He has a warrant, she is pregnant, they both do drugs. He is violent, and she is In Love (in lust really), she wants to better her situation, WITH HIM... What advice would you give her?
2007-01-29 17:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by topsecretwrappers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop the drugs for the baby sake. Grow up cause you not a child anymore the baby inside you is. Do you want your child to live in this situation? Where daddy is violent and a criminal? ask her these questions. Then in a calm manner tell her you love her and only want her to think hard about this. You understand she is in love and only want the best for her. Then tell her to again think of the baby first then answer those questions.
good luck I hope it all works out.
2007-01-29 18:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the guy? What kind of happiness can become of all this chaos? Is this girl really going to endure herself into this kind of dysfunctional relationship? This girl needs desperate attention because there's going to be a new life coming soon. And I'm sorry to say that kids are screwed up in their lives PRECISELY because of these types of parents. You know the screwed up depressed kid down the street? Yeah, he's like that because of his parents! Fix the mother, and the fixed mother can better nurture the baby. And the fixed mother can come to her senses, realize the potential damage, and kick the guy out the door. Too violent to kick? Get someone else to help her and intervene! Lay off the drugs, give the boyfriend or husband a kick in the noggin, get some professional help and search for something more healthier for your friend or whoever...or you.
2007-01-30 01:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Woofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do, she has to want to make a change, and it doesn't sound like she is willing to give up all the bad habits in her life, unfortunately the law will probably take away her child if there is drugs in her system as well as the baby's, as for the boy friend, Who knows . You can not do any thing, so do not frustrate yourself,
2007-01-30 02:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, get off the drugs you have a child to think about,Second get out of this situation you think he'll quit being violent just because you're pregnant,Contact a trusted responsible adult a pastor,mom somebody to help you out get away from this guy until he cleans up his act but clean up yours first
2007-01-30 01:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by sassygrrll7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off the drugs, see a therapist, get help for your baby's sake, and get rid of this guy no matter how you feel about him maybe even take out a restrainting order so he can't hurt u or the baby
2007-01-30 01:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋