our future.....but we are only 16. Do all guys talk about this kind of stuff once they get a girlfriend?

2007-01-29 16:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by minoru 2 in Singles & Dating

Gahh my guy is always sooo tired.

2007-01-29 16:51:18 · 35 answers · asked by cutie pie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Suppose you were a big fan of a musical band - there were two main stars in this band - the lead singer & the keyboard player, both of them are brothers. The singer is a tall and handsome guy and he sings with so much passion that gets cheers from all the fans – and you are like totally attracted to him & eventually you both meet and fall in love. You get to know that not only is he the lead singer, but also the music composer & lyricist, wow! The chemistry between you two is increased tenfold & you both pursue a serious relationship.

Now, this guy's brother - the keyboard player is kinda ugly and a bit fat; but a very good guy at heart. He has deep feelings for you, but decides to keep away from you and not to get involved in your matters, as you’re dating his brother. But one day, by chance you meet this brother, & strike up a friendly conversation. Everything goes well until all of a sudden you get shocking news………

The main person responsible for the working & success of the band was not your bf, but the brother! The brother was the guy responsible who composed all the songs, wrote the lyrics & even arranged the vocalist for the songs!!! Your bf didn’t do anything; he was merely lip-syncing with the vocalist behind the scenes because his voice was terrible! The reason your bf was even in the band in the first place is because he was his brother. You come to the realization – your bf is a cheat! He just lied to you about himself being so great, just because he wanted to love you. And needless to say the brother is heart-stricken with disappointment as well.

In this situation what would you do next?

1.Dump your boyfriend immediately because he lied to you & then get away from both of them.
2.Calm down and still stick with your bf, realizing it’s too late – you have already given your heart away to him.
3.Dump your boyfriend immediately, but after a period of time start dating his brother, as he is very talented and good-natured.

2007-01-29 16:51:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 16:50:54 · 5 answers · asked by goodquestion 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated me after neraly 15 years of happly married life. After his lover decided to go with her husband, he felt broken heart. We two decided to live seperately from the next April because of our special case, it means that we still live together in our house until next April. Since we agreed that we are friends, our relationship now is happy. Despite I decide to live seperately with him, I still like him. But now his lover usually call him to meet and consult her with her family problems. They usually meet together and I know that it is his privacy, but I am hurted very much. Am I still love him? What should I do? I have to live with him until next April, what should I do? I also want my family in happy asmostphere and I know he want it too, but just for friends. I don't know what to do? Please help me. Thank you very much for your help.

2007-01-29 16:50:42 · 17 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend says i have no respect for woman when i do i just want to tell her but dont know how.

2007-01-29 16:50:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends